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    Out of place if not into the lifestyle?

    Seriously considering a trip to Hedo in 2019 with a group of friends we’d met at another resort. We’re not into the lifestyle but love to be naked, enjoy the sun and have fun. My GF is a little concerned about pressure to partake,or just being approached while trying to enjoy some alone time. Just wondering if we’d be out of place or are there a lot of others in our situation too. We’re far from prudes, just not sure what to expect. Thanks you.

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    We made our first trip earlier this year under very similar circumstances. No pressure was put on us at all. Anyone who showed an interest just put it out there then left us alone and let us decide. When we were alone and having fun, everyone kept their distance. The only place my wife felt undue pressure was at the foam party from the local single men - beware! Other than that, we had a great, relaxed time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HarborMaster1 View Post
    We made our first trip earlier this year under very similar circumstances. No pressure was put on us at all. Anyone who showed an interest just put it out there then left us alone and let us decide. When we were alone and having fun, everyone kept their distance. The only place my wife felt undue pressure was at the foam party from the local single men - beware! Other than that, we had a great, relaxed time.
    There is absolutely no pressure to do anything you don't want to do. As said by HarborMast' simply suggesting "NO" will suffice. H2 people are very respectful, locals on the other hand, maybe not so.
    Hedo (guests and staff) have a low tolerance for people that are pushy or always in your face. I have seen men that have been annoying, literal shunned from all social interaction. If they become too annoying, Hedo will escort them off the property. Then there is always the "CO" side were almost no one hangs out.
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    No need to worry. You will most likely be asked if you’re in the lifestyle but that’s more so they know. Usually they will still become friends with you without any sexual advances. The ones that ask then walk away are more looking for a hookup so no worries there as they won’t waste time on a for sure no. That said, we’ve found that people at hedo and the lifestyle for that matter are really fun to be around. They just have an outlook on life that’s just fun to be around. So you can feel safe that you both will have a great time.
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    Definitely ,absolutely ,not out of place.
    Have a great trip.
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    You should expect to get subtle advances if you mingle with people (which is highly encouraged) and people will ask if you're open to swinging... just indicate you're not and nearly all guests will be respectful. Also, don't worry too much about the single local guys... There are always a couple of them at the resort, but they're not likely to bother you if you indicate you're not interested in swinging... they'll just move onto other easier targets.

    30% or more of the guests who I spoke with on our trips indicated they were not swingers... so you won't be alone!

    I suggest you look up "come curious" on YouTube. It's two girls who recently took a trip to Hedo and did a vlog series on it... among a bunch of other videos they do, but the Hedo videos are within the last month and should be easy to find. It was well done and would probably be a perspective you'd appreciate.
    Hedo II - WWV/Hedo Amigos - March 14-21, 2020
    Hedo II - March 9-16, 2019
    Hedo II - WWV/Playful Pussycats - April 2017
    Hedo II - WWV/Hedo Amigos - March 2016

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    From my experience of some 70+ visits to Hedo, that many, if not most, of the folks there are nudists and not into any of the multiple forms of lifestyles that do visit there other than being a nudist.

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    Thank you all. Hoping we can make this happen. Sounds like an awesome place and a great bunch of people!

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    Hedo is an amazing place you will have a great time regardless of being in the lifestyle or not. As already mentioned above not everyone that visits hedo are in the lifestyle and the ones who are in the lifestyle are usually very respectful. Short answer you will have a great time either way.
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    I've been going as a single gal for years and 95% of the peeps are just amazing. There is usually a 40/60 mix of lifestyle or not and if you just say you are with each other peeps will understand or like others said they aren't people you want to spend time with. While I still had tons of fun, the only month I was asked multiple times why I went (as a non-lifestyle gal) was January which is considered lifestyle month. Research groups and what their focus is and pick one that is more fun lovin' vs. full on lifestyle so you can meet peeps ahead of time. It is an amazing place - just go and enjoy!

    I have a few FAQs here (also trip reports and pics that may give you the vibe), if they help: https://sites.google.com/view/lovinlife/faqs

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    I agree with all that has been said. There is never any pressure to do anything you don’t want to do. It’s a great resort that many resorts try to duplicate it. We go the end of April every year because we love that time a year and the people. Check out the link below if you thinking of April
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    I agree with all that has been said. There is never any pressure to do anything you don’t want to do. It’s a great resort that many resorts try to duplicate it. We go the end of April every year because we love that time a year and the people. Check out the link below if you thinking of April
    LUSH - Ladies Untamed Sexy Hedonistic - April 16-23, 2022



    Click here to book your April trip!!!

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