Not trying to scare anyone, sound stupid, or just plain ignorant, but for those of you who partake in multiple pleasures, what safeguards are there for not bringing home an unwanted gift (disease)? My husband and I are curious to try more things, but fear the dishonesty of other people and if they have been tested? How do you approach a person about stuff like that? OMG I am starting to have diareah of the mouth! can anyone calm my fears?
Use condoms!! Bring your own bc they don't have bowls of them lying around, like they might at a lifestyle club. If you wish to partake of the girl on girl love, use dental dams, if that is your desire. Or just use your hands on others... and don't share toys.
If you are one who gets impulsive when drunk or stoned, don't get so drunk that you forget to keep yourself safe.
I hope this answered some questions for you. Not trying AT ALL to sound condescending, if that's how it came off.
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Not at all, good advice all....Originally Posted by DezelnSteve
Use condoms!!...Not trying AT ALL to sound condescending, if that's how it came off.
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How do you approach someone about that? Simply and direct. Short and sweet. It's much easier than you may think..."we always use condoms"..."I only play if we use condoms" etc. No big speech....just say it simply. Also, don't ASK if it's ok...just state what your rules are.
If someone were to say no, then just say something like, "oh...no offense, I'd love to but we just always use them or else we dont play" and leave it at that.
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we are newbies and have wondered the same thing ... in all honesty it is the major fear in trying something.
We have always considered any extracurricular activities to be between friends- part of that friendship is mutual respect for eachother's safety- use them!
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Tend to agree... ask to and make sure condoms are used. From what we've read, saying no is all that it takes to stop things.
Pick people that offer to use them, will use them and respect you and your limits.
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