opps, meant to mention, I'm working on a blog with some of my experiences as a single guy (all good) at Hedo.
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opps, meant to mention, I'm working on a blog with some of my experiences as a single guy (all good) at Hedo.
I go single and I've told some female friends, single or not, if someone is bugging them at the hot tub just come over and hang with me and I'll see to it they leave you alone. I usually never say a word to the creepy guy, he gets the idea, or he thinks he has the idea I should say.
We had some creepy guy bugging everyone in the tub a couple of years ago and before long I had 4-5 women crowded around. After all the BF's, Husbands showed up and I was again just hanging by myself the idiot comes up to me a asks "how I get some much female attention in the hot tub" . What a hoot, it's his bad behavior matched against my trustworthyness, LOL
But truely it's rare, no creepy guys at all last two years.
Sounds like a fine line between introducing yourself like a gentleman to people you think you might click with - and having people think you are a creep.
I guess it's understandable with all the single creeps ruining things for us nice guys. Maybe I'll wear a sign that says "not a creep" lol:)
But seriously, if someone is offended by an introduction, then wish them a good trip and leave them alone. respect:cheers:
I dont think anyone there would be offended by an introduction....its the creeps that try to sneak a feel in when people aren't parying close enough attention....touching without asking isn't cool..
if someone introduces themselves to us...great!!
love to meet new people and everyone might just hit it off....touching without asking and something else might just get hit
But doesn't security deal with the ones who touch without permission?Quote:
Originally Posted by crazymonkeys
I've heard about the "sex cops". What do they do about the jerks?:cheers:
When we were there they were few and far between.....easiest way to handle them...if they even cause a problem....is just to say no and they will or should back off...there are always a ton of people around so no worries....this is rare, but it can happen and it did with us......
Or grab them by the throat and explain that touching your lady without permission will not be accepted and I hope you enjoy the rest of your evening.
;)
Paul....
Wow.....brings a new light to hedo for us. My girl is very nervous and does not like pushy people at all, and I tend to get a tad defensive when she gives me the look for help. We will be making our first trip in april, after being postponed twice last year. So really hope nothing ruins it.