This drives me batty!
Alternative lifestyle: a lifestyle outside of the cultural norm
This can include gays, hippies, punks, and swingers
Swinger: a subculture of the alternatives lifestyle.
This can include soft swap, full swap, voyeurism, exhibitionism, forplay, sensual touching, group sex, closed swap, open swap, oral swap, etc.
If you go to Hedo KNOWING what the Hedo lifestyle is about and you are in full acceptance of what goes on there you ARE participating in the lifestyle.
(No doubt some people wind up there NOT knowing what to expect and still others get there and say "this is not for me")
What you do when you are at Hedo determines what swinging subculture you participate in....soft swap, full swap, voyeurism, exhitionism, etc.
Whether you decide to participate or not during any given week doesn't change what you are or what you believe. If I go to Catholic church but choose not to take communion this week, does that mean I'm not Catholic?
I understand that many people still believe that swinging means swapping...but it doesn't any longer with the new age of "soft swingers".
Sensually kissing someone else is no different than having intercourse with someone else in terms of defining alternative lifestyle.
For those who don't agree...if you talked to someone who said I'm not a swinger because I only f*ck other people when I'm at Hedo what would you think of that?
So a woman who enjoys kissing or touching other women, even if it's ONLY when she's at Hedo she is bi.
A couple who considers it normal for someone to be receiving a blow job on the edge of the pool next to them while they enjoy a plate of nachos is part of an alternative lifestyle.
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