I would love to watch Kim take another cock. I'm hoping she'll take the plunge next year at Hedo. What was it like the first time for your wife? Was it all you thought it would be?
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I would love to watch Kim take another cock. I'm hoping she'll take the plunge next year at Hedo. What was it like the first time for your wife? Was it all you thought it would be?
I think it's different for everyone. Me personally I was never jealous so it was hot for me to watch.
I like my kitten to enjoy herself, if its with me or someone else, just seeing her have pleasure I enjoy.
But for me what really gets me off is watching her give another guy a BJ, for some reason that is more hot than watching her have sex.
But it's all good.
Though we have seen some guys thought it was what they wanted but when it happened they could not handle it.
Be sure if you get those feelings you stop it right away, and let her know why you stopped it. Better to stop right away than bad feelings later.
There is everything from total enjoyment (me) and others have ended up divorced over it.
Sounds like your ready though, so it should not be a problem for you guys.
Is Kim ready for it, what does she think about it?
Cop..
I am more than ready for it to happen! Lol Kim fantasizes about it, and wants it to happen with the right guy. I have been in several threesomes where I was the guest....loved every minute of them! Now I wanna be the one who shares MY wife with someone. That's been a fantasy of mine long before I got married. Previous girlfriends never really got into the idea. Kim gets off on the idea, but is reluctant to do so.....shy. Thanks for the advice!
it seemed like a good idea at the time.
My wife has fantasies about this and so do I. I have wanted to watch her with another man for years but only recently found out she has had this fantasy also. She wants to be with a well hung younger man and really gets turned on by the thought of being with a well hung black man. We have looked at porn and read erotic stories and lately find ourselves reading or watching interracial erotic material. I just want to see her with a well hung man. We have some experience swinging but only with other women. I ready to see her with another man but she is still hesitant. When we go to Jamaica we are looking to meet single men or couples. My particular fantasy is to see her get a sensual massage that develops into full sex. I must admit that thought of her sucking some Jamaican Bamboo during the massage is even hotter.
When we decided to have an open relationship my wife started seeing and meeting several men whithout me so I wasn't present when the first man outside of our marriage fucked her.. Later we started doing threesomes and meeting couples and then I did get to see her getting banged. It was and is a hot sight seeing your wife getting fucked by another man. But I agree with Cop here, for me its even hotter seeing her going down and sucking another mans dick than actually having it in her pussy.
Wow, this has been my fantasy for a long time. We actually had an experience a couple of year ago and it was ok, not all great for her because at one time I left the room for about 10 minutes and she though I was upset, which upset her. We've had a lot of communication since that first time and I'm hoping we can experience it again. She did mention we should bring condom's to Hedo, however I am fixed, so it didn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that there is always that possibility it may happen again :-)
Happy Wife Happy Life! She celebrated her birthday in style with a young BBC and young lady that drove her crazy/wild and into orbit! Gotta agree with Cop watching her take a BBC down her throat was very erotic!
The best part of the whole evening has been talking about it and how hot it was!
The next time it's my turn!!! :-)
The first time I watched Mrs. HJ fuck another guy, I was next to her fucking the guy's wife. It was all good!
I don't know but I do love to see her beautiful pussy stretched over a nice cock its so hot to see. and yes I am usually next to her licking or fucking his wife as well. good times
I love to watch my wife and be involved with either her or another woman at the same time. The 1st time however was not as smooth as I felt things would go but we learned a lot and have been with multiple people multiple times.Quote:
Originally Posted by Erich&Kim
Holy cow! That's pretty hot. Best of luck to you two.Quote:
Originally Posted by rennie69
We started out with a simple BJ, and "go".........explained everything up front to the lucky guy who got the knobber of his life. Finding the right guy, taking the time to get to know a little about him (enough to make a semi-judgment on his character), was the most difficult part. We took video, and that was the second most difficult part. Keeping her understanding that the he side of the relationship was "just fine", and not commenting so as to not ruin the moment or vid!!
"Lucky guy" behaved like a complete gentleman, and she behaved like a complete whore!
Everyone thoroughly enjoyed the entire thing!
Once edited, we even sent a short video clip for him to remember her by.
Of course, years have gone by, and she wants to try someone really big (he was huge....10" and very thick) inside her, but have lost contact with the guy we would choose for that. (Said 10" Mr. Nice Guy).
We discussed it at length, (both before and after) on numerous occasions, and adventured out to try other things as well. We "eased" into the "lifestyle", and while we fantasize and talk about it a ton, there are very few practical opportunities for us to play these days. We play when we can, though the rules we have set, and discuss constantly, are also very much adhered to.
Communication, patience, and unconditional love have been the key to our successful realization of so many fantasies for both him and her.........and more yet to cum.
Good luck!
Sounds like you guys know what's up. Recipe for success!Quote:
Originally Posted by S_and_D
It took us time. And then it happened. First time, the guy could not hold his hardness, so it kind of did not happen. The 2nd time same thing. we were about to give up. But the next 6 nights wonderful guys, just one night stands, no holds barred , no questions asked. Pure Fuck. He fucked, she moaned and fucked, she came, he came and she came, I watched and considered my self lucky to have such a sexy fucking wife. Our love life just went up 100 notches above. Looking forward to more during Goddess week March 2014.
the first time it happened for us was at an adult book store in the arcade after that we planed things out, and set things up as opposed to the random partner. now we prefer super hung guys she loves it and looks beautiful when receiving. Colorado home of the free!!!!!!!!
The first time we experienced that was at Hedo some years back. Like others have stated, it was very hot and erotic to see! The other male was very respectful, took his time and knew exactly what his role was. In our opinion it is important to spend a few days getting to know the guy. Have a few cocktails, a few laughs and chat. It all seems to work out in the end.
It was one of the erotic nights of our life.
When we first got into the "lifestyle" it was because my wife is bi and we wanted her to explore what it was like being with another woman. After a seriously great year and a half with a female friend of ours (yes, a unicorn), we decided to try couples. We met a great couple, and after several months of hand/oral play, and girl-girl play (soft swap for those who know the term), we decided to try "full swap" (cross-couple intercourse). We had jitters, concerns, worries, etc, but we talked a LOT before and after. When we first started the sex, I looked at her and we quickly determined that we were both fine, which was easy because of all the communication we'd already had about it.
Short answer: it's as much of a "big deal" as you make it, and if you can get beyond initial weirdness/jealousy, it's amazingly hot to see your partner with someone else - male or female - but the most basic things you need are trust, communication, honesty, communication, openness and communication.
WhoooooWeeeee! There are some HOT stories bring told here as well as some great points and advice. The wife still hasn't made the plunge yet but we just got the ultimate toy for our fantasy threesome:-)
Well Erich, maybe if we're down the same week as us we can show you some pointers. ;)
Sounds awesome!
We did a 3some with a friend of ours for the first time and it was ok.
Everyone was a little nervous.
But a few times later we did a couples swap and I saw my timid wife take the guy and throw him on the floor and rode him like a bucking bronco.
It was so hot, I had to stop what I was doing with his g/f just so I could watch.
Cop..
Dang! That would be HOT!
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Originally Posted by CopNkitten
Yes it certainly was
Cop..
I might be wrong but I think deep down every guy fantasize about his women fucking and sucking another man. Most will never admit it. Jealousy issues.
We have been talking about it for few years. First time I mentioned it while we were fucking, she pretty well kicked me off the bed. She's never been with another man except me. She still not agreeing to it but we role play and pretend to be fucking other people. She tells me about celebrities that she would like to screw because she know we will never meet them. I hope we are going in the right direction.
I think women are pre wired by society to be one man woman and they just can't get over it.
Well, to be clear, while I have NO problem with a guy (in a couple we like) fucking my wife, it is ultimately her decision, and I'm NOT ok with just any guy doing it. The key phrase is "a guy I like" - we both have veto power - and for the most part the ones that try the least to get into her pants have the best chance of making it there. Still, when it happens, yes it is hot. Especially when she's riding them hard. The look on her face alone is enough to get me hard as a rock.
I the male here am courious from a womans point of view what is it about another man. Seems like once they do go forward its turns them into a wild sex kitten. Is it the idea of being a bad girl to say or just letting go ?
Both.Quote:
Originally Posted by 4us2
Sharing her is a hidden fantasy, mostly of mine. Will see if it happens during our trip to Hedo.
First time my hubby saw me give another guy a bj, it bothered him a little...you know like 60 whole seconds before he had the wife on him then all was well !! LOL
bad girl or letting go? I think it can be so many varied reasons -- if you think about it, you are a different person with every partner you have--it's all about the chemistry!!
For some reason I am slightly jealous of her past relationships but the ultimate fantasy for me is to see her with another guy. The thought if that turns me on like crazy as long as I am at least watching. Should the little bit if jealousy I do have be a deal braker for it actually happening? Should we just keep that a fantasy?
Jealousy always can play a part.
Just make sure up front all parties know if anyone is not comfortable they can put a stop to it, with no hard feelings.
Problems arise if you don't communicate that up front.
Always be up front and honest.
Cop..
Stupid computer posting twice, lol.
Cop..
& that's why we remain soft swap..I wanna be in on that action. Besides she is Bi anyway so....love our threesomes too! Male/femaleQuote:
Originally Posted by CopNkitten
Everyone needs to know their own comfort level.
I love watching kitten give bj's.
Cop..
I will second that!Quote:
Originally Posted by CopNkitten
It's mostly my fantasy but she likes the idea a lot too.....
Where does that lineup begin... gotta be around here somewhere... ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Erich&Kim
Not sure, but I'll save ya a spot....LOL!Quote:
Originally Posted by SamAndRose