We have been in the lifestyle for 7 or 8 years now. We have by most accounts seen it all and done it all (at least most of what are kinky slightly twisted minds can dream up to date.
As we are always looking for suggestions) We treat everyone the same. Married, single, male or female. We have
never had a problem with a single male at Hedo or at a swing club. Truth is married men have been a bigger pain in the ass then single guys. Some married men think just because they bring a lady, usually a wallflower clutching her handbag, to the party it gives them the right to paw other women in attendance. Single men get it drilled into their heads from the moment they enter a lifestyle club or resort about how not to act. Unfortunately married men think the same common sense rules don't apply to them.
Some one up the thread said how do you know what couples are lifetsyle couples. My advice is to watch. Body language will give it away. Swingers don't have it tattooed on their foreheads but you can pick it up if you are observent. Those in the lifestyle know what we are talking about. As for hooking up with them. Make yourself available, just don't be a nuisance. Be close by but not too close. The rest is up to you. If you're a single male and you see us, say hello.
As for single ladies, if you don't think they can be a nuisance, give it time, you'll meet one. Pushy unicorns can be as big a problem as single males.
Jim and Rochelle
Originally Posted by HotWetWild
We have been in the lifestyle for 7 or 8 years now. We have by most accounts seen it all and done it all (at least most of what are kinky slightly twisted minds can dream up to date.
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