Quote Originally Posted by jwell100 View Post
As I wander down this curious path of the unknown, it occurs to me that I would be more comfortable if the "playing" occurred in public rather than in private and definitely when I/she am/is present. To me it would be less intimate and more like a wild adult party.

Just my current thought.
I agree the public versus private thing might help take a little of the "seriousness" out of it. Still the key is to keep a connection to each other no matter what you may do with another.