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    Kinky tendencies

    I recently read a trip report that highlighted one of my fears when booking Hedo. Hubby and I are very open, and tend to find locally we fit better with the kinksters than swingers. We fall somewhere in the middle...I have more kinky leanings (rope, impact, submission). We’ve found some swingers to be almost more judgemental than vanilla folks at times. Is there a mix there? Would it be offensive to see someone (very much enjoying) a good ass flogging in the playrooms? I don’t like making others uncomfortable, especially during play, but am hoping there’s a good balance.

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    Well the playroom has a room that is whips and chains so you will be fine to enjoy what you enjoy. On one of our trips there was a couple who walked out into the wooded area every morning and the man would flog the heck out of his wife/gf. That was the routine all week and no one judged.
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    Nope not at all. Wifes not into it but sent me to give a few spankings on different occasions

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    For the most part nearly everyone at Hedo is understanding or at least tolerant of other's idea of fun play. The dungeon in the play room gets plenty of use.

    I've seen people walking around during non kink weeks in full BD/sm wear all week or even just one/two nights.

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    Tylerann,
    You will be free to do what you wish without judgement. I beleive we will over lap Dee and I are there May 5-13TH. Some of our group The Fluffernutters Princess Week Really enjoy spankings and flogging so im sure you will fit right in with us!
    I also think you are missunderstanding the trip report I have read it as well. I believe the the couples dislike of the rope demo was because it was everynight during dinner instead of the house band playing music.
    I hope this helps you to feel better about your upcoming trip.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dee and Bruce View Post
    I believe the the couples dislike of the rope demo was because it was everynight during dinner instead of the house band playing music.
    I hope this helps you to feel better about your upcoming trip.
    We were there with them and that is exactly the point.
    Every night for 5 nights was too much.
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    I think I have seen enough rope play 2 weeks ago to last LIFETIME........
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    Quote Originally Posted by Daveman34286 View Post
    I think I have seen enough rope play 2 weeks ago to last LIFETIME........
    I’m sort of sad I missed it. But I don’t know why the band couldn’t have been playing, too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tylerann View Post
    I’m sort of sad I missed it. But I don’t know why the band couldn’t have been playing, too.
    The rope group had their own recorded background music to help create the mood for the demonstration. That also became rather tedious.
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    Tylerann, I hope we have eased your mind, We are sure you will have a great time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dee and Bruce View Post
    Tylerann, I hope we have eased your mind, We are sure you will have a great time.

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    You certainly did! I tried a multi quote reply but I see now that it may have messed up! Thanks for the replies. Now to decide what toys to bring!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tylerann View Post
    You certainly did! I tried a multi quote reply but I see now that it may have messed up! Thanks for the replies. Now to decide what toys to bring!
    All of them!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dee and Bruce View Post
    All of them!!
    Well now...I do need room for all the rope too. LOL and don’t forget how much room the clothes will take up. Oh...wait...right...there are barely any clothes! Hahah

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    Back in Feb my GF and I brought our own chains...cuffs and hooked up on the anchor points in the BDSM area of the playroom....there was a BDSM class going on next to us in front of about 6 cpls.....as I flogged..spanked...and had her sucking me......later all were having sex and then we joined in....Great Experience.

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    Quote Originally Posted by vctdm View Post
    Back in Feb my GF and I brought our own chains...cuffs and hooked up on the anchor points in the BDSM area of the playroom....there was a BDSM class going on next to us in front of about 6 cpls.....as I flogged..spanked...and had her sucking me......later all were having sex and then we joined in....Great Experience.
    You’re not by chance going back during my trip?!? This sounds remarkably like my evening last night at a kink event here. It’s was the first of my birthday beatings. I’m going to be wearing bruises for my trip for sure.

    Thanks you.

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