PDA's -- what really happens?

**Guytron** · 08-30-2007, 01:49 PM

Mama and I are interested / curious in going to hedo --- wondering how often do PDA's take place, what really happens, and what is this about the police breaking up the action?

More questions to come.........

**chrisandlizvt** · 08-30-2007, 02:33 PM

Sex police are a thing of the past at H2....at least in the last few trips (4 so far this year)....tho hey, you never know when things will change again at Hedo. As for PDAs...depends on the crowd and time of day and where you're hanging out. The pool & hot tub get the most PDAs but if it's busy the rafts and the beach can heat up too. As for 'what really takes place' ... well, you name it & after 21 trips we've probably seen it....tho it is usually girl/girl & lotsa bjs during the day. Someone else can speak to nights as I'm usually toddling around in the disco/bar/waterslide/pool table area or trying to find that bottomless sinkhole on the prude side.

Liz

**Guytron** · 08-30-2007, 04:44 PM

sorry for being naive -- but if sitting on the beach sunning, and mama decides to give me a bj -- swarms of people around you, or most part people indifferent and not paying attention?

Do men walk around all day with boners? would be a problem for me, not a large tool -- but always pumped up, if you catch me?? Seems like that would be an embarassing situation -- start talking with a new couple -- and wood springs up.

**H-n-J** · 08-30-2007, 07:06 PM

No swarms! Sure, some people will look your way but no one is going to come over. Some people may throw some jokes your way as they are walking past (especially if you have made friends) but it's all in good fun.

No, men don't walk around with boners. Sure, there are some things you see that will give you one but for the majority of the day you will be fine. It's really not as sexually charged as you might think, but there is no way to understand that until you are there.

**Rich&Dawn** · 08-30-2007, 07:07 PM

Guytron brings "up" a good point - seems like if i'm talking to a new couple and find the wifey attractive - i'm going to get hard - is that just something that is laughed off?

**H-n-J** · 08-30-2007, 07:18 PM

I really don't think you will get hard unless the situation is heading toward that direction anyway. After you see naked people all day, just to see a naked woman isn't going to affect you like that.

I know. I know. I'm a woman. What do I know? But I never saw this be a problem for anyone.

Plus, even if it is, chances are you'll be in the pool or in the hot tub. And if not, and it does happen, chances are that someone will offer to take care of it for you!

**Moorerotic** · 08-30-2007, 11:57 PM

Originally Posted by H-n-J

I really don't think you will get hard unless the situation is heading toward that direction anyway. After you see naked people all day, just to see a naked woman isn't going to affect you like that.

I know. I know. I'm a woman. What do I know? But I never saw this be a problem for anyone.

Plus, even if it is, chances are you'll be in the pool or in the hot tub. And if not, and it does happen, chances are that someone will offer to take care of it for you!

Actually H-n-J, your 100% correct. I used to teach nude photography workshops (generally guys photographing pretty hot nude women) and the novelty of the nudity as spectacular as it was (a few former Playboy models) wore off shockingly quickly. Near the end of the shoots guys would be photographing squirrels and talking sports.

Also the number of guys who would pop wood that easily in public is very small, unless we're talking 13-21 year old guys. That why you see the same ugly ass dudes in porn movies all the time, they're the rare few who can perform in public. Most willies are shy in public.

**JAnewbies** · 08-31-2007, 07:27 AM

Originally Posted by Rich&Dawn

Guytron brings "up" a good point - seems like if i'm talking to a new couple and find the wifey attractive - i'm going to get hard - is that just something that is laughed off?

Chances are it won't even be an issue. The environment is more of amazement at first and surprisingly, Mr. Willie doesn't really respond to this situation. I am one of the most sexually charged people I know. I usually can be "up" for fun in seconds, but at Hedo, it just didn't occur unless I was in the process of actually doing something sexual.

Talking to another couple, no matter how sexy the other woman is, is not sexual, unless she is talking about having sex with you, or touching you in a sexual manner. If that's the case, it would be expected for you to get hard and a disappointment if you didn't.

You should focus more on what if you CAN'T get hard when you should, than getting hard if you shouldn't...

**mymachelle** · 08-31-2007, 09:43 AM

Are there private-like places on the beach or anywhere to have fun? Where a select few can go to have sex without watching eyes?

This may be a requirement for me at first...hehe. I'm sure I'll get over my shyness at some point!

Again....newbie questions. Great topic btw!

**uknewbies** · 08-31-2007, 10:09 AM

We were at H3 for a week before we found out about the 5 oclock rule. Apparantly the rule is no sex before 5pm at the nude area's. We tested it out and sure enough the security were fine if we f****d at 5.05pm. lol.
Hubby was very worried about whether his little boy would become big boy at the wrong moment. He found that a quick dip in the water cured the problem, he also did some "think boring things" training when talking to any hot ladies. This worked 50% of the time, for the rest of the time he had to hold his towel in front of him.. Bless!

**JAnewbies** · 08-31-2007, 11:47 AM

UK... LMAO... Not sure how taxes work in the UK, but any time I need the wood to be gone, I just think of the Internal Revenue Service and how much they charge me, and then how much penalty I pay each year from waiting until the last minute to pay them. Nope, wood is no problem as long as the good old IRS thoughts are available...

**sabinaandscott** · 08-31-2007, 01:19 PM

mmm...never had a problem before 5, nor after 5...maybe i should try some morning sex and see if security is on their toes....lol

**zed** · 08-31-2007, 11:14 PM

When we were at HedoII last December there were two couples that put on an
oral show (1 BJ, 1 PL) just about every afternoon in either the hottub or the
wading pool. There were also a handful of times I noticed couples enjoying
each other out on the sand (usually orally) at just about any time of the day.

I also know (from experience) that it was a better than even guess that if a
couple was over at the edge of the pool or the hottub facing each other and
quietly 'chatting' there was probably something going on under the water -
perhaps even the full monty.

As for whether the big guy ever made an unexpected appearance, as others
have said, even with all the nakedness (wonderful in all its variation) and all the
typical sights I just talked about, it never happened to me and I never noticed
it happen to anyone else unless the party involved was - involved.

In a way I know that's really surprising. With all the sexy funness all around
you would expect it to look like a tent peg salesman's convention, but it just
ain't so...

Mike

**Guytron** · 09-01-2007, 07:25 AM

I find that VERY INTERESTING -- we are comtemplating booking a trip to Hedo in 2008 --- but some things have us nervous, but also very curious. Good to hear that sporting wood isn't an issue -- I know that would be an issue for me.

Not into the "swing lifestyle" but the thought of being able to enjoy each other on the beach, in the club ( get a little naughty ) sounds like fun.

Are people nude when hanging out out grotto and pool and beach -- clubs / dinner you have to be clothed?

**JAnewbies** · 09-01-2007, 09:12 AM

Guytron,

Grotto is naked, nude pool and nude beach is naked (obviously)... Prude areas are as they sound... prude.

You don't know me, but if you are here on this forum, you already WANT to go. You are here, because you want us to eliminate the last 15% of concern that you have. Bravo you for seeking help.

Hedo folks are here to help if you need some encouragement and "discourage" if we get the feeling YOU won't like it. We tell jerks all the time... as well as those who obviously seem way to insecure to enjoy themselves, that they may want to consider another resort. In your case, it seems you fit the "nervous newbie mold" perfectly. We are here to cheer you on, because we have been to the bright side and know you will love it as we do.

Do yourself a favor. Set aside your concerns. Go, experience it for yourself. If you don't like it (never happen) then you don't have to return (which you will). We went, because I was determined that I would not let six feet of dirt be put on top of me, before I tried every thing life offered. Skydiving is another issue (lol)...

Yes, I describe all of this with a great deal of drama, but you will too after returning. May I suggest H3, where a clothing OPTIONAL pool is available. This gives you more flexibility for any shyness that may occur (it won't)...

Schedule your trip and let us know when you are going. If you are reading this, it's because you have returned to this board, yet again, for more courage. THAT my friend, means you DO want to go. Don't deny yourself.