Question...

**bmoc** · 04-28-2010, 06:13 PM

We are heading to Hedonism for the first time at the June and are really excited about checking it out! We are in 40s and something we have talked about before but never tried is being with another couple. It seems like Hedonism would be a great place to try, but after being together for a long time, we are both a little gunshy about STDs. Do people generally have talks with other couples about this...how do you broach the subject without sounding too rude. Is it a big problem at a place like Hedonism?

TIA!

**CandG** · 04-29-2010, 12:24 AM

It's never rude to insist on a condom. Sung to the Bob Marley classic "No Woman No Cry" - "No Rubber No Play". In fact if the other couple doesn't insist on a condom you don't want to be with them.

Originally Posted by bmoc

We are heading to Hedonism for the first time at the June and are really excited about checking it out! We are in 40s and something we have talked about before but never tried is being with another couple. It seems like Hedonism would be a great place to try, but after being together for a long time, we are both a little gunshy about STDs. Do people generally have talks with other couples about this...how do you broach the subject without sounding too rude. Is it a big problem at a place like Hedonism?

TIA!

**dosequisluvr** · 04-29-2010, 10:14 AM

Great advice CandG. If only everyone practiced safe sex .............

**NorthernBoy** · 04-29-2010, 05:13 PM

Originally Posted by bmoc

We are heading to Hedonism for the first time at the June and are really excited about checking it out! We are in 40s and something we have talked about before but never tried is being with another couple. It seems like Hedonism would be a great place to try, but after being together for a long time, we are both a little gunshy about STDs. Do people generally have talks with other couples about this...how do you broach the subject without sounding too rude. Is it a big problem at a place like Hedonism?

TIA!

It is always great and safer to use condoms. With that being said many people always feel the "other" person is the dirty one. Which in and of itself is a safer attitude to have as well...

For the most part we have picked and choose who we play with or not carefully. And many times only soft swung or watched if in doubt. Which once again is safer and a good attitude.

However with all that being said we have never had an STD in our entire life despite Sandy's desire to always have her lover finish off inside of her.

NB