Hedo Newbie....should I go alone?

[victrola]

I'm newly single after a 23 year marriage and want a place to go unwind. I went to Cancun last year and felt like I was at Disney! Even in adult only pools...little kids were everywhere.

I'm not looking to find a vacation boyfriend...never been in a threesome...just want to hang by the pool, drink and come out of my shell for the first time in my life.

I keep reading that this is a couples resort. Am I going to feel totally like a
5th wheel here?

Thanks for any advice!

[BigDave1964]

I'm newly single after a 23 year marriage and want a place to go unwind. I went to Cancun last year and felt like I was at Disney! Even in adult only pools...little kids were everywhere.

I'm not looking to find a vacation boyfriend...never been in a threesome...just want to hang by the pool, drink and come out of my shell for the first time in my life.

I keep reading that this is a couples resort. Am I going to feel totally like a
5th wheel here?

Thanks for any advice!

I will be making my 4th trip as a single in two weeks. You make your own vacation. Whether it's finding a vacation boyfriend or hanging by the pool. It's up to you. HEDO folks are non-judgmental. You define your fun and have it! I wouldn't expect you feel like a 5th wheel. However, in a pinch that 5th wheel IS important!! (flat tire, scenario..)

Hope this helps.
Dave
H3, March 6-11

[Vikingswede]

You will be just fine.........

Hedo can be as mellow or as crazy as you want it too be! No presure on you no such thing as a 5th wheel at either hedo II or Hedo III I have had a blast at both!

[weliveinvegas]

I'm newly single after a 23 year marriage and want a place to go unwind. I went to Cancun last year and felt like I was at Disney! Even in adult only pools...little kids were everywhere.

I'm not looking to find a vacation boyfriend...never been in a threesome...just want to hang by the pool, drink and come out of my shell for the first time in my life.

I keep reading that this is a couples resort. Am I going to feel totally like a
5th wheel here?

Thanks for any advice!

Welcome to the forums...Hedo is not a couples resort...though there will be more couples than singles there...last year our group had 5 single ladies and 4 or 5 single men in it, all seemed to have a blast and hung out with everyone. You will be fine going to Hedo..

Ivy and Rick
"Once you go, you will know"

[victrola]

Touched by all the responses! xoxo

[deb&john]

Just go and you will the time of your life. Second trip starts 3-20, can’t wait!!!! The best people anywhere.

[Patience]

You won't feel out of place, but if you habg out at the pool you will have a lot of friendly people wanting to make conversatrion. The best thing about Hedo is the friendliness of the people.