Body Hair, Mansweaters, Pubic Crops

**caughtyoulookin** · 03-05-2009, 12:50 PM

Is anybody else here disgusted by excess masses of body hair? Women have this down to a science. Nothing beats a nice little landing strip. Now guys, I’ve seen pubes so thick at the nude pool, a dude’s pecker looked like a little bird peeking out of a nest. Ewww. Guys, if you mow that crop, it’ll make junior look twice as long. And mansweaters, (gag) depilatory cream is such a wizz, be like Nike and Just Do It. Anybody else have a like/dislike on this furry subject? Masses of pubic hair always make me wonder, “What the hell lives in there.”

**JAnewbies** · 03-05-2009, 01:11 PM

I 100% agree... no man sweaters. Guys... get a trimmer and do the whole body. Yep... head to toe. 1/4 - 1/2 inch length MAX. Yes, that includes arms, legs, ass and if you do have back hair, take it all the way down. You don't have to shave (how the heck could you anyway) but 1-3 inch hair is gross and I think the girls here will agree.

Also, we're grown ups, so pay attention to those caterpillar eyebrows. They can be trimmed with the same trimmer. 1/8 - 1/4 inch MAX. Uni-brows... Pluck em. They are called eye-brow"S" cause there is supposed to be TWO of them, not one continuous across your forehead.

Hairy knuckles... also out for the new century. Need I even mention ear and nose hair. Please tell me I don't...

I am sure at least one "Paul McCartney type" will blast me, but girls, you owe me one for saying it loud and proud on your behalf.

**pizzadoe** · 03-05-2009, 01:18 PM

I 100% agree with you!!!!! I have seen this way to much at nude beaches,pools,etc. My first thought is always W.T.F. was that person thinking ,getting naked when they have a sqirrel nest in there crotch and a hairy blanket on their back!!!! It does not take much time or effort to at least trim,wax or shave a little. We are not living in a 1970 porno world anymore it is 2009. ( bird poking out of a nest LMFAO)

**pizzadoe** · 03-05-2009, 01:25 PM

My hubby waxes his eyebrows,arms,back and downstairs it took me about a year to talk him into it. He has been doing it about 7 years and gripes about body hair more than me now.

**PolarBearGirl** · 03-05-2009, 01:34 PM

Wondering if you fit in this category? If you body hair blows in the breeze, its too long. If you get out of the pool and you take half the water with you, start shearing it brother!

**nekkidpirate** · 03-05-2009, 01:41 PM

Wow, not at all what Id expect from "Non-judgemental" Hedonites.

For the record, I trim and shave, but thats my choice, I sure as shit would not judge somebody else who did otherwise.

How superficial can you be??

Whats next, oh, we don't like anybody who doesn't have 6-pack abs,

OMG, scars, how can they come here and expose us to that?

Get a grip.

**Savetheturtle** · 03-05-2009, 02:36 PM

I agree 100%, my hubby wanted me to shave which I do now happily. After our first trip in October 2007 my hubby agreed to "trim" everywhere and has been doing it ever since. His back gets waxed ( and he has a sweater) the rest gets trimmed regulary and you know where gets shaved, ( i help

)

He looks 100% better and has mentioned he feels 100% better.

**JAnewbies** · 03-05-2009, 03:55 PM

Hold the phone there nekkidpirate...

Who said we were being judgmental... I like to think of it as opinionated.

Let me preface this with the fact that I am NOT jumping nekkidpirate here AT ALL.

I just want to use this situation to clarify a few things.

Hedo folk are accepting... not blind.

Forgiving... not forgetful.

Human... not robots.

We have opinions, preferences and we even proclaim them with vigor at times. The idea that all Hedo folk are lay down, accepting, do whatever, say whatever, be whatever is the largest blanket of bunk that I have ever seen a group of people hide beneath, or be implicated of being underneath.

This goes way beyond body hair. The idea that Hedo folk embrace all walks of life and all aspects of everything is so silly.

I know that nobody will grab a fist-full of fur and yank, but what's being expressed here are opinions. Grooming tips, suggestions, recommendations, and group preferences.

If you had a booger hanging out of your nose, would you want me to tell you, or just accept you for the way you are and giggle as you talked to other people who also would not tell you??? How bout really bad breath, should I let you in on it???

This is hygiene 101 in my opinion and everyone should take this class.

I don't have to politely talk to you with your garlic breath and a booger hanging out of your nose and compliment the technique, as you braid your body hair to be a good Hedo person...

Brush your teeth, blow your nose and trim that carpet...

**caughtyoulookin** · 03-05-2009, 05:06 PM

I suppose I am being judgmental here, but this is a matter of conviction and I do get to make judgments regarding personal taste. I believe that many guys are clueless concerning the huge excesses of body hair that they allow to grow wild. It bears mentioning because the vast majority of women find it isn't a turn on and way too many guys just don't know. Is your babe's bush 8 inches wide and 3 inches long? Ewww

My woman waxes my brows and does a quick hitter with the depilatory cream where I can’t see. She calls it “man maintenance” and bingo, she rewards me most graciously for my trouble.

Guys, mow the lawn and trim the bushes, it enhances the curb appeal and you’ll get more company. The tree does look taller if you trim away the competition. Nobody likes floss with his or her meal. Here’s to the non-caveman look.

**JAnewbies** · 03-05-2009, 05:23 PM

I wanted to add:

We talk about what is sexy to wear, sexy to do, sexy to watch, etc... Can we not talk about what is not sexy. We haven't said we would rather you lose weight, or stay home. We haven't said to get buffed up with muscle, or stay home. We haven't said to have your teeth capped, or anything in depth. We simply stated that hair was so 1970's and the 70's are over. Bell bottom jeans came back for a while, but 3 inch body hair has yet to make it's social craze return.

I am one of those people that when I see a natural fur coat in the hot tub, I wonder how many of those "Rapunzel Follicles" are tearing loose and going to stick to me. Yeah... there is lotion, jizz and all kinda crap in the water already, but if I can't see it... it isn't there (lol)...

**Just Doc** · 03-05-2009, 06:22 PM

Most hedonites are tolerant of many many things..........doesnt mean we accept them all. I tolerate a full bush.........but I dont like it. I tolerate homosexuality, but it is not for me. I tolerate swingers, but I dont swing. Goes that way for pretty much everything.
Doc

**pizzadoe** · 03-05-2009, 09:32 PM

Its as simple as this would you go a lifetime without ever cutting the hair on your head? No you would not! So being in the hedonist lifestyle take care of all your body hair and not just the hair on your head.

**T&E** · 03-05-2009, 10:39 PM

Ok I guess my thoughts on this as I am hairy. Well I do keep things shaved down low, but unfortunately, I have plenty of hair on the chest, back, and legs.

Sorry folks but I just don't have desire or time to keep the rest of it shaved down, and frankly my wife doesn't care. She accepts me for who I am.

I am not casting stones at anyone what so ever for any of your opinions. But my philosophy is simple. I am a pretty nice guy and will be so shaven or not.

So, that first week of May if you see a hairy guy by the bar....come have a drink and say hello!