to DVP or not DVP

[Mars & Venus]

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[cnrinmichigan]

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Iif the Ladies wants to be pleasured by Two Guys than YES I’d love to be that other guy to please her QUOTE]

Yep. I think you'll see the gambit amongst the guys (but a lot of phobia too!). For me, don't care. Completely at ease with who I am. At 45 and sex with my wife for 30 years, not worried the least about what others may think or belive about me. She knows me. I know me. I get no emotional reaction whatsoever about guys. Not turned on. Not interested. Don't care. (Not even sure I care if they are thinking about me.) What does it matter? Whatever makes her happy (or other ladies playing with us). Straight, DP, DVP, threesome, foursome, MMF, FMF--whatever she wants. As long as she's happy (& orgasmic!)

Life is too short. I've wasted too much of my life already worrying about what others think. That's why Hedo is fun--far less judgements than the outside world. -- Mars

Very well said...

[weliveinvegas]

..Life is too short. I've wasted too much of my life already worrying about what others think. That's why Hedo is fun--far less judgements than the outside world. -- Mars

You are ready to ascend to the next level...lol...very well said...

Ivy and Rick
"Once you go, you will know"

[Mars & Venus]

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[weliveinvegas]

You are ready to ascend to the next level...lol...very well said...

"Now Grasshopper, you must snatch this pebble from my hand."
- Mars

Yeah....I was going for the Stargate reference but I suppose Kung Fu works too....as long as its pebbles we will be snatching...lol...

Ivy and Rick
"Once you go, you will know"

[Mars & Venus]

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[wer2gr8tastes]

I (He) just cant imagine it being fun...for anyone participating.

[cowgirl]

This is Cowboy,

I rarely comment as Cowgirl usually frequents this site. However, I can't help but add my two cents in to the DVP question.

First, it is quite obvious that most of the comments come from people that are insecure with their sexuality. Not a good combination with the lifestyle in my experience. Good luck to you.

Second, it is also quite obvious that most respondents haven't ever enjoyed DVP. It happens to be one of the most sensual experiences that I've had the pleasure of enjoying with a beautiful loving couple. If you are ever so lucky to be asked to participate in a DVP and you are not confident in your sexuality (whatever it may be), then it is your loss. You will miss out on something rare and special that is only shared a few times in a lifetime.

It is not gross or sick or homosexual unless your mind and emotions are so limited that you can't consider giving others the pleasure of fulfilling their fantasies and being a part of the fantasy. Isn't that the reason many of us are in the lifestyle in the first place?

I say if you want to DVP then go for it and enjoy it. If you don't then keep your small minded attitudes to yourself and let the rest of us enjoy being hedonistic for the few years that we are on this beautiful earth full of beautiful people.

Namaste

[Stefbo]

DVP would be, fun.....

[cowgirl]

DVP would be, fun.....

Wish we were going at the same time as you guys!! We have been in Aug. but we are heading home in Oct. this year.
Maybe next year!!
Cowgirl and Cowboy!

[caddss]

Not sure how i missed this post for a couple of years. Asked the wife what she thought. No interest in DVP, lots of interest in DP. Why I asked? "just seems to be a lot easier" was the answer. Im straight BTW. Have no problem participating with her in a DP but wouldnt feel the same about DVP.