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    1st Timer Hedo Concerns

    Hello all-

    The wife and I are talking about checking out Hedo in the next few months and I just have a few questions and concerns that I haven't come across on this board yet that I'm hoping you all can address. We aren't in "the lifestyle" and probably won't participate in any of that when we are there. We will want to do things around others however.

    I think the initial shock of being nude around others will be a lot for her, so I want to make sure she is comfortable. I realize that nobody cares what anyone looks like and "no means no" but one bad incident can ruin a trip for a weekend. How often are there issues with creepers (if we are having sex and all of a sudden there are random men standing over us jerking off) or touching (a random person either grabbing me or her somewhere like the dance club or pool)?

    What's up with travel groups? Do you get better deals booking with them? Any recommendations for first timer non-swingers that want to get wild around people, just not physically with others? We are in our late 30s, professional and physically fit. Also, how long do people stay? I was thinking four nights was a good time.

    Are all food and beverage included in the cost? Buffet, all restaurants, beer, wine, spirits?

    Finnally, if people are having sex all over the place how is cleanliness maintained? I have no problem being around a bunch of naked people and probably won't have a problem being around people having sex around me, but I'm not up for going to the playroom and jumping on a bed that is wet from previous people. Also, I assume the pool sees some action, do people cum in the pool? I assume most people do their business outside the pool out of respect, but I can see people "getting caught in the moment." Don't get me wrong, I would love to finish all over my girlfriend by the pool, I just want to make sure people don't do that in the pool and that it actually is acceptable to do that on the outside area of the pool.

    Overall, I'm hoping it will be a good "you only live once" sexually liberating experience for both of us.... and maybe I'll get lucky and she'll want to hook up with another female or two while we are there.

    Thanks for the help!

    Reggie

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    Check out the official Hedonism II website for many answers to your questions. We have only been to Hedo one time and traveled with the Krazy Krewe this past June. From what I've read, the week you travel and the groups there at that time have a lot to do with what's going on. We had some similar concerns and all proved unfounded during our week in June. We wanted fun in a sexy atmosphere and that's what we found. The other groups there at the time, The Two Steppers and The Hedo Rockers were fun to be around. We encountered no jerks during our week other than one harmless old guy who was a little odd but kept to himself. We met many other couples not associated with any of the Travel groups. As for the Play Room, there were two areas, one inside and one outside. The outside area was awesomely romantic with a waterfall and candles. The sheets on the bed areas are changed after every use. Nothing was skanky or wet. Sex under the stars in the warm air was fantastic. Check out the Krazy Krewe week in June. I really hate everyone knowing how awesome everything was. My fear is that it will make it harder and more expensive to book a room there.

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    Hey guys.
    Depends on when you are going but I think booking with a group you have to book 5 days. Could be wrong. You do get better deals with groups so book with a group. As far as people bothering you while having sex, most likely you will not be bothered at all. Not much of a chance some guy is going to stand over you or touch you or do anything while dancing. The more friends you make the more they watch out for you and all the guys watch out for the ladies so she will be safe.
    All the food and drinks are part of the price. They do have s coffee and wine bar that cost extra but it’s very clear.
    Sex in the pool does happen but it’s mostly in the hot tub. We try not to get our hair wet in the pool for that reason but it’s not as bad as you’re thinking it will be. People have sex but it’s not everyone all the time sort of thing.
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    Right, that scum in the hot tub is sunscreen. Actually that is what we believe it to be. Often we have been in the HT and the chlorine level was so high we could barely breath.
    The regular pools are normal clean and crystal clear, and are shut down daily for addition of heavy doses of chlorine.
    To be really fucken honest here, in all our years of going to H2, I've never seen anyone jerking off. I guess it happens, but I've never seen it. There have been "Creeps" [vinnies and wallies] in the HT late at night, but they are usually harmless and not a problem.
    Also the booze that is included is higher end, if you ask for it, and not always the low priced stuff.

    Should add here that some months are more "Lifestyle" than others (Jan, Feb,Mar), depending on your bent, you might want to research what YOU want from this resort, and then find groups that are present at the times you want that are close to your parameters, and see if they fit with what you are expecting.
    OBTW, those of us who spend a lot of time in the pool, appreciate your thoughtfulness, of NOT coming in the pool.
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    Hi Reggie,

    I've been going (mostly as a single gal) for years. Usually in Feb and July. January is the only month where (as a non-lifestyle single gal) I found more pressure to be into things I wasn't. That said I still had a great time and found great peeps to hang with. My favorite month is February because it is still winter here, the weather there isn't crazy hot and the peeps seem more into a fun party/winter escape vs pressure to do anything you don't want to do. I have a mixed peep (both lifestyle and non-lifestylers) group that goes in February and set up a FAQ page here that you may find helpful: https://sites.google.com/view/lovinlife/faqs

    Groups are usually the best way to go as far as rates and support while there. You do need to book 5 nights to get group rates (resort contract requirement), but it is worth going that long because 2 days are travel days and the rest are so fun. For peeps who can only go 5 nights, I usually recommend going Monday-Saturday because those are the best theme nights.

    I've chatted with several ladies who wanted a gals point of view - feel free to msg with any questions your lady has. I def wouldn't still be going if I had to worry about creepers all the time or pressure. It is your vacay.

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    On our first trip my wife was iffy about the wilder aspects oh H2. We realized that there is the option of spending time quietly on the prude side. Once we were there, she was happy everywhere on the resort.

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    Reggie-

    We also dove in headfirst when we were in out late 30's with many of your concerns. General advice: Dont sweat it.

    We've done Hedo (2 and 3) about 10 times now, and yes, you will sometimes find some scumbag jerkoffs hovering over over you while you are trying to have an intimate moment. My advice: they have been harmless in our experience and completely ineffective if you are NOT in a public place. In our experience, they have always been "locals", not guests. Ignore them or go to your room.

    Yes, you will find a bunch of shit floating in the hot tub that you can only HOPE is sunscreen and spilled Dirty Bananas. Get over it, and the take a shower when you get back to your room. Yep, you will also find the odd used condom laying on a day bed. Gross, yes. Wont kill you, Get over it.

    Travel groups are a great way to have instant friends and a "support group" and can provide a good deal financially. This is good and bad. Good that you have a bunch of instant buddies, bad that you have an instant gossip circle. We have met plenty of great people in travel groups; but there is also no shortage of "great people" if you are going solo. Dont sweat it either way. As an aside, we are most likely to go as "solo" in the future.

    Get past all this and learn to relax. It is a great time. We can't wait to get back.
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    We went in April and we found everyone to be very respectful. As for your concerns about sex everywhere, we didn't see much during the day time around the nude pool. We saw someone performing fellatio a few times in the grotto, but it was very discrete. We went to the playroom a few times and I can say that it was very clean and professionally run.

    We made the classic newbie mistake...we didn't take any naps during the daytime and we were very tired early at night. So, we missed the wilder times late night in the hot tube or in the playroom (we went to the playroom early soon after it opened).
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