The first time your wife fucked another man

[HedoJoe]

To each his own but I can't see anyone who gives a massage and then fucks a woman as being professional.

[sexylady]

It depends on what is in the package and how transparent the transaction is? If it was acquired with a fuck attached, then not getting it is unprofessional - whether paid or unpaid.

[CopNkitten]

That's what the man thinks, and would like in a male dominated society to happen. You got it, societ conditions women to be prewired for his purposes. It is actually the other way around. Think of it, a woman can have sex same as when she is 18, for legal reasons not before and at 100. Most men lose it by 45. My wife has tried to fuck 20 men at Hedo, where barely 10 could make it. They all gave great oral, which served the purpose, took oral, were hard and then could not keep it for the full course. All of them were in their 40's and 50's. All that I am saying is that it is social conditioning to keep women in control, they are more prewired to have multiple sex partners. I hope all women will give up those notions and open themselves up (pun intended) to have a fulsome sex life and give their husbands the pleasure to watch them enjoy sex with other men. I have learnt some men don't like another man watching and therefore lose the hardness - as a consideration to them, I am present to watch my wife, but stay invisible and join in only if invited.

<------ 50 and has not "lost it", lol.
honestly I don't think it's age, but more a mental thing, kitten has encountered this many times, unfortunately.
Cop..

[funfree33]

spot on

[tigger69]

This is the biggest suprise I have read in this website: a guy being offered another's wife, and not keeping an erection? But I have heard this from our full swapping friends. Now, the wife and I have agreed that full penetration (safely, get to know the guy, etc) is now an exciting possibility for both of us. How do WE avoid this disappointing flop? For her playmate as well as myself?

[sabinaandscott]

Viagra...a wonderful recreational drug. However: encounters are usually very late at night, after copious amounts of alcohol. and even the best EDF drugs cannot overcome the "complications" of imbibing too much before hand.

[sc_gators]

To each his own but I can't see anyone who gives a massage and then fucks a woman as being professional.

Interesting to be judged on this website, but the term "professional" wasn't actually referring to his massage skill. In fact, many of the masseurs on St Martin are not really professionally trained massage therapists....they have other skills.

Money well spent.

[sexylady]

What I was saying is that I guy can lose it for many reasons - for a guy even when the mind says yes, the body too must say yes. This could be for various reasons - distraction, sudden loss of appetite, too much drinking or drugs, using a condom or any other environmental factor. For a woman once the mind is ready, regardless of age, the body is ready. Imagine filling in gas. If there is no gas in the sump, the nozzle (man) will not dispense, but regardless of how full the tank (woman) is, it will receive, it may overflow (squirting, LoL) but it will receive. So I was agreeing that a woman in bed is much stronger than a man and lasts much longer in age (forever) than a man. No need to panic though, individuals differ and differ at different times.

[HedoJoe]

As I said, to each his own. We just don't have any need to PAY others to have sex. We can find enough couples that want to do it for free.

Interesting to be judged on this website, but the term "professional" wasn't actually referring to his massage skill. In fact, many of the masseurs on St Martin are not really professionally trained massage therapists....they have other skills.

Money well spent.

[cplinmb]

It started with the vibrator and now to my liking she surprised me by playing with the John Holmes dildo. I was shocked and turned on to see her little 118 pound body take it like a champ. I think I would love to see her stretched and enjoying a real big cock like that. I know she would never see that person again unless we ran into them at a resort like this again.

[N&A]

For me (the husband) it is all about the wonderful feeling of giving...love at it's best...it's not about that other guy, but about my wife enjoying it while looking at me and saying "thank you"...

[SXMCOLover]

So once you've had a man other than your husband, does that give the desire to want to try another, and then another? After your first experience with another man, does that make your desire for your husband even stronger?

[mac_r_a]

So once you've had a man other than your husband, does that give the desire to want to try another, and then another? After your first experience with another man, does that make your desire for your husband even stronger?

I found once I got into the lifestyle and had sex with other men it made me want and appreciate my husband even more as he can please me in a way no one else can. I don't think it really makes me want to be with others "more", it's just now we know it is a possibility so it is different - but in a good way

[CoupleInMD]

Mr. CoupleInMD here. We recently experienced our first full swap with a very nice couple we met through SLS. I was a little concerned about whether Mrs. CoupleInMD would want to go through with it. But when I saw her getting naked, then going down on the other guy, and soon bending over the side of the bed to get fucked, I felt good and proud of her for cutting loose and embracing the experience. And when I heard her moans of pleasure, it sent me through the roof! I definitely enjoyed watching her getting fucked by another guy, both as a physical turn-on and feeling proud and happy for her.

CoupleInMD

[SXMCOLover]

If the guy is better hung than the husband, do you think that it would create a desire for someone who has the same large long equipment going forward, or would it not matter?