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    First time and curious about body sizes

    My partner and I are experienced in the lifestyle.

    I'm very nervous about booking because I am a BBW and I am not sure how well received larger women are received at the resort being a virgin and all.

    We are looking to book our trip for the last week of May but wanted to get some advice from people who've been to the resort before. Will we be lonely there or are there open minded folks who may enjoy a lot of cushion?

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    Registered User MrMrsHedoLvr's Avatar
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    You will be fine.. There will be people of all shapes and sizes. Hedo will be what you make of it. We are bigger and always have a ton of fun there. Very few perfect bodies there.
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    Go and enjoy yourself, as noted above, every shape, size color, religion, political affiliation, and anything else you can think of is there. Very open, and non-judgmental, just go, and have a blast, your worries will subside just as soon as you see the rest of us on the beach or at the pool, Not very many Barbie and Ken's..

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    if someone will not talk to you because you are a BBW then that person isn't worth knowing, just my opinion.
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    I am in the same boat. I’m going this Saturday for the first time. I’ll let you know how it goes!
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    You will be absolutely fine!!! Have fun xo

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    Go into your local Wal-mart or Target. Look around at people,, all ages, shapes and sizes. Hedo is exactly the same way ! No worries at all !

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    We r at Hedo right now. There are all type of people here. All shapes, all sizes, all age groups! Nobody cares what you look like!! Just kick back, relax and have fun! Zero judgement here.

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    Hey! We just got back from our first trip to Hedo. We decided to go naked on day one right away and never looked back. It was AMAZING!!! There is zero judgment from anyone unless it's to tell you that you're beautiful.

    I had serious concerns over being naked and being a larger woman. Your insecurities will melt away the second you walk in the door. There are people of all sizes, body types, and level of comfort. It was the best week of my life. I have never felt better about myself. Go and enjoy yourself. We completely reconnected as a couple too.

    I would love to hear your experience when you return!
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    Don't worry about your shape, all women are beautiful at Hedo. The only thing that makes someone unacceptable is a rude or nasty attitude. I'm also a larger size woman and have always been self conscious about my size, until my first trip to Hedo. We researched the groups that would be there and found one that fit us. Lots of communications with the group members in the weeks leading up to the trip helped a lot. When we finally arrived at Hedo we got an escort to our room from one of the staff heading that way to the nude pool. We were a couple of rooms from the pool which helped. After a brief tour of the amenities in the room he left and I turned to my husband and said now, get naked now before I lose my nerve. We quickly put our valuables in the safe, dropped our clothes and grabbed my pre packed beach bag and headed out the door. There are about 4 steps up to the pool. We paused for a moment, took a deep breath, I grabbed his hand and up we went. Many of our group were already at the pool and when they saw us we immediately heard their hellos. We dropped our bag at a spot they pointed out and got in the pool. Our group made us feel like instant friends and we forgot we were naked. Now I'm counting down the days till my 12th trip back. One of the reasons is each trip my self confidence and self esteem is refreshed. Day to day life can get to you, but coming back to Hedo gives me a reboot. Sorry about the long story, but I hope it gives you more confidence about coming to Hedo.
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    If you worry about your shape do something about it. If you can't do anything just stop worrying. Nobody cares about your shape. It is your body. Use it and enjoy it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ShawneeKat View Post
    Don't worry about your shape, all women are beautiful at Hedo.
    There is nothing better than the freedom Hedo can give. For us all to come together from different parts of the world and know we can come to a judgement free home is amazing. The world is not made up of Playboy airbrushed models but rather real natural beautiful women. Regardless of age or body types Hedo is a place for us to be ourselves confidently.

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    All shapes, sizes, colors, and markings. Just be yourself, don't stress it. The more you stress, the harder it'll be to have fun. I would say 99% of the people I interacted with were friendly. Everyone is there to relax and have a good time. You should too.

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    I find nude people FAR more accepting than clothed people. I'm not in good shape, but I can say I'm more comfortable on a nude beach than I am on a clothed one.

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