The first time your wife fucked another man

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Originally Posted by SXMCOLover

If the guy is better hung than the husband, do you think that it would create a desire for someone who has the same large long equipment going forward, or would it not matter?

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The guy can be better hung, even have more skill, but can never be better or make a desire for others more than your husband, as long as you are really in love. Because when your in love, no one can be better, because no one can touch that place that your true love touches, hence the sex is always best with the one you love.
Have there been cases of women wanting other men, leaving husbands, for sure, but not as high as most people think, and I would argue that they were never truly in love.
kitten likes certain types of men, and when she finds them, mmmmmmm, watch out. But once you realize that the guy can't be as good as you because she is in love with you, that's the point that the husband can relax, watch and enjoy it as well. Win/Win for everyone.
Cop..
P.S. kitten likes a nice size package on a guy, lol.

For us, it does not matter. Mrs. HJ actually doe not like overly large equipment.

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Originally Posted by SXMCOLover

If the guy is better hung than the husband, do you think that it would create a desire for someone who has the same large long equipment going forward, or would it not matter?

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Originally Posted by SXMCOLover

If the guy is better hung than the husband, do you think that it would create a desire for someone who has the same large long equipment going forward, or would it not matter?

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If a woman based her entire relationship on the size of a guy's unit, then I would question the long term viability of the relationship. You can't put a number on the size that someone loves you. You know that when you've met the right person nothing else matters.

What has size got to do with pleasure and fun? A fuck is multi dimensional and the dick is only one small part of the whole. In quest for variety all sizes have their own fit.

Thanks for all you advice and feedback. What you shared will relax hubby and we'll both enjoy the playing. Hopefully we'll meet the right couples for our fantasy. :sex:

If your husband looks half as good as you, it wont be a problem finding partners
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Cop..

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Originally Posted by CopNkitten

If your husband looks half as good as you, it wont be a problem finding partners
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Cop..

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He's lost 80 pounds over the last couple of years and down to the weight he was when we married after college. He doesn't have the head of hair he had when he was in college. I don't know many men who do. But he is a better lover than ever, lasts longer and gives me multiple orgasms all the time. He rocks my world more and more.

Sounds like someone I want to introduce to kitten ;)
Cop..

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Originally Posted by CopNkitten

Sounds like someone I want to introduce to kitten ;)
Cop..

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We'd like to meet both you. Do you ever go to Desire?:cool:

No, never been.
Hedo every April with the group and we try and squeeze a second trip in if we can, this year its over New Years.
Cop..

I couldn't agree with you guys more....if you are in love, the size and skill of another guy shouldn't threaten your relationship. I was hoping to watch Kim take a huge one while at we were at Hedo in August. It didn't happen but the whole Hedo experience has really done something for our sex life! Maybe next time☺

There is always the possibilities of next time ;)
Cop..

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Originally Posted by CopNkitten

If your lady is truley in love with you, the bad result can never happen.
Simply because sex with someone that you are not in love with can not be better than with the person you are in love with.
The guy can be bigger, go longer, have different techniques, but it wont be "better".
And if it is, they were not truley in love with you.
Can't make it any simpler than that.
Cop..

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We'll said! Sex and love are not the same thing. Having sex in love is way more of an intimate connection, while straight raw sex is just for sexual pleasure.

Thanks, just the way I see it.
I like sex with other women, I love having sex with my kitten ;)

Cop..

Sex with other is merely a transaction - you give, you get and go on to the next. It is like eating out - variety is the spice of life and they come with different spices. have fun!