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    Honest truth

    So, I’m looking for the honest truth.
    My wife and I are 50 years old and we have never been to a nude resort, but have been to topless beaches. We are in the soft side of the LS, she plays and I watch. She is wanting to experience more if we go to Hedonism.

    We are really interested in going to Hedonism this spring. My wife is hot, high energy and very sought after by those that meet her. I love this and support her playing. She has no problem being naked and everywhere we go, she has the best breast in the crowd.
    Here is my concern:
    I am average, dad bod if you will. I’m 5’9” and 190lbs. Not flabby, just a pot belly. I’ve heard the Hedonism crowd doesn’t care. That the body types are very diverse and everyone is acceptable. I can live with that I guess.
    However, part two of my body insecurity; I have a 5.5 inch penis and when it’s soft, it doesn’t show much. I know I could lose some weight and it might help a bit, but let’s be honest, it is what it is. I’m not ugly, but I sure won’t stand out in the crowd. Well, maybe I will stand out and get a few smirks (I hope not). I plan on hiding my waist down in the pool as long as I can, lol.
    I would really like my wife to have fun, but I think I might be the deal breaker if couples, single girls, or single guys want to play with her or us.

    I know this is a major concern for at least a few guys out there. Should I avoid going to Hedonism knowing I may hurt my wife’s chances or do you think LS couples and singles will still be interested in her? She has a fantasy of her and another woman giving me oral, but I’m pretty sure that’s not going to happen. I’m ok not being able to play and will be very happy as long as she gets to play.

    I appreciate anyone’s opinion. Be nice, but be honest. Thanks in advance.

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    You have nothing to worry about. The rules work for guys as well as girls. As long as your fun to be around people don’t care what you look like. One plus on your side is you seem very honest and that goes a long way. Just be yourself and don’t worry about how you look. Have a great time.
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    Last twenty plus times we've been to Hedo, we've never seen anyone with a tape measure trying to see if guys 'measure up' -- or limp. Honest: it's not an issue. Most people really are not even 'checking you out'. After an hour or so, surrounded by a mass of native people, people are more involved in getting to know you -- not your shoe size, dick size, or bank balance. So simply forget it. It is NOT an issue -- unless you make it an issue.

    As to the other issues -- you make it what you want it to be. You get involved if you want to, you go slow when you want. You do what you want so long it does not offend or insult other people.

    Read the various posts on this site. If they sound like coming from a place you want to visit, simply book and enjoy -- as the est of us do.

    Now I'll put away my tape measure and simply admire the A cups to Z cups.

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    Don't worry!!!
    Here's the thing with Hedo - male endowment mainly goes unnoticed.
    Nobody is really even looking, let alone measuring.
    What you have heard is true, there are all shapes and sizes and seriously everyone is accepting and non judgemental!

    Go! Enjoy!
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    True story. I went a few times when I was around this guy who I wasn't ever 'active' with and we are good friends to this day. One time after a trip he was joking about the size of his thang - how it was small. I honestly couldn't remember what it looked like because I was so busy laughing and enjoying his company that I only looked at his face. I will say that I did look the next time, but still didn't make a difference to me as far as enjoying his company - just knew he was like the majority of peeps there. We are all different shapes and sizes and it's all 'Irie, mon'.
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    Quote Originally Posted by JeffAndAnn View Post
    Here is my concern:
    I am average, dad bod if you will. I’m 5’9” and 190lbs.
    However, part two of my body insecurity; I have a 5.5 inch penis and when it’s soft, it doesn’t show much.
    We're 57 and went to Hedo 1st time last August. I am 5' 10" and 220# with a 5.5 inch penis also. Penis envy crept in my head, as there were some "huge" guys there. I often suffer from the dreaded shrinkage when I'm soft, but after the entire week I don't feel like anyone judged me, let alone even noticed. Any insecure feelings I had were only brought on by myself, but quickly went away as my wife and I got comfortable with the surroundings (within the 1st half hour).

    With all certainty please don't avoid going to Hedo because of you perceiving your penis size may be a problem....because I can assure you it won't be.
    So from one 5.5 incher to another, you two just go and have the vacation of your lives...we did!
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    No point repeating what's already been said, much more eloquently than I could manage, but you'll be just fine!

    Honestly.

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    Just returned from our first trip, saw all shapes & sizes. The fit & hung were a small minority. You will be just fine. Like everyone else here said, great personality is what the ladies go for at the end of the day, so just be yourself. And you will have a blast.

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    As far as interaction, conversation, hanging out and enjoying the sun, nobody cares about penis size, or being a little chubby and yes, Hedo welcomes all with open arms when it comes to things of that nature. To address your concern with looks and equipment specifically regarding sexual activity, it's going to come down to physical attraction for all involved, just as it would anywhere else, but you said you were fine if only she got to play, so I don't see where you could hurt her chances in any way.

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    Just go and leave all your worries behind....you'll enjoy yourselves I promise!!!!
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    There are always a couple guys there who have very impressive cocks. With these couple guys walking around, it makes the rest of us look the same. The women who are attracted to a man simply for his dick size is the kind of women who I'm not really interested in.

    I had to ask my wife about this topic... this was her response: "I'm not really interested in any guy until after I talk to them, I never look at their cock until I'm already reaching for it, once I'm turned on enough to reach for a cock, I don't care if it's only average".

    My wife also commented that for her, the majority of guys there aren't great looking (changes for any given week though). From a strictly looks perspective, there are more women to look at then men. Luckily, personality goes a long way and levels the playing field.

    You won't be hurting your wife's chances if that's your main concern. Your own chances are the same they've always been, so going won't hurt your chance either.
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    you'll be fine, its a very easy going place!
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    Just relax. I never thought about it and I'm 4.5.

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    Everyone that took time to answer me has been amazing. I feels so much more comfortable.
    I am a little shy, but my wife is an extrovert and makes anyone we talk to feel so comfortable. I will work off of her social butterfly skills and hope that it leads to an amazing trip.
    I will be booking our trip soon. Thank you again for all your kind words.

    I’ll keep reading your posts and listening to your advice, until the day we leave!!!

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