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    Newbie Hedonism questions?

    This is our first trip to Hedonism, and we are very excited! Have room on nude beach with hot tub. Kind of embarrassing, but we have some questions:
    1) Not saying we are going to, but where is it OK to have open sex? In nude pool, in nude hot tub, on nude beach, in main pool, in main hot tub, in plunge pool, etc?
    2) Do you recommend Beach front couples masage?
    3) What is the "romping shop"?
    4) What is the "For-play" club?
    5) Should we make a reservation at Harry's, Pasta fari, or Flame? Is it extra?
    6) What is the "Social Room"?
    7) For the Glow Pool party, I see from pictures that lots of people have on glow paint. If you want to put some on, is it supplied, or do you have to bring it yourself? And can you jump in pool with it on?
    8) Is the Toga and Foam party two separate parties? Do people change going from one to the other?

    Appreciate your input!

    We are putting out an open invitation for anyone that wants to join us, in our hot tub!!

    Jennifer & Mitch
    June 5-12

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    1. Depends, usually at night it is accepted, during the day security may stop you. Guests do not care and may stop to watch.
    2. We prefer to get massages in the spa, the beach ones you hear the music, people talking etc. when we get them we like to zone out. But, many people get them on the beach. Choose what you like.
    3. I think the romp shop is the gift
    4. The play club is the play rooms. There are 2. During
    the day there is a play room by the pool 2beds. At night a large playroom opens up by the spa. It is hit or miss.
    5. No resvation needed, first come first served. All restaurants are included eat where you choose.
    6. Never heard of the social room.
    7. We do not bring glow paint, pain to put on. Some do. We bring glow sticks and wear glow clothing. Nobody will stop you jumping in a pool if you have paint on, but it is frowned on by both staff and guests.
    8. Toga used to be the night, now not so much. Many people just wear white. No need to change for the foam party, if they have it...just because it is listed does not mean it always happens. Wear what you have on or stop down.

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    7) For the Glow Pool party, I see from pictures that lots of people have on glow paint. If you want to put some on, is it supplied, or do you have to bring it yourself? And can you jump in pool with it on?
    8) Is the Toga and Foam party two separate parties? Do people change going from one to the other?

    If you want to paint yourself, bring paint. If you want others to paint YOU, bring paint. Paint is not necessary as glow sticks and reflecting clothes or UV is good enough (and sometimes more 'interesting'. It's all about stranding out while fitting in.

    Unfortunately (In our opinion) the Toga party has declined in interest and involvement. The simplest white (flimsy, revealing) toga is best. Don't bother will bringing a 'costume'. Keep it simple and (for her) revealing as hell.

    If the Foam party happens, you'll want to be divested of a costume. Go naked or go some place else. Too many outsiders in full swimsuits sometimes. Spoils the 'potential' of a fun event. Often we've headed to the hot tub to find a more sociable group of people.

    Over the years the group vibe has diminished as smaller take-over groups have dominated. Some have been somewhat exclusive.

    I'm expecting some of that will change under the new management, new staff, and many 'old hands' not visiting for a couple of years. What was the norm a few years ago is certainly changing. Let's see/hear how the new setup looks/sounds -- once more of us can visit.

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    1; Do Not have sex on the beach. Wayward sand can ruin your vacation. Also, at night, sand fleas come out. The main pool, never a good idea. The private plunge pools and "fuck huts" that are out of the way probably won't be an issue unless it's marathon sex and very vocal. Nude pool/hot tub, a bit more acceptable late at night. Again, do long as it's not an opera of marathon sex. The cave (fornicave) that's more acceptable during the day than most places.

    2; I have found beach side massages to be distracting.

    7; if you bring glow paint, put it in the window for optimal glow. It needs light/sun to create the late night glow.

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    1. Pretty much anywhere. Just go for it. The worst that will happen is you will be asked to stop. I've done it several, even during the day, never had any problem.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JacknJill122 View Post
    This is our first trip to Hedonism, and we are very excited! Have room on nude beach with hot tub. Kind of embarrassing, but we have some questions:
    1) Not saying we are going to, but where is it OK to have open sex? In nude pool, in nude hot tub, on nude beach, in main pool, in main hot tub, in plunge pool, etc?
    2) Do you recommend Beach front couples masage?
    3) What is the "romping shop"?
    4) What is the "For-play" club?
    5) Should we make a reservation at Harry's, Pasta fari, or Flame? Is it extra?
    6) What is the "Social Room"?
    7) For the Glow Pool party, I see from pictures that lots of people have on glow paint. If you want to put some on, is it supplied, or do you have to bring it yourself? And can you jump in pool with it on?
    8) Is the Toga and Foam party two separate parties? Do people change going from one to the other?

    Appreciate your input!

    We are putting out an open invitation for anyone that wants to join us, in our hot tub!!

    Jennifer & Mitch
    June 5-12
    Open sex is pretty much OK, especially at night. Our tip for nude beach sex at night is to bring a little Avon Skin So Soft. Fun to apply to your partner, your sun burned skin will thank you and it will keep any bugs away. Fun in the pool and hot tub is OK but your fellow guests will appreciate it if you finish somewhere else.
    Didn't do the beach front massage but others who did it spoke highly of it.
    I thought the Romping Shop was the playroom but as others have suggested, maybe it is the store. They are next to each other. Never heard of a Social Room or For-play club.
    We didn't need any reservations for the restaurants. There is no extra cost.
    We just returned and it seemed like the theme nights had only light participation. Fetish night more than so the others and a few togas. Some of the groups did their own theme nights. The foam party is not being done. Some people wore their "outfits" during dinner. Others changed afterward. No rules, do what you prefer. Saw some glow stuff and body paint. Bring your own paint. Have a shower party to clean the paint off, not the pool

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    Thank you for your comments, we appreciate the advice!

    Please feel free to introduce yourself, at Hedo! We love to make new friends, especially ones that join us in our hot tub!! All are invited!!
    Jennifer and Mitch

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    This really pushes me to try it by myself

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    To try what?

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