If your husband looks half as good as you, it wont be a problem finding partners
;)
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If your husband looks half as good as you, it wont be a problem finding partners
;)
Cop..
He's lost 80 pounds over the last couple of years and down to the weight he was when we married after college. He doesn't have the head of hair he had when he was in college. I don't know many men who do. But he is a better lover than ever, lasts longer and gives me multiple orgasms all the time. He rocks my world more and more.Quote:
Originally Posted by CopNkitten
Sounds like someone I want to introduce to kitten ;)
Cop..
We'd like to meet both you. Do you ever go to Desire?:cool:Quote:
Originally Posted by CopNkitten
No, never been.
Hedo every April with the group and we try and squeeze a second trip in if we can, this year its over New Years.
Cop..
I couldn't agree with you guys more....if you are in love, the size and skill of another guy shouldn't threaten your relationship. I was hoping to watch Kim take a huge one while at we were at Hedo in August. It didn't happen but the whole Hedo experience has really done something for our sex life! Maybe next time☺
There is always the possibilities of next time ;)
Cop..
We'll said! Sex and love are not the same thing. Having sex in love is way more of an intimate connection, while straight raw sex is just for sexual pleasure.Quote:
Originally Posted by CopNkitten
Thanks, just the way I see it.
I like sex with other women, I love having sex with my kitten ;)
Cop..
Sex with other is merely a transaction - you give, you get and go on to the next. It is like eating out - variety is the spice of life and they come with different spices. have fun!
life was meant to be enjoyed.
:)
Cop..
My H spoke about this fantasy a lot. So last year as a surprise I booked a weekend at The Vanilla Alternative. We had a blast! He saw me giving another man a BJ hot as hell then watched as he fucked me. It has raised our sex life big time and I have had a FFM threesomes since. With careful vetting we since had a MMF too. Fucking awesome! Can't wait to go to Spice next year for more fun times.
I hadn't thought about a FFM, but a MMF might be worth a try. Which did you enjoy more? Was your hubby part of the MMF? :sex::sex:Quote:
Originally Posted by Booboo123
I'm totally agree with you, it's perfect see her when someone fuck her. I tried 3 times with my girlfriend's. Two time I shared my girls, it was great to see them when they were ducking my girls hard. Once I shared my girl with a group. It was amazing to see bcs 3 big cock was on my girl. But after that group thing I couldn't f*ck my girl for a week cause of they extremely f*ck hard her ass. But i wanna see and try that group thing if we find new group who has big cocks, hi from greece
Each to themselves. Big cock may be a fantasy, but medically a four inch will do as well, in fact better than a 9 inch. A woman has sensitivity only until 3 inches deep, after that it is nothing. Wear and tear is what you get beyond 4-6 inches. A MMF is great, my husband just watches and even considers it a violation of other man's privacy, unless he is invited to join in. But, he never leaves the room and will like to make a video if the other man agrees. Who wants to eat at home everyday, even if it is great - we all eat out once a while. Whether it is pleasure of the palate or pleasure of the crevice - consider it just another sensitive cavity salivating to be titillated.
This doesn't take into account the A zone, the anterior fornix erogenous zone. It's located above the cervix which is deeper than 4 inches on most women. However, personally I'd rather take 4 inches than 8. Variety is nice though :-) thank goodness for sex toys and open minds.Quote:
Originally Posted by sexylady
I have seen (and posted in this thread about) Mrs. CoupleInMD being fucked by another guy during a full swap. Last weekend she took things to a higher level. As things had evolved at the house party we attended, Mrs. CoupleInMD and I were playing in separate rooms. While I was having a fun time with a particularly oral woman, Mrs. CoupleInMD somehow ended up at the center of an MFM, with another M fondling her tits for good measure! She had a great time riding one guy while another stood up and fed her mouth with his cock- it fulfilled one of her fantasies.
When she told me all about it later, I was "holy shit!" shocked, seriously impressed, and very turned on! Thinking about it the next day, I started to realize that I was feeling a little left out- she had experienced this huge thing, this bucket-list type thing, and I wasn't there to see it. Is that jealousy? Maybe a kind of jealousy, but based on wanting to share the experience with her rather than wanting to keep her to myself. We talked it out, and we both felt better after that. After all, I had also had something of a milestone on my own (first time cumming during a swap- yay!) as well.
I'm not sure what we would have done differently if we had the chance to replay the whole evening. But we will be fine if we keep on talking- and definitely try next time to make me one of the M's in the MFM!
CoupleInMD
We get over jealousies by being there, for each other. When my mouth goes dry, he is there to shoot a shot of scotch into my mouth. When I am having an O, he is holding my hands. When the other M gets tired and I still want it, he takes over. It is as if we are doing it together, we are all 3 merged into each other, there is no I just we. I haven't had one experience, that I regret. All of them are my lovers and love every moment of pleasure we gave to each other. Once it is over, it is over. We go back home and regale over all the good times, until we are back again.
Mr Couple, I don't think that's jealousy at all, just a disappointment that you didn't get to see your wife do something very erotic and something she's been wanting for a while. We've had the same thing happen to us which is why we prefer sticking to the same room, a big part of it for us is seeing our partner in action, we both get a huge charge from that. Sounds like you're definitely on the right track by talking it out afterwards, we love reviewing an evening with each other, what we liked and didn't like, what we would do again or not do, it's a big turn on and usually leads to some hot 'just us' sex.Quote:
Originally Posted by CoupleInMD
Agree with that statement. It's happened a few times to us, talking about it or describing it to each other later is hot. But watching it is much hotter.
I am with u guys... We can't wait to get there.... She also wants an Mmf ..
Wow - great thread for people who are thinking - Cop/Kitten always give the best advice - We had a marriage riddled with jealousy and lack of communication and we were caught up in the making love world of marriage, the previous relationships being what they were, overall not a spot where this would ever be a conversation. We ended up going to hedo in 2009 for our first ever nude resort and this website and the good people on it helped us with advice on how to prepare, act, behave while there. It has forever changed our relationship for the better. We have had many different forms of relationships since. J has had a couple of ff experiences, a couple of mm(not me) experiences , a FFM (me) and just this weekend I watched her suck and fuck a friend of ours whom we met in hedo (09) while he was in town. She is in control on whether or not it happens, she picks what, just be up front and honest with whom ever you decide to play with that you both have the control to stop it(safe) word and you and your partner then must never get upset with each other. I The T in this have always been the encourager for her as she has taught me that it is always just sex - she has made me realize that she loves me no matter what, whether we do or don't do any of this, and she loves me so much more for allowing her to have these experiences, our sex life at home is better than it was 6+ years ago, we cannot be more happy in love and in so many ways we have to thank the off chance we took a risk and went to H3 in 2009. Thanks to all who have posted and replied to some of our earlier questions and concerns! We are only 39 sleeps till we come home again and we are hoping for another experience to share with each other.
Really hoping it happens tonight! I am crazy excited to watch my girl with another man. She's going out tonight and looking good in the hopes of making it happen. The crazy thing is that I am only getting to watch it on FaceTime. I'm 900 miles away but I'm so horny. I know it's unconventional but I just can't wait.
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I'm just going to pop in here real quick and give some of my impressions as the male half of a full-swap couple that's been in the "lifestyle" for about 4 years now.
1) If having sex with another partner is enough to destabilize your relationship, I'd have to wonder how strong it is to begin with. Not trying to sound snarky, but no matter the size, skill, or attractiveness another man or woman brings to the table, I am my wife's life partner (and she is mine), and we have earned our rank through many years of shared joy, shared challenge, and shared experience. No other man held her children as they cried at night, is willing to split chores even-steven, gives her a massage at night before bed even though he is exhausted, etc. Mrs. Timid has had sex with guys who have bigger dicks, more stamina, and certain moves that I don't have, but so what? She loves coming back to sex with me because it means so much more than just the act of sex. If your relationship is strong, open, and honest, you have nothing to fear. Go for it.
2) Watching her have sex with another man is, hands down, something that makes me harder than almost anything else. I mean, I get to watch the most beautiful woman in the world have sex, from angles I can never see when I'm doing it. It's like 3D live porn with my favorite porn star.
3) As I've watched other men have sex with her, I've learned some new moves and some new ideas I never would have thought of before, which I then integrate into our sex life. Did I mention our sex life is exponentially better now than before we became swingers?
4) Being with guys with larger cocks hasn't "ruined" the Mrs.'s Ginny. If she had sex with an 8-incher every day, maybe, but once every few weeks? No, vaginas don't work that way. Childbirth has a larger impact on vagina size/shape, but even that can be 'recovered' from, if you desire such a thing.
5) That being said, if you have doubts whether you are ready, talk it out and wait until you are both more comfortable with the idea. The Mrs. and I have gotten to the point where watching each other have sex (we play same room only) is a huge turn-on for both of us, but it took a LOT of communication and honesty to get to this point.
Swinging is like life, some people just make it more complicated than it has to be :)
Cop..
Actually, Cop, that's a perfect way of looking at it. When the Mrs. and I decided to try full swap, what we learned was this: It's as big a deal as you make it. We made it no big deal between us, so it has never been a big deal for us.
So very well said timidtwo - cheers
I am very interested in going to a adult resort either in Mexico or Jamaica any picks for first timers. We love the sun and fruity drinks and possibly some natural 420 smoke but what we are really looking for is some added pleasure for my wife a few Good Hung men to join in a make her have a wonderful vacation.We have talked and would like to travel during the season when a lot of Italian and European men travel out to the islands for fun. We have had our first experience of a young Bull joining us but thought it would be best on a vacation catering towards adult fun.SO any input would be great as we are need of some time away in the sun soon.We are in the Philadelphia area so in case you know of any parties in our area as well I'd love to hear back.Our first experience with my wife enjoying the pleasure of another man took place this year 2014 about 6 months ago.We had run a post on Craigslist and set up a email address that is not her personal one and she was flooded with emails from many men who sent us a few photos and some idea as to their interests and a brief description of themselves she chatted with about 4 guys and settled on one. Single Football player stocky guy and after about two days of them chatting she gave him our address and he came to the house.We had moved a mattress down into our living room and set up two Go Pro cameras and filmed the entire event for her and I and gave him a copy as well.I watched for most of the time as he had pleasured her for about 4 hours until she waved me over so she could enjoy me while he continued to enjoy her on her knees . It was amazing to watch her in such pleasure and I am happy I had brought up the idea as she clearly enjoyed it and I am open to make it happen again and again for her.I love to buy her Wicked Weasel Bikinis and a vacation to a adult resort gives me a perfect excuse to buy her some new ones.So any input is great input.Sunny whether and some young Hung Men for my Hotwife We are 43husband 35Hotwife
Hedonism is the spot then. 420 is rare to find in Mexico believe it or not
Great true story! Hedo 2 is the place for you both, then! 420 is available and not frowned upon, as long as you are courteous of others who are nonsmokers and limit your use to private rooms, and to open areas away from the main pavilion and the outdoor bars (like the beach or nudeside hot tub).Quote:
Originally Posted by Calicouple4335
Because Jamaica is a British commonwealth country with direct flights from London, Toronto and Montreal, you will find that most of non-U.S.A. guests at Hedo 2 are from Canada and the UK. I have talked with German, Dutch, Belgian, Russian and other European couples at Hedo 2, but they are usually not present in significant numbers like the Canadians and Brits.
All of the guestrooms at Hedo are NON SMOKING and they will assess a fine if there is any evidence that you were smoking in a room.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jamaica Joe
Deana would love to help you out with this wish you have. Only I'm not packing 8" Eric....she have to settle for 6.5inches for me. Deana gets off on watching me please a woman.Quote:
Originally Posted by Erich&Kim
Now your talkn'!! I'm sure you two would give Deana and me quite the show!Quote:
Originally Posted by loverstriangle3
First time for us came after a half dozen laughable attempts. Dinner and wine, food took to long more drinks, then comped a bottle of wine. Much too much for my lovely wife to drink. She rode with guy, I rode with his wife back to their home. I got a great blow job along the way and missed our turn into his gated community. Finally got there to see wife with yet another drink. Big mistake buddy. We hotbed and felt around in the water and by the time it was time to get into bed all four of us, my wife got sick. She did not throw up in bed but did not make it all the way to the bathroom.
Too bad, she felt embarassed, naked cleaning up her puke. Both of us guys kept consoling her and telling her it all OK. Well it wasn't. The guy was great, he was a Man of the Cloth that had another side. He tried to hook up with us many times over the next few years but my wife never got over the embarrassment.
Next time we went at it with far much licker and had the time of our life. We discussed just how far we would go that first time and set some ground rules, maybe about ten. Well we had so much variety of fucking with this other couple and it was on our wedding anniversary to boot, I think we broke at least nine of the ten rules we had both agreed on. It was all good. seeing her with another cock in her mouth while I fucked her was surreal, even more so watching her feet in the air scratching for the moon while our new long time friend fucked the stars into her eyes. His wife was battling a no win situation with my interest in watching my wife get it while trying to show my partner the attention she deserved. Later in our experiences I came to understand why seperate rooms is far more enjoyable for the ladies.
If you are interested in more details or would like to share yours, drop us a line at SoYKnotat gmail. Wish i could figure out how to post a picture or two here. Nolines
We are booking a trip for October this year. I'd love to see my wife give a bj and have sex with everyone in the hot tub stretching all of her holes.Attachment 7675
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I love watching my wife fuck and suck other men. It's like live porn starring the sexiest woman I know who I love more than anyone else on the planet. When playing separately at a party or club as we now allow each other to do, I sometimes get a bit jealous if I'm on the sidelines without someone to play with while she's playing - not that she or the guy are doing anything wrong or that I worry she might enjoy herself with someone else more or some other self imposed mind-fuck-shit like that - but rather because I wish I could get the same amount of attention from women as she does from the men (ok...and women too..lol). That's just the nature of the game though and I accept that. For instance, recently she pointed out a guy she thinks is hot (and even I admit he's a good looking guy) and wham! Before I knew it, she was sucking his cock. I was a bit nervous about that at first, but I hadn't even met the guy. Once I did have a chance to talk to him, I found him to be a really cool dude who treated her and me with respect and I was like "y'all should fuck". She has a great deal more self confidence than I do and it serves her well. I've never let this cause any drama between us or felt the need to stop her from enjoying her experience. I want her to enjoy herself just as much as she wants me to enjoy myself...she's just better at going from "hello" to "let's play" than I am. I'm usually stuck looking for some kind of signal of interest from the women I talk to before making any advances instead of just putting myself out there and asking if they'd be interested in playing at the risk of being turned down. I am just very concerned about being too pushy or too forward - and, of course, don't want to be turned down. But if you don't risk that, you'll never get anywhere. I'm getting better at that. In couple play, I used to find myself feeling a bit competitive with the other guy if we were swapping partners and didn't like it if he could go longer than me or had a bigger cock than me or both, but with more experience I got more relaxed about that. It helped that as we had more experiences I got to be the guy that could go longer or had the bigger cock or both from time to time. Doing my best to make sure the woman I'm playing with has fun and leaves very satisfied regardless of whether that is by fucking her, eating her, fingering her, and/or using toys helps with this a whole lot too. I suppose that there will always be those women out there who only have a good time if your cock is seven inches or more or who you can fuck as long as a pornstar and it's totally OK for them to have their preferences - I know we have ours. We're a lot better at figuring that out ahead of time now and selecting playmates that meet our style of play better - people who are wanting it to be a fun and pleasurable experience who we can joke around with and laugh with while we're playing. Much less serious than the people we originally tried hooking up with who were much more into something akin to passionate love-making than just a roll in the hay. We now avoid couples when we get the impression that they are looking for something they're not getting at home or who are confidence-building before leaving their current partner or who are only going to enjoy the experience if it goes exactly the way they want it to. We call it playing for a reason - for us it's about having a fun time.
Again, kinda simple. As simple as this.Quote:
Originally Posted by LovingLeocouple
Cop..
Here's the thing, though, guys and gals...it isn't about what *I* find hot. Sure, my wife fucking another guy I approve of is hot. Watching her go down on another woman is hot. Watching her give a BJ is hot.
BUT, if it wasn't something I knew SHE wanted, something she actually enjoyed, it would be meaningless to me. See, there's the rub. Ultimately, my wife being with another woman, man, or couple, and me doing the same, is about US. Not me. If you go into the lifestyle as a team, we believe you stand a much better chance of not only surviving,but thriving; reaching heights you never thought possible. If you go into for what YOU - and not your partner - wants, you will fail. Every time.
So, COMMUNICATE. Talk about your deepest fantasies. Then fulfill them...TOGETHER.
That's our two cents.