Too Many Agressive Single Males?

**W&K** · 07-31-2014, 01:36 PM

Originally Posted by Daveman34286

Not the case I am a single male have been to Hedo 9 times I'm not pushy or aggressive at all. People would say I am very well behaved. I know my place at Hedo and have never been the part of any situation. Many of the employees know me and will vouch for me. Hedo is about feeling free and doing what you want to do when you want to no judgment. Trust me you will fall in love with the resort if you are even thinking of entering that atmosphere :-) . Go and enjoy you might want to worry more about the married guys :-)

I`m with you Dave... Married guys have caused more problems than single ones. My wife and I make many friends and never judge until somebody does something to piss us off. Haha ... It`s never happened with a single guy. :-)

**W&K** · 07-31-2014, 01:49 PM

Originally Posted by peteheat

Geez, how about drunken married men or over enthusiastic bi women? Most single male veterans know their place. Stop stereotyping

Agreed... And funny you should mention that... The ONLY time someone pushed themselves on us, was an over-anxious bi-woman who was very drunk. It was more funny than uncomfortable. We just stayed friendly with her and made sure she didn`t fall and hurt herself. :-)

**Dave_Houston_TX** · 07-31-2014, 04:43 PM

What percentage of the guests are single males?

**phillygirl22** · 07-31-2014, 05:00 PM

There is no way to know that.

**cands** · 07-31-2014, 05:06 PM

If there is a takeaway from this thread its that most of us have anecdotes about people who misbehave, be they single males, married males or the lusty bi women. The other takeaway would be that the vast majority of people comport themselves well and that really inappropriate behaviour is rare.

**tjsoftail** · 07-31-2014, 05:07 PM

You can have aggressive people anywhere....those who go regularly to events know how to behave..but even then, manners are forgotten with alcohol, etc...be polite, if they need to be reminded of manners then so be it.
Nothing that a little humor can't usually extinguish

**LexSCCpl** · 07-31-2014, 09:13 PM

The last time were there in October there were 3 single men. Two of them were nice and respectful. The third was creepy and was put into his place by several husbands/partners. There are creepy people in all situations, but at Hedo not only my husband but other men that were with women look out for you!

**sexylady** · 07-31-2014, 10:29 PM

Personal experience is we have more single men as friends, than any other. They are very respectful, always attentive, and know when to come over and when to leave. The ones we don't know are the ones that stare and never get to say hello. I guess they are also nice, just not up to it. This time we are going to say hello to the staring type and see what happens. Will share that around.

**46to10** · 08-01-2014, 09:09 AM

We've never had any issues with overly aggressive single guys. We've had more than a few issues with overly creepy single guys. As others have said, the single guys that have been in the groups we have traveled with have been fun, considerate and respectful. Creepy single guys apparently like to travel alone. Go figure. As others have noted, it seems like some of the overly aggressive behavior has come from the married guys.

We've never experienced this phenomenon of overly aggressive bi women. What weeks are they at Hedo? Where do we sign up?

**W&K** · 08-01-2014, 03:02 PM

Originally Posted by Dave_Houston_TX

What percentage of the guests are single males?

Ya, tough one to answer... In all of our trips I`d estimate that number to be pretty small... Like 3% maybe? But there could be higher numbers at other times, I`m just going by what my wife and I have seen.

**W&K** · 08-01-2014, 03:10 PM

Originally Posted by 46to10

We've never had any issues with overly aggressive single guys. We've had more than a few issues with overly creepy single guys. As others have said, the single guys that have been in the groups we have traveled with have been fun, considerate and respectful. Creepy single guys apparently like to travel alone. Go figure. As others have noted, it seems like some of the overly aggressive behavior has come from the married guys.

We've never experienced this phenomenon of overly aggressive bi women. What weeks are they at Hedo? Where do we sign up?

Hahaha... Like I said, it was more of a funny situation than anything else.

**W&K** · 08-01-2014, 03:16 PM

Originally Posted by tjsoftail

You can have aggressive people anywhere....those who go regularly to events know how to behave..but even then, manners are forgotten with alcohol, etc...be polite, if they need to be reminded of manners then so be it.
Nothing that a little humor can't usually extinguish

Right on the money... One thing for anyone who might be worried about it... Don`t... It`s such a rare thing if anyone gets out of line. Pretty much 100% of the time its a lot of smiles, fun, laughter, naughtiness, etc. We all watch out for each other. :-)

**details024** · 08-01-2014, 04:03 PM

And if anyone gets out of line, there are so many awesome men that immediately put them in their place. Hedo is one of those places where if you ask politely for help you have 20 people wiling to help. If you yelled help, you would have 200 people running to help

**ShawneeKat** · 08-02-2014, 08:51 AM

Originally Posted by details024

Hedo is one of those places where if you ask politely for help you have 20 people wiling to help. If you yelled help, you would have 200 people running to help

You are 100% correct.