Hey we are a mid 20's couple that have dabbled in the lifestyle. It's something to we really enjoy, we don't know how to classify ourselves. So I'm going to ask two questions here, let me first start off by saying that my fiancé is extremely attracted to females and has been with a few here and there. I get pleasure from seeing her with another female. But she can't stand the idea of another man touching her sexually. And she gets off on me being with another woman. So what does that make us? That was question number 1. Question 2 is, she is drawn to the idea of a couples retreat for two reasons. A vacation and for the to be with another woman(where we live not very many woman are into the things we are, we live in the Bible Belt) I wanna make sure I book the right group at the right for the events going on. Can anyone tell me as to which one would be the best for us? If there even is one that would be right for us?