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    Single Guy just wanting to relax

    Hi... I am a single guy mid 40's who has never taken a vacation by himself. I am looking for a place where I can have fun, meet people, and just enjoy the beach and the sun. I am not looking for a hookup party place where everyone is competing to get laid, just to relax and make friends. I am pretty sold on Hedonism iii, and am thinking anout a 10 day trip there in the next month or so.

    Is Hedonism the place I am looking for? Is 10 days too much? Any help would be great. Also looking to meet people that may be going down when I am.

    Also, should I risk getting a single room or let them put with me a roomate? Anyone have experience on this?
    Last edited by Felix; 02-13-2008 at 10:36 AM.

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    Ya mon, right attittude, 10 days is just right, if thats what you wanna do, one aside, no matter when you arrive, over 10 days you will have a turnover of guests, neither good or bad, some friends will leave, and some new ones, yet discovered, will arrive. Many different groups headin down the next couple of months, just check the group section on this board, and you will find one that suits you, good luck
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    You can relax or party, it is totally up to you. Bring a book and sit in a lounge chair on the beach. I guarantee you that if you try to do that by the pool, you won't get much reading done. If you want an ultimate quiet, relaxing experience, sit on the beach on the prude side. No one will bother you there. If you can swing (no pun intended) the cost of a private room, by all means do so. Nothing can ruin a vacation more than a horrendous roommate or a roommate who wants privacy when he hooks up with someone.
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    You will have a great time. You can do what you want or not do what you don't want!! My hubby and I made our first trip last year and I had the opportunity to sit and just relax or jump in the pool and have fun.

    You will enjoy your trip no matter what.

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