The first time your wife fucked another man

[CopNkitten]

Swinging is like life, some people just make it more complicated than it has to be
Cop..

[The Timidtwo]

Actually, Cop, that's a perfect way of looking at it. When the Mrs. and I decided to try full swap, what we learned was this: It's as big a deal as you make it. We made it no big deal between us, so it has never been a big deal for us.

[T and J]

So very well said timidtwo - cheers

[Calicouple4335]

I am very interested in going to a adult resort either in Mexico or Jamaica any picks for first timers. We love the sun and fruity drinks and possibly some natural 420 smoke but what we are really looking for is some added pleasure for my wife a few Good Hung men to join in a make her have a wonderful vacation.We have talked and would like to travel during the season when a lot of Italian and European men travel out to the islands for fun. We have had our first experience of a young Bull joining us but thought it would be best on a vacation catering towards adult fun.SO any input would be great as we are need of some time away in the sun soon.We are in the Philadelphia area so in case you know of any parties in our area as well I'd love to hear back.Our first experience with my wife enjoying the pleasure of another man took place this year 2014 about 6 months ago.We had run a post on Craigslist and set up a email address that is not her personal one and she was flooded with emails from many men who sent us a few photos and some idea as to their interests and a brief description of themselves she chatted with about 4 guys and settled on one. Single Football player stocky guy and after about two days of them chatting she gave him our address and he came to the house.We had moved a mattress down into our living room and set up two Go Pro cameras and filmed the entire event for her and I and gave him a copy as well.I watched for most of the time as he had pleasured her for about 4 hours until she waved me over so she could enjoy me while he continued to enjoy her on her knees . It was amazing to watch her in such pleasure and I am happy I had brought up the idea as she clearly enjoyed it and I am open to make it happen again and again for her.I love to buy her Wicked Weasel Bikinis and a vacation to a adult resort gives me a perfect excuse to buy her some new ones.So any input is great input.Sunny whether and some young Hung Men for my Hotwife We are 43husband 35Hotwife

[mac_r_a]

Hedonism is the spot then. 420 is rare to find in Mexico believe it or not

[Jamaica Joe]

I am very interested in going to a adult resort either in Mexico or Jamaica any picks for first timers. We love the sun and fruity drinks and possibly some natural 420 smoke but what we are really looking for is some added pleasure for my wife a few Good Hung men to join in a make her have a wonderful vacation.We have talked and would like to travel during the season when a lot of Italian and European men travel out to the islands for fun. We have had our first experience of a young Bull joining us but thought it would be best on a vacation catering towards adult fun.SO any input would be great as we are need of some time away in the sun soon.We are in the Philadelphia area so in case you know of any parties in our area as well I'd love to hear back.Our first experience with my wife enjoying the pleasure of another man took place this year 2014 about 6 months ago.We had run a post on Craigslist and set up a email address that is not her personal one and she was flooded with emails from many men who sent us a few photos and some idea as to their interests and a brief description of themselves she chatted with about 4 guys and settled on one. Single Football player stocky guy and after about two days of them chatting she gave him our address and he came to the house.We had moved a mattress down into our living room and set up two Go Pro cameras and filmed the entire event for her and I and gave him a copy as well.I watched for most of the time as he had pleasured her for about 4 hours until she waved me over so she could enjoy me while he continued to enjoy her on her knees . It was amazing to watch her in such pleasure and I am happy I had brought up the idea as she clearly enjoyed it and I am open to make it happen again and again for her.I love to buy her Wicked Weasel Bikinis and a vacation to a adult resort gives me a perfect excuse to buy her some new ones.So any input is great input.Sunny whether and some young Hung Men for my Hotwife We are 43husband 35Hotwife

Great true story! Hedo 2 is the place for you both, then! 420 is available and not frowned upon, as long as you are courteous of others who are nonsmokers and limit your use to private rooms, and to open areas away from the main pavilion and the outdoor bars (like the beach or nudeside hot tub).

Because Jamaica is a British commonwealth country with direct flights from London, Toronto and Montreal, you will find that most of non-U.S.A. guests at Hedo 2 are from Canada and the UK. I have talked with German, Dutch, Belgian, Russian and other European couples at Hedo 2, but they are usually not present in significant numbers like the Canadians and Brits.

[HedoJoe]

Great true story! Hedo 2 is the place for you both, then! 420 is available and not frowned upon, as long as you are courteous of others who are nonsmokers and limit your use to private rooms,

All of the guestrooms at Hedo are NON SMOKING and they will assess a fine if there is any evidence that you were smoking in a room.

[loverstriangle3]

I couldn't agree with you guys more....if you are in love, the size and skill of another guy shouldn't threaten your relationship. I was hoping to watch Kim take a huge one while at we were at Hedo in August. It didn't happen but the whole Hedo experience has really done something for our sex life! Maybe next time☺

Deana would love to help you out with this wish you have. Only I'm not packing 8" Eric....she have to settle for 6.5inches for me. Deana gets off on watching me please a woman.

[Erich&Kim]

Deana would love to help you out with this wish you have. Only I'm not packing 8" Eric....she have to settle for 6.5inches for me. Deana gets off on watching me please a woman.

Now your talkn'!! I'm sure you two would give Deana and me quite the show!

[Nolines]

First time for us came after a half dozen laughable attempts. Dinner and wine, food took to long more drinks, then comped a bottle of wine. Much too much for my lovely wife to drink. She rode with guy, I rode with his wife back to their home. I got a great blow job along the way and missed our turn into his gated community. Finally got there to see wife with yet another drink. Big mistake buddy. We hotbed and felt around in the water and by the time it was time to get into bed all four of us, my wife got sick. She did not throw up in bed but did not make it all the way to the bathroom.
Too bad, she felt embarassed, naked cleaning up her puke. Both of us guys kept consoling her and telling her it all OK. Well it wasn't. The guy was great, he was a Man of the Cloth that had another side. He tried to hook up with us many times over the next few years but my wife never got over the embarrassment.
Next time we went at it with far much licker and had the time of our life. We discussed just how far we would go that first time and set some ground rules, maybe about ten. Well we had so much variety of fucking with this other couple and it was on our wedding anniversary to boot, I think we broke at least nine of the ten rules we had both agreed on. It was all good. seeing her with another cock in her mouth while I fucked her was surreal, even more so watching her feet in the air scratching for the moon while our new long time friend fucked the stars into her eyes. His wife was battling a no win situation with my interest in watching my wife get it while trying to show my partner the attention she deserved. Later in our experiences I came to understand why seperate rooms is far more enjoyable for the ladies.
If you are interested in more details or would like to share yours, drop us a line at SoYKnotat gmail. Wish i could figure out how to post a picture or two here. Nolines

[S&B]

We are booking a trip for October this year. I'd love to see my wife give a bj and have sex with everyone in the hot tub stretching all of her holes.image.jpg

[tenpoint2002]

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[LovingLeocouple]

I love watching my wife fuck and suck other men. It's like live porn starring the sexiest woman I know who I love more than anyone else on the planet. When playing separately at a party or club as we now allow each other to do, I sometimes get a bit jealous if I'm on the sidelines without someone to play with while she's playing - not that she or the guy are doing anything wrong or that I worry she might enjoy herself with someone else more or some other self imposed mind-fuck-shit like that - but rather because I wish I could get the same amount of attention from women as she does from the men (ok...and women too..lol). That's just the nature of the game though and I accept that. For instance, recently she pointed out a guy she thinks is hot (and even I admit he's a good looking guy) and wham! Before I knew it, she was sucking his cock. I was a bit nervous about that at first, but I hadn't even met the guy. Once I did have a chance to talk to him, I found him to be a really cool dude who treated her and me with respect and I was like "y'all should fuck". She has a great deal more self confidence than I do and it serves her well. I've never let this cause any drama between us or felt the need to stop her from enjoying her experience. I want her to enjoy herself just as much as she wants me to enjoy myself...she's just better at going from "hello" to "let's play" than I am. I'm usually stuck looking for some kind of signal of interest from the women I talk to before making any advances instead of just putting myself out there and asking if they'd be interested in playing at the risk of being turned down. I am just very concerned about being too pushy or too forward - and, of course, don't want to be turned down. But if you don't risk that, you'll never get anywhere. I'm getting better at that. In couple play, I used to find myself feeling a bit competitive with the other guy if we were swapping partners and didn't like it if he could go longer than me or had a bigger cock than me or both, but with more experience I got more relaxed about that. It helped that as we had more experiences I got to be the guy that could go longer or had the bigger cock or both from time to time. Doing my best to make sure the woman I'm playing with has fun and leaves very satisfied regardless of whether that is by fucking her, eating her, fingering her, and/or using toys helps with this a whole lot too. I suppose that there will always be those women out there who only have a good time if your cock is seven inches or more or who you can fuck as long as a pornstar and it's totally OK for them to have their preferences - I know we have ours. We're a lot better at figuring that out ahead of time now and selecting playmates that meet our style of play better - people who are wanting it to be a fun and pleasurable experience who we can joke around with and laugh with while we're playing. Much less serious than the people we originally tried hooking up with who were much more into something akin to passionate love-making than just a roll in the hay. We now avoid couples when we get the impression that they are looking for something they're not getting at home or who are confidence-building before leaving their current partner or who are only going to enjoy the experience if it goes exactly the way they want it to. We call it playing for a reason - for us it's about having a fun time.

[CopNkitten]

for us it's about having a fun time.

Again, kinda simple. As simple as this.
Cop..

[The Timidtwo]

Here's the thing, though, guys and gals...it isn't about what *I* find hot. Sure, my wife fucking another guy I approve of is hot. Watching her go down on another woman is hot. Watching her give a BJ is hot.

BUT, if it wasn't something I knew SHE wanted, something she actually enjoyed, it would be meaningless to me. See, there's the rub. Ultimately, my wife being with another woman, man, or couple, and me doing the same, is about US. Not me. If you go into the lifestyle as a team, we believe you stand a much better chance of not only surviving,but thriving; reaching heights you never thought possible. If you go into for what YOU - and not your partner - wants, you will fail. Every time.

So, COMMUNICATE. Talk about your deepest fantasies. Then fulfill them...TOGETHER.

That's our two cents.