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    The Lifestyle

    Has anyone started going to Hedo as a non-lifestyler and due to its influences succombed to the other side?

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    Sure...in the lifestyle we say "It only seems kinky the first time"

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    The thing is that no one can go to Hedo (unless they did NO research and have no clue that it's any different from Sandals) without being at least open minded in the first place.

    It's an old speech of mine but being in "the lifestyle" doesn't mean that you swap! There are so many aspects of the lifestyle to learn about and people soon realize they may be open to one or another they just never considered it before.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MaryW View Post
    The thing is that no one can go to Hedo (unless they did NO research and have no clue that it's any different from Sandals) without being at least open minded in the first place.

    It's an old speech of mine but being in "the lifestyle" doesn't mean that you swap! There are so many aspects of the lifestyle to learn about and people soon realize they may be open to one or another they just never considered it before.
    So true.

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    The lifestyle is many different things to many different people. In the mildest sense, simply having sex with your spouse when others are around is considered a "lifestyle" activity. Go from there to girl/girl play, to soft swap (interaction with a member of the opposite sex and no intercourse) to full swap (intercourse) to the full out gang bang.

    And yes, our trips to hedo changed our view of and experience in the lifestyle, but we were receptive to begin with, or we would never have gone.

    I personally think that Hedo in itself is a mild form of the lifestyle, even if there are no extra activities going on. But that may be just me.

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    Hey Lew, you know us and being in the Lifestyle as long as we have (17 years) and going to Hedo but fully aware of what goes on and what dosen't go on, was fun to just sit and watch sometimes. We had our fun thats for sure and made some really great friends there, but if you and your wife or husband are looking to cum to the dark side lol remember one thing newbies COMMUNICATE. If you don't you are doomed, trust us . Good luck to all, going home in May. John & Terry
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    John & Terry I would like to say thank you for you advise and gudiance. As you know we been having a great time and without you both sharing your wisdom with us it would not have been possable.
    Alice & Lewis






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    Hey Lew, thanks & enjoy. John & Terry
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