My long term partner and I have been sharing curiousity about the lifestyle for some time. We've discussed that going on a vacation where we were able to relax, indulge in our voyeuristic side and truly see of this was something we wanted to indulge in was much preferable over going to a local club where we'd feel rushed. We've read a lot of reviews and articles from first timers who all seemed to love getting involved in varying degrees for their first encounter and most say a vacation was the way to go. I'm comfortable in what I've read about places like Desires where you won't feel pressured in to do anything you're not ready for; but, there's other questions, that I'm sure many have had, that don't seem to be addressed, at least not flushed out fully.
Both my partner and I have don't really know how we'd react IN the situation and if jealousy would come in to play and how to deal with it. I'm sure there have been some in the heat of the moment where things seemed great, but afterwards how do couple new (or veterans if they experience this still) to this handle any feelings of jealousy? We both know this is an exercise in trust in the other person and enjoying the experience for what it is, but there has to be people out there that have experienced second thoughts and jealous AFTERWARDS. We just want to go in to this with some tips of how to handle moments like that if it comes up. Also, if you're in the moment and one partner all of sudden just isn't ok with things anymore, how would you voice that without making EVERYONE feel lousy?
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