provocative discussion topic(s)

would you say a large percentage of the single men @ hedo are well-endowed?
would my wife have to make the first move (shy/submissive)?
has anyone seen spanking or hairpulling in public?
is another woman fisting my wife in public crossing some line? public anal sex?

I would luv to see my wife "taken advantage of" by 2 well hung "strangers" in a late night hot tub escapade...she sits across from me, they sit on either side of her...eventually I see the toes on one foot raise out of the water, then the other foot raised (they've got her in the splits, doing god only knows what under the bubbles). (i go on a drink run). when i return, she's sitting on one guy's lap, with her tits in the other guy's face, arm around his neck, as she "needs him for support."

Is the above scenario completely possible/likely at hedo?

Almost anything is possible, especially at night in or around the hot tub.

As far as well endowed single men, well its like anywhere else, some are, some not so much.

Have seen public anal on the swinging beds during the day, 2 guys taking turns, have not seen any fisting going on, but maybe I missed it.

We definitely have seen plenty of public spankings -- especially during November's Kink Week, but other times too. It's not so often, but it definitely happens.

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Originally Posted by wifedates

would you say a large percentage of the single men @ hedo are well-endowed?
would my wife have to make the first move (shy/submissive)?
has anyone seen spanking or hairpulling in public?
is another woman fisting my wife in public crossing some line? public anal sex?

I would luv to see my wife "taken advantage of" by 2 well hung "strangers" in a late night hot tub escapade...she sits across from me, they sit on either side of her...eventually I see the toes on one foot raise out of the water, then the other foot raised (they've got her in the splits, doing god only knows what under the bubbles). (i go on a drink run). when i return, she's sitting on one guy's lap, with her tits in the other guy's face, arm around his neck, as she "needs him for support."

Is the above scenario completely possible/likely at hedo?

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WOW!!! I guess if you planned it out with some willing partners you could make it happen.

As for Spanking, I have been... OOPs seen plenty of that around Hedo.

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Originally Posted by wifedates

would you say a large percentage of the single men @ hedo are well-endowed?
would my wife have to make the first move (shy/submissive)?
has anyone seen spanking or hairpulling in public?
is another woman fisting my wife in public crossing some line? public anal sex?

I would luv to see my wife "taken advantage of" by 2 well hung "strangers" in a late night hot tub escapade...she sits across from me, they sit on either side of her...eventually I see the toes on one foot raise out of the water, then the other foot raised (they've got her in the splits, doing god only knows what under the bubbles). (i go on a drink run). when i return, she's sitting on one guy's lap, with her tits in the other guy's face, arm around his neck, as she "needs him for support."

Is the above scenario completely possible/likely at hedo?

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1. Yes and No
2. She should pick out who she wants to play with.
3. I spank in public all the time ;) and love to pull hair
4. Not crossing the line at all.
5. Not seen anal in public, but why not, its Hedo.
6. Talk out your fantasies with who you choose, I am sure it won't be a problem.
Paul....

You know, there are always possibilities at any time..especially in the hotub late at night. What I suggest is to have a chat before that time to make sure you know what is ok and what is not. For us, we both manage what happens in real time and if it has to stop , it has to stop. Even if you are drunk you have to play safe...its deadly otherwise::dif::

Thanx everyone for the comments/advice. That tag team public anal sounds like quite a time, nekkidP. :creepy: where does one keep the rubbers, BMJP? lol

I guess we assumed that single guys in a largely couples environment would have to bring something extra appealing for the ladies, hence the endowment Q. Wife fantasizes about a big one(s), not so much for the feeling of it/them as for the thought of it (or so she says ;)) When pressed, she admits she craves being well fucked by well hung on occasion...something about being stretched and sore brings a smile to her face (what a hot little slut she can be ;))

As the wife and I talk about things, I get the feeling she will be hesitant to play the initiator (perhaps once we get into the Hedo mood down there things might be different), and it is a turn on of mine to see how far she'll let things go, but I'm sure things will work themselves out if we wing it. :)

Hedo does have a way with making what was once, an outside chance, quite a real possibility.

Good luck with yours.

are specimens like this :male: a common occurrence at Hedo? got this from a post of a single guy bound south...funinthesun

wow, i like you wife's fantasy, sounds fun, i too would probably like that, i better put down the computer and get my husband to bed right now!!

Wifedates, you sound like my hubby! He would love to see me with another well endowed man!

i guess it's a shared fantasy of ours. Is this not a common occurrence down there, or does this fall more to the swingers-type week(s) activities? trying to get a feel for when we should go. although i'm sure there are always a few lurkers :male: in the wings.

another of her fantasys is leaning over and whispering to me in the tub what and whom is doing what to her (under the bubbles) on the other side or across from her...pretending like nothing is happening, as she tells me how big it is, how hot he's making her, how bad she wants to do X with it (them?), etc. naughty gurl...I luv my slutty wife:)

i can't give input if it is common or not, my husband and i have only been to hedo on a night pass, so this is our first trip. i would hope that it is an option. and by the way, you are very good at describing yours and your wives fantasies, i better call my husband to bed again!

April, from lots of erotica surfing i can say the MFM interest is fairly popular...not as much as FMF or FFM, but i'm hopeful:lucky: BTW: would luv to see that P tatt...my wife hasn't found the right one yet, and we're always looking for ideas.

funlover, i better slow down on the fantasy revelations or u and the hub wont ever get any sleep :sex:

just for a nightcap: I don't know if this is possible in the tight knit environment @ hedo where I imagine everyone has at least seen everybody else, but she would like to pretend to be single sometime: we arrive at the disco separately; she accepts a few dance offers, getting bolder and bolder with what she lets them get away with...letting them pull her skirt up, revealing her ass to his buddy and the rest of the crowd as he manhandles her cheeks. on her way to the ladies room she sneaks over to tell me how great this one felt rubbing against her stomach, so long it poked out the top of his shorts. I check the oil, and she's dripping wet in anticipation. when she goes back on the floor, both guys start sandwiching her in what can only be described as a dry hump of dancing. the next potty break, she comes out and nonchalantly stuffs her soaked thong in my hand as she passes by and blows me a kiss. next thing i know she's winking back over her shoulder as the three of them head out to the hot tub....

Geez, this guys should write porn or at least keep sharing here.

I hope you guys are going to Hedo when we are. LOL

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Originally Posted by wifedates

April, from lots of erotica surfing i can say the MFM interest is fairly popular...not as much as FMF or FFM, but i'm hopeful:lucky: BTW: would luv to see that P tatt...my wife hasn't found the right one yet, and we're always looking for ideas.

funlover, i better slow down on the fantasy revelations or u and the hub wont ever get any sleep :sex:

just for a nightcap: I don't know if this is possible in the tight knit environment @ hedo where I imagine everyone has at least seen everybody else, but she would like to pretend to be single sometime: we arrive at the disco separately; she accepts a few dance offers, getting bolder and bolder with what she lets them get away with...letting them pull her skirt up, revealing her ass to his buddy and the rest of the crowd as he manhandles her cheeks. on her way to the ladies room she sneaks over to tell me how great this one felt rubbing against her stomach, so long it poked out the top of his shorts. I check the oil, and she's dripping wet in anticipation. when she goes back on the floor, both guys start sandwiching her in what can only be described as a dry hump of dancing. the next potty break, she comes out and nonchalantly stuffs her soaked thong in my hand as she passes by and blows me a kiss. next thing i know she's winking back over her shoulder as the three of them head out to the hot tub....

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I posted a pic of the tat in the Real boobs and butt thread ;)

wifedates, when are you guys going to hedo??

April, luv the naughty devil outfit...goes with that baby smooth shave (laser?) either way, yummy. couldn't quite make out the detail on the tatt, but nice placement :creepy:

we've had the thought that my wife should get a magic marker "tatt" or tatts from creative/devious types in interesting areas on her body...perhaps she'll surprise me (now what position would she have had to be in, exactly, for him to get that inked so well?:rolleyes:) As our profile pic shows, her one fling was a serious deviant, and staked his claim well on her inner thigh, and was nice enough to leave a note for me above her formerly tight pussy about what he did. perhaps some of those temporary tatts would be fun @ hedo...kinda like WWII ace pilots who painted a record of their conquests on the side of the plane. and we're dying to try body painting...have considered a trip to Key West's FantasyFest, just for that.

don't know yet when we'll make it down to hedo...have a family cruise on tap, and some other obligations, but as soon as we can, for sure.

Thanks! The tat is basically to back to back C's with a curved line going through the center. I drew it up because I was messing around with my husbands and kids names (all start with C except for our youngest child whose name starts with S... but she came later). I like to have my tats in areas that you only see if I want to show you. I did have to pull my pants down to my knees in order to get it done.

Wow, it really looks like that guy threw it to her... that's some mark!

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Originally Posted by april

Thanks! The tat is basically to back to back C's with a curved line going through the center. I drew it up because I was messing around with my husbands and kids names (all start with C except for our youngest child whose name starts with S... but she came later). I like to have my tats in areas that you only see if I want to show you. I did have to pull my pants down to my knees in order to get it done.

Wow, it really looks like that guy threw it to her... that's some mark!

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april, personalized tatts mean so much more, don't they...such a cool idea. also like those peekaboo tatts...maybe just give a hint at what lies below:rolleyes: bet that tattoo artist took an extra long time (considering the great view), to get it just right:creepy:

as far as that mark and her lil fling, a great time was had by all...i was gone at the time, but very much enjoyed her relaying the finer points of her online seduction and nervous commentary about how she didn't think she could go through with it. then afterward, gushing about how great it was, all the various and sundry naughty details...and video and pix to boot. i can't tell you how many times we've enjoyed a good rehashing of that exxxperience. :sex:
http://www.4hedonism.com/forums/imag...3&type=profile

the key was definitely the guy (kinky, deviant, hung, but above all, funny), and we hope in hedo's case, the people, whom we get the opportunity to interact with. everyone on here talks about the great "vibe" that hedo exudes...we look forward to catching it.