Couldn't have said it better...and why we still, after almost 40 years together, continue to grow, explore and have amazing sex together!
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Couldn't have said it better...and why we still, after almost 40 years together, continue to grow, explore and have amazing sex together!
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Originally Posted by The Timidtwo
Hear! Hear! Good advice.Quote:
Originally Posted by The Timidtwo
I have to say that watching Sammy having sex with someone else or giving a BJ is one of the biggest turn on's for me. I love watching her getting all hot and riding another man and it is such a different perspective of sharing and getting to know her. We have been together for several years, but the discoveries watching her with someone else are endless. LOVE IT if you cannot tell.
Our first time was fantastic. It was with my best friend. My wife was so sexy and as it went on you could tell she gave way to the sexuality of it. I found my self just sitting back and watching. It was live porn. We have done it several more times and it never gets old to watch.
Was it at home or at Desire? Either way, sounds like you enjoyed it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Midwestcouple86
We recently met a nice couple I shall call Suzie and Ron, and shared dinner, and thought they were not swingers, just lovely people. A couple of days later, we met Suzie in the pool, and she seemed much more affectionate, and I noticed that Ron was in another pool and getting a lot of attention from a number of ladies. Noting to the wife that they clearly were players if not swingers, we both did our best to make Suzie feel appreciated. As a diversion and because drinks do run out, I toddled off to the bar for refills. The wife asked Suzie if they would consider a full swap and they had things settled before I got back. Good girl this one. She let me know and our attentions to Suzie accelerated appropriately. Within a few minutes I had Suzie riding my cock in the pool; my first intercourse with another woman since meeting my wife of 35 years. Sweet! The wife then decided that she needed to attend to Ron and proceeded to dismiss the other ladies and pleasure him by hand, lips and tongue. After a while of oral play amongst all of us (at poolside, exhibitionist, what?), I suggested we move to our private hot tub. With nerves fluttering and hardons waving, we walked over to our room and slipped into the tub. Within minutes the wife was sitting on Ron’s lap, grinning with lust. I asked if he was inside her and she said “Oh, Oh, yes!” I grabbed Suzie and sat her on my cock for a few amazing minutes where we could each see the faces of our spouses and the new friend fucking them. After a few minutes of pushing waves out of the hot tub, we moved to the bed. It took only another minute before Ron was pounding the wife’s pussy like crazy. I was mesmerized watching this other man’s cock sliding in and out of my wife’s pussy that had never known another man’s dick. It was awesome to watch the multiple positions (including Suzie diving in) and hearing my wife’s groans of ecstasy. After viewing from a few angles, Suzie and I fucked like bunnies. We all screwed for a long while until everyone was worn out and sat and giggled and played before separating to dress for dinner.
Suzie and Ron were both our juniors and seriously cute. Ron is a charming black man with a huge dick and all the fucking was, um, bareback. Hell of a start to our full swapping experiences. Some protection would have been wise, but we have seen no problems.
This thread is awesome - makes me feel completely normal because the idea of my wife being thoroughly fucked by a godlike guy with a huge cock and seeing her love it is about my biggest fantasy! She found this thread and directed me here, saying that clearly it's not that weird at all! When she first responded to the idea a couple of years back I immediately sourced us a guy and we had an MMF. But it was a bit of a disaster. There was no denying that she adored a stranger's cock in her - she was physically overwhelmed and the way her body responded was about the sexiest thing I've ever seen. But emotionally she was wracked with guilt and retrospectively metamorphosed the event into something horrific, so much so that she can't speak about it. But for me I still retain those incredible images of my gorgeous other half curled up around a guy like a dying spider, clawing at his buttocks with her feet up around his neck! For me he was a toy, but she felt like she had cheated on me.
But there is no doubt we rushed in way too fast.
Slowly we have revisited the idea over the last two years and she now feels far more comfortable and aroused by the idea, so we are tentatively looking to try it again, but not to repeat the mistakes of the first time (lots of these, over ridden by all-consuming horniness are the time!) We've been to Hedo three times since, not swung but loved the environment and now see it as the "essential" holiday of the year (back at Easter again?)
Most important we think is finding the right guy - a nice toy we can play with.
One thing we have thought is that a bi or bi curious guy might make for a more comfortable and less threatening experience for her - even though I don't have gay tendencies. But finding a hot bi or bi curious guy near enough to meet up isn't easy.
For the experienced swingers - any opinion on this? You're all pretty close in an MMF and some intimacy and closeness between the guys is hard to avoid(?)
We also had a soft MFF at a club (complete surprise to me ! We were looking for a guy but she didn't see any she liked but spied some Aryan minx and suddenly wanted her instead!) we love sex clubs too, but we are only into this for each other. We are so madly in love and have such an amazing sex life and enjoy experimenting. No threat there for me.
My husband has this fantasy about me with another man with a large cock. I'm afraid it would hurt. I guess I should find someone that's average. I know how much he pleases me when we have sex. It would be great to match up with another couple so I can watch him enjoy himself and drive the other woman to ecstasy. Maybe the next time we're at Desire.
That is what we love about the lifestyle. We get to watch each other being pleasured. You never know when you will learn something new.Quote:
Originally Posted by SXMCOLover
There is nothing like watching the wife in throes of passion and lust. When the chemistry is right its like watching the hottest porn scene live. plus it stars the woman you love and cherish! we love the to share her and all her wordly charms.
Exactly, or I would be a very lonely person! :)Quote:
Originally Posted by sexylady
Thats what we like about swinging, matching up with another couple and watching each other get pleasured. btw, great profile pic!:rockon:Quote:
Originally Posted by SXMCOLover
we love it. we much prefer her having someone new. we do full swap as well, but are very male friendly.
We are returning to Hedo in August or October 2016. We were there when we were much younger. We discussed my wife being with another man or an mfm with me. The thought excites both of us. She does not want to go to a local swing club. We are returning to turn the fantasy into reality.
I enjoyed reading the posts.
I hear ya. We have done full swap and are open to it but in all honesty I have not played with a woman that comes anywhere near my wife sexually. I have found over the last 5 years that adding another man to the mix is so much more fun than swapping out rides. For me its like trading my Farrari for a Hyundai almost every time....So I just figure we got 2 seats in the Farrari, why dont we just both ride it :)Quote:
Originally Posted by sunmoon1219
Most replies I read here mention qualities of the guy they want - handsome, Adonis-like, chiseled, muscled, hard, soft, large, small, black, white. I think half the fun is gone when you are looking for qualities - your choice of partners dwindles to nothing, you come with pre-cum that does not match the chemistry, expectations are dashed and instead of moaning there is some awning. We go with no preconditions. We both enjoy our own form of fun - me all sexed up and he the voyeur. Sometimes it is all three, and sometimes he sits out on the sofa. It all depends on the visitor - some of them don't feel comfortable having another guy up close and personal. No words are spoken, he just moves to the sofa at the corner and leaves the two of us to our own recreation. I have had all kinds, and the best moments have been the least expected. Some like to massage, some like to give and receive head, some like to suck toes, some invite him to join in. I just allow them to do whatever they want lay back and receive pleasure or take charge and let the visitor lay back, except anal. If there is heaven on earth - it is those 17 days in a year. There are no distinctions - plain simple ecstatic pleasure, with no conditions attached - of course once invited in. Enjoy the event, change the actor. All are welcome. Just my bit, no comment on what others like to do.
Confessions of a Cuckolding Wife
Friday, February 5, 2016
2:07 AM
As told by my wife.
What is cuckolding?
When a man makes another man a cuckold by having him have sexual relationship with his wife?
When a man's wife makes her husband a cuckold by having sex with another.
So whether the husband initiates the wife's sexual relationship or the wife initiates, the husband is the cuckold. There is no mention of husband watching them together, that probably comes from another story and not by definition.
The word itself comes from Old English and Old French word 'Cucuault' where Cucu means the bird cuckoo. The bird cuckoo never builds a nest and lays its eggs in other's nests, makin it an adulterer.
The first ever description of Cuckolding comes from the life of the Greek goddess Aphrodite. Here is a story about Aphrodite from mythology:
First of the Red-Hot Lovers: Aphrodite
Aphrodite, actually predated Zeus and the other Olympians. She rose from the sea foam created when Cronus—the father of the Olympians—threw Uranus's severed genitals into the sea.
The goddess of love, lust, and mating never had to do a bit of work. Indeed, she had no other responsibility but to make love—and that she did with abandon.
Aphrodite, who possessed a magic girdle that made its wearer an object of desire for everyone who saw her, was always happy to help young lovers. She took particular delight in causing her fellow Olympians to fall in love with mortals. (Zeus paid her back in kind by making her fall in love with the mortal Anchises—and conceive the hero Aeneas.)
Like the other gods and goddesses, however, Aphrodite also harshly punished those who refused to honor her properly (in her case, this meant celibates or others who withstood the pleasures of love). Hippolytus was just one of the mortals whom Aphrodite punished for denying himself erotic joys.
A Fine Romance?
Hera, reconciled with her son Hephaestus, arranged for him to marry the goddess of love. Zeus, Aphrodite's adoptive father, agreed. Unsurprisingly, the marriage of the enchantingly beautiful, sensual, and insatiable Aphrodite and the powerful, but gruff, ugly, and lame Hephaestus was not a happy one. Aphrodite could not confine her love to just one other. The goddess did not remain faithful to Hephaestus—not by a long shot. She had countless affairs with both gods and mortals.
The most long-standing and significant of all of Aphrodite's lovers was Ares. But one night, the lovers tarried too long together. As Helius hitched up his golden chariot of the sun, he saw the lovers in Ares' palace in Thrace.
What a Life!
When Helius told Hephaestus what he had seen, the smith god forged an unbreakable bronze net and secretly attached it to the posts and sides of his bed. Then he bid Aphrodite adieu, saying he was going to relax on Lemnos for a while.
As soon as he had gone, Aphrodite sent for Ares. When the morning came, Hephaestus walked in—“Surprise! Hi, honey, I'm home!”—and found the two ensnared in the net. The cuckolded god quickly gathered all the other gods at his bedside to witness the shame of the naked, helpless couple and to heap ridicule upon them.
Hephaestus then demanded the return of the marriage gifts he had given to Zeus. But the ruler of the gods refused, calling the adultery a marital dispute and ridiculing Hephaestus as a fool for making it a public spectacle. (Hermes and Apollo snickered that they would gladly make such a public spectacle if it meant lying with Aphrodite.)
With his first glance at the naked goddess, Poseidon fell in love. So the sea god suggested that Ares should pay for the marriage gifts. Poseidon gladly offered to serve as guarantor: If Ares defaulted on the payment, Poseidon would pay the price and take Aphrodite as his wife. Ares did ultimately default on the debt, but Hephaestus—still smitten with his wife—did not really want a divorce at all, so he never brought it up again.
With that in the background, my husband being smitten by Aphrodite, made me his own Aphrodite. I always thought that I was Venus, being Taurean, he needed an Aphrodite - an adulteress. It did not take me much persuasion to move over to becoming his Aphrodite. This obviously could not be done where ordinary mortals live, though it is becoming common place now - we have also read Jon Gross story. Hedo is the perfect place to live our cuckolding life.
Our rules:
At Hedo, whatever I say is final? No argument, no questions asked. I will be his adulteress wife as long as the only rule is not broken.
Both can choose who to approach, but my decision is again final. Come to think of it, I have not said no to anyone, except before we set on this path. On our first two trips, we were just getting used to getting naked and having sex in public, so the thought of a third person did not come to our minds. I was asked often enough, but not being a part of lifestyle, by the time we took the hint, it was too late. This happens even now. So our approach is direct. Everyone goes to Hedo for the similar reasons - so no harm in politely asking. Since we are of Indian origin, most people find us exotic and touch me not types during our first trips.
During our 3rd and last trip to Hedo 3, before it closed down, I was asked once in a direct manner. I allowed him to give me oral and some finger play, but things didn't go any further.
When we went to Hedo next year, I was ready to be approached. The idea was to do something at dinner time to look approachable. Encouraged by my husband the couple sitting with us started to feel me with people looking at me. Encouraged by my husband I actually allowed them to suck on my breasts at the table. Someone sitting around us had noticed and as we got into the hot tub later, he was there. Before I could say anything, I had spread my legs and he was giving me the most wonderful oral I have ever had. My husband is pretty good at it, but there is nothing like tasting the forbidden tongue. Having popped the cherry, there was thereafter no stopping me/us, but the going was not easy.
First Year: My husband arranged with someone through ATF for a sexy rendezvous. The guy sent pictures of all kinds and got us excited about our first cuckolding experience. There was also a second contact through ATF. Appointments were fixed. The first guy said was coming in only for 2 days, so the first two days were given to hm. The third day was given to the second person, with tight schedules. The first guy was probably a fake and never appeared. Haven't seen him in ATF since then. The second guy got tired of waiting and was not seen again. I started having doubts about cuckolding. Familiar questions - all the clichés and myths about what guys look for in women age, shape, color started clouding my mind and I almost gave up and did not wish to return to Hedo. However, some wonderful things happened the next few days that changed my mind and gave me a lot more confidence. Large bubbly bear became my friend. All he wanted was to massage me and give me oral. He did not/could not do anything else. Sometimes he took two Cialis to come and try and nothing could do it for him. What he did was to attract a host of other men to me at the hot tub by treating me like a princess and fondling men allover. He worked for my popularity. He became my Hedo husband. There was another kind man who was as gentle as Buddha. He would stare at my eyes for hours and give me oral for hours but never asked for sex. Only the next year we got into sex, and then he moved away with his new girl friend. We saw him a couple of times later, but he was now committed and is a good friend.
Second Year: This was not an adventurous year. Bubbly bear was now a constant. Wanted to give me massage and oral everyday. I like him, but it was stopping access to other interactions. I liked both him and Buddha and happy alternating between them. There were couple of other interactions, mainly soft in the hot tub area. I was not prepared to go to other's rooms or take anyone to our room. Life was getting to be rote - I was getting enough attention to not get any bolder. Buddha proposed sex and an initiation was made. First time I had had sex with another man - still a bit guilty of being a slut, but enjoyed it thoroughly and wished to do more.
Third Year: This was to be the make or break year. First time in our entire married life we were on a vacation without meeting of minds. He wanted his adulteress, I was becoming more and more conservative as I wanted men to come to me rather than we go to them. Three things started to work against us this time. A constant companion perceived to be not free for others. I was losing confidence that I was attractive to men for sex. As we go with the same groups and make friends with a few, we get tagged to them people tend to perceive the group as similar kind of people. We were having great fun with our group, but they were not into what we really were looking for. I didn't want my group members to see me doing something that they were not there for. I was losing my anchors. We got home losing interest in each other and the whole idea of vacationing at Hedo. For the first time we did not book for the next year and did not talk about it for the next six months, almost as if it is the end of a chapter.
Fourth year: We had to go back. We have never taken a failure in our relationship. My adulteress instinct and his cuckolding instincts started to raise their heads simultaneously and we had to talk. A summary of our agreement:
• During Hedo time, our hours are split daily - one hour for what he wants to do and 23 hours what I want to do
• He will scan and show me a likely interest target. If I am okay he will make the approach
• We go to his or our room
• Get away from our groups after afternoon siesta. The evening and night times are ours.
• No anal and no swallowing
And we went back at the same time. This was the real cherry popping trip. As always he booked a few appointments of interested men at the ATF. But no firm commitment from either side. Meet, greet and decide at the time and take it from there. Luckily, we did this, otherwise disaster was lurking somewhere. At 5 p.m. on our first evening our host comes to see us at the hot tub, with fear and nervousness writ large on his face and body. There is someone desperate to meet us and is built like a big football player. To him, looking at my petite body, looked like I would go back home with broken ribs. Indeed he was very big and very interested and we took him to our room with some apprehension. Gorillas are gentle creatures and more often than not all giants are gentle. Hew as very good at what he did and we had done what we came to do, without any hitches. There are ways to get your weight on others rather than taking their weight on you We were going to have a wonderful holiday.
We actually made two other strategic changes that worked for us. We would have sex either pre-lunch, pre-dinner or just after dinner. The main reason for this is that most of us are drunk after 11, libidos are generally lower, have other attractions to attend to and feel left out from the crowd between 11 and 2 if we are locked in our rooms. Libidos are low after 11 - what with all the activities during the day and evening. Those are our preferred times, but anything is possible at any time. Second we will change the holiday timing to make new friends and acquaintances and revel in new environments. They worked like magic.
This was our best trip. There was not a day when we were not with someone. There were so many offers that we had to regretfully decline. We decided to make it two trips a year. Primarily to take advantage of the 3 free nights as well as to get more of what we were both getting.
Do I need to say more. Now we are on our 6th year with two trips a year. We still make some appointments through ATF, have great friends and love everyone who goes to Hedo for whatever is their mojo.
Few anecdotes - one ATF connection we had a date with, but we did not arrive until next day due to flight disruptions. My husband met this very young guy from Turkey, asked him his interest and he accompanied us to the room. We made love for over an hour and became friends. My husband looked up the ATF next morning and found that he was the guy that appointment was made. My husband met him at the tennis court and asked him about his appointment with Sexylady. Was he embarrassed?
A young Frenchman under heavy influence of cocaine spent over 3 hours doing everything possible but could not ejaculate and so could not end. At the end I was reaching the end of my patience and asked him to watch my husband do it to me. Obviously my husband did not have to wear a condom, he wanted to lick me dry after that. I would have nothing of it, and he reluctantly left. Next day he introduced us to his older friend and mentor, who laid out wine, cheese and sex in a very French way and we had a threesome.
Two young male friends, said they do everything together. So we took them to our room and were having a foursome, when one of our friends who didn't know about our activities came to knock out our doors. We had to shoo him away, but the cat or the pussy was out of the bag.
A very young man was sitting next to me at lunch. I could not even think of doing anything with him and was trying to be a mother to him. After lunch he says he is a cougar hunter and could he sleep with me? We took him to our room twice that time?
Two brothers were visiting on their own though the elder one was married. We saw the younger one disappearing to someone's room from the hot-tub, so he approached the elder. He fixed a 11 p.m. time. The brothers obviously shared this and the younger would not leave my side from then on. We had to take both of them, one after another.
A gentleman who we have met on every trip, danced all night on the pool deck and gave me the most wonderful caressing, fondling and petting, with his wife keeping a close watch. It was like going back to dating before we were married.
Being asked by accompanied by men at breakfast for a date in the evening, only with wife's permission.
Sleeping with real porn star and sharing his stories.
Any regrets - none except - condom is compulsory. I am hoping someone will come up with miracle STD preventives.
Cuckolding with a couple. Have been offered but could not take the hint.
Any first time swingers should plan for private time afterwards as an affirmation and reassurance. Talk to one another honestly and explain the good parts and the bad and what you got out of it and what you want out of it going forward.
I really enjoyed this thread. Hubby and I are new to the lifestyle and have been looking to bring a guy in. We did our first trip to Hedo (Apr 4-11th). Although it was mainly observing, flirting and sex in front of other people we did not play with anyone else. We decided we will return to hedo and hopefully with more experience and more confidence. This trip brought me and hubby closer together and gave the confidence we needed. We are now planning to go to a lifestyle party so we will see how that goes as we are just looking for males to play we find it is a little more difficult as we would never want to offend the wife in any way, although most lifestyle parties do not allow single guys. I can't wait to see hubby's face the first time I am with another man.
If you will enjoy it, he will enjoy it. Take him in after the event and double it up.
Will never forget our first time. It was during a second visit to a cal swing club ( freedom acres). The first time there we saw a lot and ended up having sex with each other in room with many people having sex and one woman watching us. That was a great experience. The second time was much like the first. We started in next to a couple that was just
Talking amongst themselves. As I was going down on my wife I felt a hand on my balls.
Will never forget that feeling. They asked to join in. She changed places with my wife and I gave her oral. I looked up at one point my wife was laying back against his chest as he massaged her breasts. I was already fucking her when he entered my wife. We took incredible pleasure in each others pleasure. That was over 10 years ago and we will finally be going back to this club this summer. Btw we will be taking our first trip to hedo 1/17
Has the love lady taken the plunge yet? We are apparently in the same boat in terms of swinging. We go to Hedo Sept.8th. and hopefully she will do the deed. We have been to Desires once but found Hedo's atmosphere to be more appealing, what do you like more at Desires? your secret admirer steve
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Lots of solid advice here.
We are still figuring out what our actual plans will be but it's good to have a lot of different perspectives
Maybe the "Lovin' Life at H2!" week February 25 - March 4, 2017 which encourages singles to attend could become a cuckold week where couples bring there third wheel for all to enjoy. . . just a thought.
Going solo to Hedo Ii March 23-26
Interested in MFM, if anyone is interested
Have a great time eveyone
Lkjh
It's really the main reason we go to Hedo for a week of MFM. If she get's BBC great but it's not all BBC. But that's not the entire trip. A MFM interaction is usually random. We have our fun and move on. Nothing more, nothing less...as someone noted.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cerevro
I enjoy her enjoyment, best way I can put it. It's also satisfying to know that others find your choice in spouse attractive. No jealousy here, I just plain enjoy watching the flirtation, etc.
My wife and I are going to take the plunge in December:) I am looking forward to watching her get fucked by someone else! My biggest thing is what happens when it is over? Do they just fuck and Run? I really don't know what the proper etiquette after fucking someone's wife?
I would assume the husband brings the sex with others most of the time and the wife either doesn't or doesn't or it evolves in the wife's mind to a yes. Your thought? If she decides to go for it, after some thought do you think the wives usually want more sex with others or is it a one time thing?
I would imagine it's the mans fantasy mostly and the wife may eventually agree. Wise advice can be "Be careful what you wish for" Sometimes a fantasy is better left a fantasy. In the past we've seen the fantasy backfire with couples and the man didn't like the reality and the woman really, really likes it. He gets all jealous and she wants more and turns into the sex fiend....Usually enough discussion has taken place pre-hedo so couples should be on the same page....but we've also seen new pages written over the years where both partners have different thoughts on what should be acceptable.Quote:
Originally Posted by SXMCOLover
So do you think women have hidden and underlying fantasies about fucking other men?
Read Nancy Friday, she has done more research on this than anyone else. As for myself, yes!
not necessarily, I think Men have more vivid fantasies than women and should be careful on what they wish for...one of my favorite movies is "The Sex Monster" with Mariel Hemmingway ...the premise is his fantasy is a threesome, which he gets, and it turns out she is really,really into girls much to his dismay.Quote:
Originally Posted by SXMCOLover
We ourselves have lived out many fantasies between us...but when they become reality...been there sone that..., our future fantasies become more, shall we say...bizarre. Some fantasies are left in the fantasy realm
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Hey there. With one of our MFM great times, our visitor was super classy. After we had played and had fucked my wife so nicely and filled his own condom, he kissed her sweetly and said "you two look like you want to finish up here. I'll see you later" and he headed back to the group hot tub.Quote:
Originally Posted by nudefun69
After filling the condom, he wanted to come again, this time on my tits. When I was cleaning up, he said "My Mom taught me to clean up after every mess", he cleaned me up and we showered together.
Lkjh
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