Originally Posted by
toohorny
On our trips we have run into a number of single males and we have them in 3 categorizes:
Vinny = A guy that thinks he is gods gift to women, when the male half of the couple leaves for a bar run the vinny approaches the female and tries to convince her to go to his room.
Wally = A guy that tends to stare, they do not usually talk to or socialize with many people, they are the ones that JO behind the bushes looking at peeps.
SAM = Single Awesome Male. Guys that are their to have fun, party, scuba, socialize etc. This is the vast majority of sm that we have met...fun people on vacation...in our opinion, they are more than welcome.
As for the wallies and vinnies, if you see a wally looking at you, confront them...they will go back to the bushes to hide. As for vinnies, let others know, the M half of other couples will be more than happy to send them on their way (not fights...but when confronted by 1 2 3 + guys vinnies tend to say fuck off, you women is ugly anyways, etc, then walk away not to be seen for days
As for SAMs, if you are into that....great guys, if not they are happy to laugh, party, and if needed, look out for the girls to protect them from the vinny and wally that may be there.
We have also seen many couple help look out for sf or a married f where the m half is on a bar run.
In a nutshell...do not worry about sm (or m half of bad couples), 99% of the people that go to hedo are great, respectful, and not creepy. The majority of us watch out for each other (on one trip a sm, myself and my wife helped a very drunk sf back to her room. We saw her later in the night, she thanked us, the sm did not try to take advantage of her...he actually saw her at the pool and asked us if we could help.
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