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    I think women function differently than men. Men are visual. Women look at a whole different set of things to add up attraction. Besides, isn't the average size in north america somewhere around 5-5.5 inches anyway?

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    Something else I thought of: you say your wife is hot. My wife is also hot (seriously). Both of them became attracted to us and we both sound average sized. That should tell you a LOT right there.

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    " I've had a lot of battles in my lifetime, and most of them have been in my own mind" - Mark Twain

    I've been 16 times and I've seen everything male and female from each end of the spectrum. Some guys have big dicks and some guys have not so big dicks, some have beer bellies, some don't, some folks have had tummy tucks and some have not...No one is perfect, but being a nice, honest and transparent person goes a very long way.

    Just go and forget everything you just wrote. While I'm certain your concerns are valid in your mind, No one else cares...Throw your concerns to the wind, and have a wonderful time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by flfitguy View Post
    " I've had a lot of battles in my lifetime, and most of them have been in my own mind" - Mark Twain

    I've been 16 times and I've seen everything male and female from each end of the spectrum. Some guys have big dicks and some guys have not so big dicks, some have beer bellies, some don't, some folks have had tummy tucks and some have not...No one is perfect, but being a nice, honest and transparent person goes a very long way.

    Just go and forget everything you just wrote. While I'm certain your concerns are valid in your mind, No one else cares...Throw your concerns to the wind, and have a wonderful time.
    Very well said.....
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    Quote Originally Posted by MadlyInLuv View Post
    I think women function differently than men. Men are visual. Women look at a whole different set of things to add up attraction.
    This is defitinitely true for me, the whole picture does the trick!

    You have nothing to worry about :-)

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    Absolutely no issue,if ever you want to hook up for a threesome we are there for you! My husband said the exact words and his dream came true,so if It you are there March 24 to March 31st it could cum true for your too.

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    I'm sure you've read most if not all of the replies below by now, but when they say you don't need to worry - really, you DON'T NEED TO WORRY! I'm not in greatest shape. 6ft 224lbs, and I consider myself average hung. Having said that, there is every shape size and age at hedo, and you get realy comfortable real quick. Hell, I even encouraged my wife to go up to one of the male strippers (there was something going on that week) (a BIG Jamaican dude, who wasn't hung like a horse - horses are hung LIKE HIM!) and i encouraged my wife to stroke him a couple of times (this guy was built like an Adonis) and I can tell you that his cock was bigger than her arm! Important to note - there was a literal LINE of women waiting to grab this guy's cock. Really, go with the flow, talk to you wife, and poof, insecurities will disappear. If not, ask the bartenders for Sex On The Beach, and after you've put a few of those away, "everyting be Irie Mon"
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    Quote Originally Posted by JeffAndAnn View Post
    So, I’m looking for the honest truth.
    My wife and I are 50 years old and we have never been to a nude resort, but have been to topless beaches. We are in the soft side of the LS, she plays and I watch. She is wanting to experience more if we go to Hedonism.

    We are really interested in going to Hedonism this spring. My wife is hot, high energy and very sought after by those that meet her. I love this and support her playing. She has no problem being naked and everywhere we go, she has the best breast in the crowd.
    Here is my concern:
    I am average, dad bod if you will. I’m 5’9” and 190lbs. Not flabby, just a pot belly. I’ve heard the Hedonism crowd doesn’t care. That the body types are very diverse and everyone is acceptable. I can live with that I guess.
    However, part two of my body insecurity; I have a 5.5 inch penis and when it’s soft, it doesn’t show much. I know I could lose some weight and it might help a bit, but let’s be honest, it is what it is. I’m not ugly, but I sure won’t stand out in the crowd. Well, maybe I will stand out and get a few smirks (I hope not). I plan on hiding my waist down in the pool as long as I can, lol.
    I would really like my wife to have fun, but I think I might be the deal breaker if couples, single girls, or single guys want to play with her or us.

    I know this is a major concern for at least a few guys out there. Should I avoid going to Hedonism knowing I may hurt my wife’s chances or do you think LS couples and singles will still be interested in her? She has a fantasy of her and another woman giving me oral, but I’m pretty sure that’s not going to happen. I’m ok not being able to play and will be very happy as long as she gets to play.

    I appreciate anyone’s opinion. Be nice, but be honest. Thanks in advance.
    I dont see an issue here.. Hedo is a very friendly place where everyone is accepted. the tall, the Short, the Larger , the skinnier. those hung like a horse to those not blessed but may have a skill that every woman cant resist. My wife is not a person who judges who she plays with by their size (ofany part of the body) but their personality. Just go and be yourself and I am sure you will have a blast..
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    Honestly I have never looked at a penis size in the 4 trips my husband and I have been and laughed. I have a well endowed husband but there are some sex positions that actually are very uncomfortable for me believe it or not so I like smaller guys for certain positions. And just so you know I love men who are heavier! I am a bigger woman but there are men at hedo who love my shape and size. So go have fun and stop worrying.....I have never seen a measuring tape or set of scales on the nude side!!! XO

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    Hi, Brian and Terri are correct, We just got back a couple weeks ago. You will see all body types. Confidence and honesty will go a long way. Own who you are and help your wife enjoy herself... Wear a smile and engage in conversation, most people at Hedo are very friendly!
    FYI.. Never to early to start going to the gym Planet fitness is great at $10 per month...

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    "...she plays and I watch." Sounds like another couple for cuckold week!

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    great place .. very relaxing and accepting... like any other group setting dont be a douche and you will be fine

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    You will hardly be the fattest, shortest, tallest, SMALLEST, skinniest, or any of those "est" things. Remember Hedo is just like Wal Mart without clothes. Regular people, regular nekkid people who all have their own insecurities upon initially embarking on the hedo experience. You'll find you are more "average" than not.
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    Hold it, hold it. What Walmart are you going to that has 'regular people?' Walmart is like the world has multiple layers of sifters for people that get finer and finer and the Walmart crowd is the first bunch of rocks that don't fit through any of the holes.

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    Tru dat

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