Hello all-
The wife and I are talking about checking out Hedo in the next few months and I just have a few questions and concerns that I haven't come across on this board yet that I'm hoping you all can address. We aren't in "the lifestyle" and probably won't participate in any of that when we are there. We will want to do things around others however.
I think the initial shock of being nude around others will be a lot for her, so I want to make sure she is comfortable. I realize that nobody cares what anyone looks like and "no means no" but one bad incident can ruin a trip for a weekend. How often are there issues with creepers (if we are having sex and all of a sudden there are random men standing over us jerking off) or touching (a random person either grabbing me or her somewhere like the dance club or pool)?
What's up with travel groups? Do you get better deals booking with them? Any recommendations for first timer non-swingers that want to get wild around people, just not physically with others? We are in our late 30s, professional and physically fit. Also, how long do people stay? I was thinking four nights was a good time.
Are all food and beverage included in the cost? Buffet, all restaurants, beer, wine, spirits?
Finnally, if people are having sex all over the place how is cleanliness maintained? I have no problem being around a bunch of naked people and probably won't have a problem being around people having sex around me, but I'm not up for going to the playroom and jumping on a bed that is wet from previous people. Also, I assume the pool sees some action, do people cum in the pool? I assume most people do their business outside the pool out of respect, but I can see people "getting caught in the moment." Don't get me wrong, I would love to finish all over my girlfriend by the pool, I just want to make sure people don't do that in the pool and that it actually is acceptable to do that on the outside area of the pool.
Overall, I'm hoping it will be a good "you only live once" sexually liberating experience for both of us.... and maybe I'll get lucky and she'll want to hook up with another female or two while we are there.
Thanks for the help!
Reggie
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