Laid back, beach bum guy here with an ultra cool gf. Just found the site and liking it a lot

Trying to plan a Caribbean trip for this fall/early winter and needed some advice (please):

St. Martin or BVI for the cool beach bar 'vib' and the "no shoes, no shirt, no problem" attitude. She is an experimenting exhibitionist and I love to show her off so we make a nice couple! Looking to find some cool beach/dive bar spots to have her sit on my lap, enjoy a cocktail, some great music as well as the view (of her and the surroundings!). Maybe even take in a nice 'local', sensual massage or two Not really into the resort scene but have no problems with those who are. Love hanging with laid back beach types.

Any advice on where to go would be greatly appreciated. Thank YOU!