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    Question about Attractions???

    Hello to everyone here, I have to say that I/We enjoy this site, all the information, and great people. This up coming trip for us will be our first time to Hedo III, we have been to Jamaica quite a few times, and we are not new to nude vacations or resorts, we have "experimented" with a few other couples, and had alot fun, and hoping to continue and expand the fun on this vacation as well. What I was curious about is, what is the most popular reason for attraction to another person or couple ? Is it ?

    1) the Wife finds the Wife of the other couple physically attractive?
    2) the Wife finds the Husband of the other couple physically attractive?
    3) the Husband finds the Wife of the other couple physically attractive?
    4) the couple finds the other couple funny, or cool to hang with?
    5) the Wife finds the Wife of the other couple "physically attractive" for Her Husband?
    6) the Husband finds the Husband of the other couple "physically attractive" for His Wife?
    7) or is it that some couples just like the variety of others?


    I guess I'm just trying to see how other's think as compared to us....fun for all, all for fun....
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    I vote #1 and #4

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    Cool RE: Question about Attractions???

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    Yes!

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    Quote Originally Posted by hedopair View Post
    Yes!
    Indeed...

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    For us, in all forms of play, we look for more than just the physical attraction part...yes, thats important too, but body parts all match up. We look for more, we want there to be a connection upstairs as well, will we have something to talk about after sex, would we hang out outside of the bedroom..etc...etc...etc..thats just us, your mileage may vary...

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    For us #4 is a must - and then we both find the couple attractive, but attractive is more that just physical. It includes #4, but there is also the inexplicable chemistry

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    From our experiences, 2,3,4 are all the most common. Unless either partner is tipping towards being bi then the second most common would be 1 or 7. As miamivice mentions, sometimes it's just chemistry (or electricity)...
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    Thank you everyone for there input, these threads are so much fun!!!!
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    Sometimes things happen and sometimes not. Just go with with the thought of having fun and you will be welcomed.
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    Quote Originally Posted by keystone View Post
    Sometimes things happen and sometimes not. Just go with with the thought of having fun and you will be welcomed.
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    True, very true, that is my Wife's theory, and usually the best times aren't planned...So I/We definitely have thoughts of FUN!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by keystone View Post
    Sometimes things happen and sometimes not. Just go with with the thought of having fun and you will be welcomed.
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    We second...or third that.... We had no expectations on our first trip and everything definitely fell into place very, VERY well!!

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    All of the above?
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    We think #4 ... its great when you have a friendship with benefits
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    #4 All The Way! The others are all nice in different degrees, but without #4, nothing else matters, and it's just eye candy
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