It's perfectly natural to have preferences. That simply means that you are physically attracted most often to someone of a certain race, look, buld etc. Hopefully you're sensitive enough to then need more than that once you SEE someone who meets those preferences and if their personality sucks, you are no longer attracted. (unless you've got a good ball-gag handy!)
I think the "we are all beautiful people" concept comes from the experience that we find others who don't fit our preferences but we allow ourselves to get to know them and find that we are in fact attracted for different reasons despite the fact that they don't match our usual preferences.
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