Thanks for the info Hedo69 & DishnDoc. It's good to know it is available if I need it. Thanks!
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Thanks for the info Hedo69 & DishnDoc. It's good to know it is available if I need it. Thanks!
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And that is INSANELY uncalled for. There is no need to spew negative shit here, or truthfully anywhere. If something isn't to your taste or liking, don't look and keep your mouth shut. Hurting someone else's feelings is only going to paint you as an unsensitive, crass, unfeeling asshole. Congratulations to you on accomplishing that.
Your comments are so un-Hedo like!! If you don't like, keep your comments to yourself. Better yet, go somewhere else that only accepts toothpicks!!!
We are couple who have struggled with weight issues for most of our lives due to health reasons and have only just been able to lose a combined total of about 100 pounds over the last 2 years. We recognise the struggles people have with their bodies and celebrate all types, supporting those who are trying to achieve the "ideal" body type, and loving those who like themselves the way they are.
It takes all types to make the world go around, and in our world, the people we hang with are honest, friendly, unpretentious and non-critical: you 2 don't fall into that category!!
Ha ha ha ha ha Thank you so very much for giving me - and others - a heads up on what kind of people you are. It never fails to amaze me how willing people are to proudly proclaim their hate and small-mindedness, but congratulations on having the balls to do it!! It's actually one of the biggest reasons that I wanted to make sure to post full images here. Now that you know what I look like, you'll be able to avoid me on the ship - and PLEASE DO SO, because I don't care enough about you to commit your images to memory. If you see me enter any venue, or the pool deck, or a hot tub, PLEASE LEAVE immediately!! Not only would I not want to 'disgust' you with my hideousness, but I'm sure we'll all have a much better time without your attitude. :)
Thanks! On behalf of all of the people who 'disgust' John and Heidi, it's nice to see some hotties sticking up for acceptance and open mindedness. The crazy thing is that no matter what we say here, people with that kind of attitude will continue to feel that they have a right to hurl hate at others due to their perceived 'attractiveness'. As I noted above though, I'm sure you're just as happy as I am that they exposed their ugliness well in advance so we can all keep an eye out. ;)
Well said!! We've always felt that the basis of true lifestyle experience is exactly as you've described it - honest, friendly, unpretentious and non-critical. We've always laughed at the belief some people seem to have that everyone wants them and it's up to them to make sure the 'undesirables' know their place. Ha ha ha ha ha Oh, ugly arrogance... it's one of the sad realities of having to deal with humans. You can put all the lipstick you want on an asshole, but it's still an asshole. My mom used to say, 'Pretty is as pretty does,' and I never really understood it until I got old enough to really see how incredibly ugly some 'pretty' people are - and often they're not as pretty as they think they are to begin with! Ha ha ha
I don't know about anyone else, but this is going to be our vacation. If the arrogant assholes who think they're better than the rest of us simply because the size of their asses is tiny like their minds expect us 'disgusting' people to shrink into the shadows, they are going to be sadly mistaken. I'm a big girl and the term 'larger than life' is an excellent description, because I do NOT allow small-minded attitudes to prevent me from enjoying everything I want. I WILL be showing off my ample assets in the pool, I'll be dressing as sexy as I want and flaunting my delicious curves all over the ship, and I'll be participating in everything I want to - that is if I'm not busy playing. ;)
That is waaaay out of line.... To publicly rip on someone because they don't meet YOUR standards is a chicken shit thing to do... Your not interested?..Then keep it to yourself!!...... We have never even met Dish in person, but we can guarantee she will be welcome in our lives before you would even be invited to join a conversation...One of the reasons we love being in the lifestyle is the people...All races, all sizes, all personalities .. We love them all... Beauty lies within, and your comment just showed you have none.... Fucking unbelievable...
Seriously? One of the foundations of the Lifestyle mentality is one of acceptance, open mindedness, and non-judgmental attitudes. Are you legit, or a fake?. Since being positive is innate to me, I'll give you the benefit of the doubt, and conclude that you have not really learned these nuances yet and are still in an embryonic stage of social development. I hope if you review the responses to your post, this may be a life object lesson, and something that will help you grow as a individual and/or couple. You may find your experiences and company very limited if you choose not to grow socially. Bottom line, its ip to you. We're all adults here, and no one will hold your hands. Its up to you to grow.
Great point, Dish. People do us all a favor by letting us who they really are. Love it! It does save a lot of time.
Dish,
I just read the flurry of negativity and support to Kelli, and she wanted me to tell you that she thinks your ass is gorgeous. And, like Sir-Mix-A-Lot, I like big butts and I cannot lie...:devil2:
And in the interested of solidarity, Kelli wanted me to post a pic of her butt...
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We're looking forward to meeting you and the other open-minded people on the cruise :)
Russ & Kelli
If I quote everyone my post will take up an entire page, so I'll just say that I think everyone who has posted in the true spirit of the lifestyle absolutely rocks. I was telling a friend about it and I had to laugh, because I'm pretty sure that what has ensued was not the intent behind J&H's post!! Ha ha ha
The best part is that while I'm very confident myself, I know that there are other women (and men) sailing on the Freedom, and posting on these threads, who are not comfortable sharing their pics here, and are concerned about how they will be received on the pool deck or in a sexy outfit at a theme party, and seeing this amazing outpouring of support will help them to see that anyone who is worth knowing is going to enjoy seeing them having a good time in whatever they're wearing - or not wearing, as the case may be!
AfterMidnight - I am so looking forward to meeting you! I knew from your first post that we have very similar outlooks and you've just proven it beyond any doubt.
Suesbob - You're so sweet - and I don't know about anyone following me (but I wouldn't blame them - have you seen my ass? Ha ha ha), but I'll definitely follow you anywhere you want to take me! Also, you get the award for the funniest response!! Echoes indeed!! Ha ha ha
Luvrman - Nobody could ever doubt your kindness and good nature after that post... and I think I'll just have to show you some 'gratitude' in Vegas next month. Oh yeah... good, hard, deep gratitude... ;P
Russ & Kelli - that is a gorgeous ass!! I thank you both for the compliments and I look forward to comparing ASSets in person. ;)
Dish, looking forward to meeting you as well !
We are still holding out hope that someone hacked into their account and posted those rude comments and it wasn't them...
People in the lifestyle KNOW respect is one of the biggest, if not THE biggest part of being involved in this... If it WAS them that posted it, we can't imagine they are not aware of that ... Seriously, should anyone even have to be told?
Joining this Adult Travel - Interested in list of activities for nude cruise 24 hour schedule.
Well I agree of course, but I've had a lifetime of this stuff. Pretty much all other bigotry has been condemned publicly by most of society and the media, so people keep most of their racism or sexism or whatever to themselves these days. Fat-hate remains the one acceptable prejudice, however. Even children's programming sometimes falls back on fat jokes for an easy laugh. Whether it was actually the account owners themselves or someone else was playing a joke 'on them', the sentiment is the same, and it's ugly no matter how you look at it, so I was thrilled to see the incredibly supportive response here. I stopped caring about anything bullies say to me long ago, but I will always speak out because I believe there should be zero tolerance for any of it. I have to admit also, that I take a kind of twisted satisfaction in knowing that happy people who love their lives are not mean or malicious. I don't enjoy taking joy from someone else's misery, but sometimes I just can't help myself!!
Try the other Freedom thread. There are some posts and links there that will help you find out about the themes and such. :)
Well....after all the great support for us "amble" girls in the world, I'm gonna jump in and toss my pictures into they fray...enjoy...or not....I rock! LOL
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Pre or post cruise idea? There is great photographer in the Miami area who specializes in exotic photography. She makes everyone look their best. Here are a couple of samples taken a few of years ago. These are from unretouched proofs so the final product is even better.
Had these done on our last trip to Fantasy. Hope you enjoy...... :kiss:
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Nice pic's ladies. Thanks for sharing
Delicious!! Absolutely gorgeous!! Thanks for posting those 'examples' of great photography... ;P
Your hopes have been realized!! Those are incredibly enjoyable!!!
You've got that right! You, on the other hand... obviously fabulous to be around!! :)
All, nice pic, attitude is everything.
A new pic... with a great message!
Haven't been on in a while. Thanks for all the "welcomes".
here is one from the 4th of july pool party
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our turn ....... hi everyone :-)
I guess it is time to start trying on costumes. One size fits all.
WOW!! Thanks to everyone who posted recent pics!! What a delicious sight to come home to!!
one more for good measure , we haven't been on much lately but thats gonna change now because the cruise is in sight ! plus we have been missing out on meeting all the great people going ..... see you soon
Shelly, same here! Great pics, thanks for sharing.