Hi Folks,
I am a 42 yr old man and my wife is 37. We will be celebrating our 10th anniversary next September (09) and I am considering surprising my wife w/ a weeks vacation at Hedo (2 or 3, not sure).
Neither of us have ever done anything like this, although I am nudist and she has gone to nude beaches a couple of times w/ me.
We are not swingers and enjoy our typical 1 or 2 nights a week sex.
My question/concern... Is this a good idea?
There is alot of talk about discussing it w/ your partner before hand, laying out ground rules, etc. etc.
I think this could be a very sensual trip for two partners who constantly put our relationship last due to life, kids, work etc. etc.
Is it naive to think that she will open up enjoy herself and really get into the place?
Is the surprise approach smart or stupid?
Am I making a mistake by surprising her with this? I don't want a weeks worth of tears and "why did you bring me to this place".
My wife is open minded and not a prude, but is outwardly conservative by nature. I think one of her biggest fears is "what others would think" or similar type of psychology.
Are there any ladies here who were very skeptical, afraid, put off or didnt want to go when presented w/ the idea at first but loved it once they were there??
I would appreciate the perspective of a woman in this situation if possible, but any advice is welcome.
Thanks,
Rob in Vermont, USA
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