Public masterbation

**mathsdebator** · 08-31-2009, 04:54 PM

Given my nickname here I feel pretty much obliged to contribute to this thread

I'm hoping to be at Hedo in the not too distant future, the place sounds like paradise on earth.

Now, I'm assuming I'll run out of people to debate mathematics with after 3-4 days, so what then?

I'm also one who is quite easily aroused -- maybe it will be a bit different when actually at the place, but I'm sure PDA's will have their affect -- now hopefully people will just see that as appreciation of what they are doing.

Anyway, returning to the matter in hand, I think ScubaSteve sums it up. Much as I'd enjoy gently stroking Mr Happy, I'd want to be really sure that those I'm watching are comfortable with that first .. indeed, I'd probably discretely ask if ok to watch anyway (I've been to swing clubs quite a bit, and generally find it best to ask first).

By the same token, it is good for people to let others know what they are comfortable with -- as someone said here, no guy at hedo is going to be offended by an invitation to take matters into his own hands. I'm not always best at picking up the signals from people (subtlety can be wasted on me!) -- at one club I was chatting to a couple and they mentioned they were off to find a room.. it was an invitation, but I stayed put -- lady had to come back and ask me more directly!

Really pleased to hear there are those like CastleGirl who get turned on by this, oh and BmyValentine, I'd just be in heaven if a lady starting doing that. Guess there is a bit of a double standard, a guy doing it would not bother me at all either, but I can see how it might be a little uncomfortable/threatening for ladies.

Great topic.

John

John

**INLUV** · 08-31-2009, 05:19 PM

My guy doing it for me yes TURN ON!

**Mars & Venus** · 10-24-2009, 06:57 PM

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**BuddnJanet** · 10-24-2009, 07:34 PM

Originally Posted by Mars & Venus

rub out a jellyfish in public.

-- Venus

That's the funniest thing we've heard it referenced as since 'unwanted children" . Litterally Laughing Out Loud!!!!!

Budd n Janet

**Blueeyes12** · 10-24-2009, 07:48 PM

Nice topic....I would have never dreamed of laying naked and helping myself out in public where other people would see me....but I would enjoy watching females play with themselves..... But, while we were at Hedo III last summer, my wife went to the nude beach while I was hanging out at the quad. She said she sat her stuff down on a beach chair and noticed a man sitting in a chair in the row behind hers. He was reading a book, had a very large erection and was gently stroking himself. She said she was not offended, shocked at first, but went into the water and continued to sneak peeks, she said it was surprising how much it aroused her. I still do not have the gutts to do that, but I was surprised at my wife's reaction. And, I can say that hanging around the hot tubs at night with my wife, I have seen it happen and it did not seem out of place. It was the broad daylight that seemed shocking, but I guess Hedo is a neat place where people can please themselves and others......I guess it is just the situation....And, I did notice my wife going to back to nude beach quite a bit, lol! I think I know why!

**Mystikal** · 10-24-2009, 07:56 PM

I love to squeeze out knuckle children. I don't know how welcome it would be outside. Even though I have no problem getting sex, I still like to spank the monkey once a day. I get off better when I'm watching some hot porn or a couple getting in on. I wouldn't want to make anyone feel uncomfortable though. I have seen some perv types on the nude side, fully dressed, then sneak themselves in the hot tub and get within feet of couples doing their thing while they start sharpening the sword. EEEEEEEW!!! Nasty!!!

I choke my chikcen because it feels good. If I want to put on a show I'll have sex outside. Come watch. Bring me a rum punch when I'm done. Hopefully, I won't be veiwed as a perv if I give it a little rub after some action though. Just don't let off in the hot tub while I'm in there. GROSS!!! I don't wanna go swimming in peoples DNA. Have a white film on the surface of the hot tub or pool. LOL
Until the 26th of December... See yall

**55chevy** · 10-24-2009, 08:08 PM

Now, I'm assuming I'll run out of people to debate mathematics with after 3-4 days, so what then?

I guess as any constipated math teacher would do - work it out with a pencil.

Uh. What sport do you coach????

**katandtone** · 10-24-2009, 10:32 PM

There are some outrageous double standards on this thread and some really quite arrogant attitudes against single guys performing a public sex - when couples doing just the same thing.

If you (as a couple or group) are having oral or vaginal sex in public or the guy/woman is being caressed or stroked in public how on earth can you be disgusted, or upset, or horrified that a single person also indulges in a public sex act? Why is it OK for a couple, or two girls, or a girl to do what they want in public and not a guy? Just how discriminatory is that?

If you dont like guys jerking off at your show, take your show private or go to a couples only resort. This thread is very illuminating for us and I can say to any single guys out there if we having any kind of public sex activity as a couple you absolutely have the green light to jerk off. If we dont like it, we will stop what we are doing and/or go to a room. What is good enough for us should be good enough for you.

**BigDave1964** · 10-24-2009, 11:26 PM

Originally Posted by INLUV

My guy doing it for me yes TURN ON!

I'll remember that!

**minsguy89** · 10-25-2009, 02:59 PM

Originally Posted by katandtone

There are some outrageous double standards on this thread and some really quite arrogant attitudes against single guys performing a public sex - when couples doing just the same thing.

If you (as a couple or group) are having oral or vaginal sex in public or the guy/woman is being caressed or stroked in public how on earth can you be disgusted, or upset, or horrified that a single person also indulges in a public sex act? Why is it OK for a couple, or two girls, or a girl to do what they want in public and not a guy? Just how discriminatory is that?

If you dont like guys jerking off at your show, take your show private or go to a couples only resort. This thread is very illuminating for us and I can say to any single guys out there if we having any kind of public sex activity as a couple you absolutely have the green light to jerk off. If we dont like it, we will stop what we are doing and/or go to a room. What is good enough for us should be good enough for you.

AMEN!! and if I happen to like your technique, I may have you join in...

min