The first time your wife fucked another man

[pbartell]

Couldn't have said it better...and why we still, after almost 40 years together, continue to grow, explore and have amazing sex together!

Here's the thing, though, guys and gals...it isn't about what *I* find hot. Sure, my wife fucking another guy I approve of is hot. Watching her go down on another woman is hot. Watching her give a BJ is hot.

BUT, if it wasn't something I knew SHE wanted, something she actually enjoyed, it would be meaningless to me. See, there's the rub. Ultimately, my wife being with another woman, man, or couple, and me doing the same, is about US. Not me. If you go into the lifestyle as a team, we believe you stand a much better chance of not only surviving,but thriving; reaching heights you never thought possible. If you go into for what YOU - and not your partner - wants, you will fail. Every time.

So, COMMUNICATE. Talk about your deepest fantasies. Then fulfill them...TOGETHER.

That's our two cents.

[LovingLeocouple]

Ultimately, my wife being with another woman, man, or couple, and me doing the same, is about US. Not me. If you go into the lifestyle as a team, we believe you stand a much better chance of not only surviving,but thriving; reaching heights you never thought possible. If you go into for what YOU - and not your partner - wants, you will fail.

Hear! Hear! Good advice.

[wylieboater]

I have to say that watching Sammy having sex with someone else or giving a BJ is one of the biggest turn on's for me. I love watching her getting all hot and riding another man and it is such a different perspective of sharing and getting to know her. We have been together for several years, but the discoveries watching her with someone else are endless. LOVE IT if you cannot tell.

[Midwestcouple86]

Our first time was fantastic. It was with my best friend. My wife was so sexy and as it went on you could tell she gave way to the sexuality of it. I found my self just sitting back and watching. It was live porn. We have done it several more times and it never gets old to watch.

[STL-MO-CPL]

Our first time was fantastic. It was with my best friend. My wife was so sexy and as it went on you could tell she gave way to the sexuality of it. I found my self just sitting back and watching. It was live porn. We have done it several more times and it never gets old to watch.

Was it at home or at Desire? Either way, sounds like you enjoyed it.

[tigger69]

We recently met a nice couple I shall call Suzie and Ron, and shared dinner, and thought they were not swingers, just lovely people. A couple of days later, we met Suzie in the pool, and she seemed much more affectionate, and I noticed that Ron was in another pool and getting a lot of attention from a number of ladies. Noting to the wife that they clearly were players if not swingers, we both did our best to make Suzie feel appreciated. As a diversion and because drinks do run out, I toddled off to the bar for refills. The wife asked Suzie if they would consider a full swap and they had things settled before I got back. Good girl this one. She let me know and our attentions to Suzie accelerated appropriately. Within a few minutes I had Suzie riding my cock in the pool; my first intercourse with another woman since meeting my wife of 35 years. Sweet! The wife then decided that she needed to attend to Ron and proceeded to dismiss the other ladies and pleasure him by hand, lips and tongue. After a while of oral play amongst all of us (at poolside, exhibitionist, what?), I suggested we move to our private hot tub. With nerves fluttering and hardons waving, we walked over to our room and slipped into the tub. Within minutes the wife was sitting on Ron’s lap, grinning with lust. I asked if he was inside her and she said “Oh, Oh, yes!” I grabbed Suzie and sat her on my cock for a few amazing minutes where we could each see the faces of our spouses and the new friend fucking them. After a few minutes of pushing waves out of the hot tub, we moved to the bed. It took only another minute before Ron was pounding the wife’s pussy like crazy. I was mesmerized watching this other man’s cock sliding in and out of my wife’s pussy that had never known another man’s dick. It was awesome to watch the multiple positions (including Suzie diving in) and hearing my wife’s groans of ecstasy. After viewing from a few angles, Suzie and I fucked like bunnies. We all screwed for a long while until everyone was worn out and sat and giggled and played before separating to dress for dinner.
Suzie and Ron were both our juniors and seriously cute. Ron is a charming black man with a huge dick and all the fucking was, um, bareback. Hell of a start to our full swapping experiences. Some protection would have been wise, but we have seen no problems.

[AntnCleo]

This thread is awesome - makes me feel completely normal because the idea of my wife being thoroughly fucked by a godlike guy with a huge cock and seeing her love it is about my biggest fantasy! She found this thread and directed me here, saying that clearly it's not that weird at all! When she first responded to the idea a couple of years back I immediately sourced us a guy and we had an MMF. But it was a bit of a disaster. There was no denying that she adored a stranger's cock in her - she was physically overwhelmed and the way her body responded was about the sexiest thing I've ever seen. But emotionally she was wracked with guilt and retrospectively metamorphosed the event into something horrific, so much so that she can't speak about it. But for me I still retain those incredible images of my gorgeous other half curled up around a guy like a dying spider, clawing at his buttocks with her feet up around his neck! For me he was a toy, but she felt like she had cheated on me.
But there is no doubt we rushed in way too fast.
Slowly we have revisited the idea over the last two years and she now feels far more comfortable and aroused by the idea, so we are tentatively looking to try it again, but not to repeat the mistakes of the first time (lots of these, over ridden by all-consuming horniness are the time!) We've been to Hedo three times since, not swung but loved the environment and now see it as the "essential" holiday of the year (back at Easter again?)
Most important we think is finding the right guy - a nice toy we can play with.
One thing we have thought is that a bi or bi curious guy might make for a more comfortable and less threatening experience for her - even though I don't have gay tendencies. But finding a hot bi or bi curious guy near enough to meet up isn't easy.
For the experienced swingers - any opinion on this? You're all pretty close in an MMF and some intimacy and closeness between the guys is hard to avoid(?)
We also had a soft MFF at a club (complete surprise to me ! We were looking for a guy but she didn't see any she liked but spied some Aryan minx and suddenly wanted her instead!) we love sex clubs too, but we are only into this for each other. We are so madly in love and have such an amazing sex life and enjoy experimenting. No threat there for me.

[SXMCOLover]

My husband has this fantasy about me with another man with a large cock. I'm afraid it would hurt. I guess I should find someone that's average. I know how much he pleases me when we have sex. It would be great to match up with another couple so I can watch him enjoy himself and drive the other woman to ecstasy. Maybe the next time we're at Desire.

[HedoJoe]

It would be great to match up with another couple so I can watch him enjoy himself and drive the other woman to ecstasy. Maybe the next time we're at Desire.

That is what we love about the lifestyle. We get to watch each other being pleasured. You never know when you will learn something new.

[sunmoon1219]

There is nothing like watching the wife in throes of passion and lust. When the chemistry is right its like watching the hottest porn scene live. plus it stars the woman you love and cherish! we love the to share her and all her wordly charms.

[Canadapaula]

What has size got to do with pleasure and fun? A fuck is multi dimensional and the dick is only one small part of the whole. In quest for variety all sizes have their own fit.

Exactly, or I would be a very lonely person!

[TrishNYC]

My husband has this fantasy about me with another man with a large cock. I'm afraid it would hurt. I guess I should find someone that's average. I know how much he pleases me when we have sex. It would be great to match up with another couple so I can watch him enjoy himself and drive the other woman to ecstasy. Maybe the next time we're at Desire.

Thats what we like about swinging, matching up with another couple and watching each other get pleasured. btw, great profile pic!

[sunmoon1219]

we love it. we much prefer her having someone new. we do full swap as well, but are very male friendly.

[fun4T&J]

We are returning to Hedo in August or October 2016. We were there when we were much younger. We discussed my wife being with another man or an mfm with me. The thought excites both of us. She does not want to go to a local swing club. We are returning to turn the fantasy into reality.

I enjoyed reading the posts.

[stuccoman]

we love it. we much prefer her having someone new. we do full swap as well, but are very male friendly.

I hear ya. We have done full swap and are open to it but in all honesty I have not played with a woman that comes anywhere near my wife sexually. I have found over the last 5 years that adding another man to the mix is so much more fun than swapping out rides. For me its like trading my Farrari for a Hyundai almost every time....So I just figure we got 2 seats in the Farrari, why dont we just both ride it