Don't worry about things that may not happen. We're not *swingers* either ... in case you are wondering where I'm coming from with my advice...I've also traveled to H2 several times on girls trips without my husband with no problems. Sure I get propositioned but it ain't no big thang....he gets propositioned too!
However, I do sense that you are having trouble around the trust issue.
So what if she gets propositioned....why would this be a problem? If someone asks all she has to do is say a polite 'no thanks'....easy enough. It isn't her 'fault' if someone asks and there is no harm in asking. Most people are smart enough to get no means no. I wouldn't worry about single guys...there might not even be any there. And they mostly get a bad rap...I've met plenty of asshole husbands in my time at Hedo and a few asshole wives as well. We have lots of single guy friends.
As for her being worried about you getting wasted and 'carried away'....well....have you two talked about what you expect and what is okay and not okay. If nothing is okay (ie you can't rub suntan lotion on anyone and vice versa...she can't give hugs to anyone when she's naked, etc.) then be clear about that. And I'll advise you that perhaps Hedo isn't the place for you if that is the case. It's not a good place for couples who have trust issues.
Now I may be totally off base and I certainly apologize if I am, but I would hate for you & your wife (or anyone) to go somewhere and just fight and have a crappy time because it is an atmosphere that you are not comfortable with. So I caution you to really think long and hard about why you are going to a place that you are so worried about.
Again, if I'm off base please forgive me...I'm just trying to gauge what it is that worries you.
That's my JA $.02 and worth every penny.
Liz
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