How do you approach other people to hook up?

[ScubaSteve]

That said....what's the proper way so that we don't offend anyone?

Stacy, dont worry about offending any single guys by extending an invitation.
If you are interested in a male part of a couple, I would guess that you would want to talk to her first.

Respect



Who would be offended by an offer?
Ciao for now,

[Scott & Stacy]

But what is the accepted approach for me to ask a black male?

[sunrah]

But what is the accepted approach for me to ask a black male?

Go straight forward. Can't go wrong.

[cande6964carl]

Stacy,
Black, white, hispanic, oriental or whatever... we are all MEN!
Walk up make conversation and be honest when the time is right.
No issues with crossing any racial, religious, or ethnic "lines".
IF some small minded person does have an issue with it... then they should keep that to themselves while at Hedo. Hedo is what YOU want it to be! Stacy, if you are into good looking 6 ft big white Soldier's...
Hello, my name is Carl!
NOW THAT'S FUNNY!

The following is not aimed at you it is for ALL to read as examples...
if you are a white female/male from a prejudical upbringing/background/area/family where you would disassociated for dating a black man/woman, but that is what you want... then go and be selective as to what you YOU WANT and go for it.
Same in the opposite direction if you are that same woman/man and also do not believe in interracial... then do not go that direction BUT be RESPECTFUL of those who DO WANT that.

WE ALL have our own personal preferences that guide us in a specific direction. Just because our preference is not that of someone else... NOT for us to judge others! ESPECIALLY at Hedo!

See you at H2 25-31 May 09, for those going.

BTW, I like big boobed blondes but...well... thats not true... I like ALL WOMEN! BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE come in all sizes, colors, shapes and ages!

[ScubaSteve]

But what is the accepted approach for me to ask a black male?

How about the same way you would approach a white guy?
If that doesn’t work, what about one or more of the options listed below?


Hey bro, hows it hanging?

or

Is the sterotype true?

or

Yo, are you the guy they call Horse?

or

Can I try that on for size?

or

Can you make me walk funny tommorrow?

or

Are you a carpenter, because I need to get nailed.

or

How tall do I need to be to get on this ride?

or, or, or….



I hope I didn’t offend anyone.
Ciao for now.

[tbone69]

Stacy,
Black, white, hispanic, oriental or whatever... we are all MEN!
Walk up make conversation and be honest when the time is right.
No issues with crossing any racial, religious, or ethnic "lines".
IF some small minded person does have an issue with it... then they should keep that to themselves while at Hedo. Hedo is what YOU want it to be! Stacy, if you are into good looking 6 ft big white Soldier's...
Hello, my name is Carl!
NOW THAT'S FUNNY!

The following is not aimed at you it is for ALL to read as examples...
if you are a white female/male from a prejudical upbringing/background/area/family where you would disassociated for dating a black man/woman, but that is what you want... then go and be selective as to what you YOU WANT and go for it.
Same in the opposite direction if you are that same woman/man and also do not believe in interracial... then do not go that direction BUT be RESPECTFUL of those who DO WANT that.

WE ALL have our own personal preferences that guide us in a specific direction. Just because our preference is not that of someone else... NOT for us to judge others! ESPECIALLY at Hedo!

See you at H2 25-31 May 09, for those going.

BTW, I like big boobed blondes but...well... thats not true... I like ALL WOMEN! BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE come in all sizes, colors, shapes and ages!

You would LOVE my wife!

[tbone69]

The BIG BOOBED BLONDE PART!

(Crap! Why doesn't the "quote" part work per the individual line like I've seen other people do?)

[cande6964carl]

The BIG BOOBED BLONDE PART!

(Crap! Why doesn't the "quote" part work per the individual line like I've seen other people do?)

Just delete the words you DON'T want to be reposted between the [QUOTE] marks

as for the LOVE... SURE!
The real question is... would she LOVE me?
We as men ALL know THAT is the real question!
What the woman wants...the woman gets!

But like many of the others I meet on here... never get the chance to meet them. 25-31 May H2 while I am home on R&R. Then MAYBE in Oct/Nov after I return from Iraq.

[cande6964carl]

Hey TBONE...
This looks like ANOTHER way to approach people...

Sitting at the bar talking to another and asking what they look for or like...
They answer (the actual answer is irrelevant) and you say...
You would LOVE my other half! I'll introduce you!
Men are mezmorized by naked titties! NOW THATS FUNNY!

you walk up to the bar next to someone you are interested in (or NOT but they are there) and ask ... what drink do you recommend? then order it...
CONVERSATION STARTED! TOO EASY!

See CONVERSATION, then you find out what the vibes are.

[tbone69]

I like big boobed blondes but...well... thats not true... I like ALL WOMEN! BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE come in all sizes, colors, shapes and ages![/QUOTE]

Wow, that was easy. Thanks Carl.

Now, about big boobs......................

[cnrinmichigan]

[QUOTE=cande6964carl;64282]Stacy,


BTW, I like big boobed blondes but...QUOTE]

You said you liked big boobed japanese females? haha

[cande6964carl]

[QUOTE=cnrinmichigan;77006]

Stacy,


BTW, I like big boobed blondes but...QUOTE]

You said you liked big boobed japanese females? haha

CnR do you work for the media??
I just sound bit!

OF COURSE I LIKE BIG BOOBED JAPANESE FEMALES!
Here is the whole answer...
"I like big boobed blondes but...well... thats not true... I like ALL WOMEN! BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE come in all sizes, colors, shapes and ages!"

I think that "R" fits somewhere in that mold!?
OOOOOHHHHH WAIT... she's not a Sumo Wrestler is she!?
NOT into woman who will hurt me in cowgirl or reverse cowgirl.

[cnrinmichigan]

[QUOTE=cande6964carl;77031]

CnR do you work for the media??
I just sound bit!

OF COURSE I LIKE BIG BOOBED JAPANESE FEMALES!
Here is the whole answer...
"I like big boobed blondes but...well... thats not true... I like ALL WOMEN! BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE come in all sizes, colors, shapes and ages!"

I think that "R" fits somewhere in that mold!?
OOOOOHHHHH WAIT... she's not a Sumo Wrestler is she!?
NOT into woman who will hurt me in cowgirl or reverse cowgirl.

No, but I stayed in a Holiday Inn.. haha

Is it November yet?

No, she is no sumo wrestler

[cnrinmichigan]

[QUOTE=cande6964carl;77031]

CnR do you work for the media??
I just sound bit!

OF COURSE I LIKE BIG BOOBED JAPANESE FEMALES!
Here is the whole answer...
"I like big boobed blondes but...well... thats not true... I like ALL WOMEN! BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE come in all sizes, colors, shapes and ages!"

I think that "R" fits somewhere in that mold!?
OOOOOHHHHH WAIT... she's not a Sumo Wrestler is she!?
NOT into woman who will hurt me in cowgirl or reverse cowgirl.

Oh and I also like big boobed blondes as well...

[cande6964carl]

Meet me on the beach Monday November 9th!
You bring the Japanese woman ... I'll bring the Blonde