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    Hello all!

    Hey everyone. We are Jack and Lyn, hence the name Jacklyn Anyway, we are new to the site. We found it while we were discussing on vacation. We don’t even really know how to answer the question of if we are in the lifestyle. We haven’t really decided on a path or plan. We did recently visit a swingers club/hotel in Orlando and had a good time, but rather tame. We aren’t what one would consider a traditional swinger couple. I guess we are leaning more towards a hotwife/vixen lifestyle (assuming we actually understand those definitions). We have questions geared more towards that. See, Jack is definitely a voyeur and has no desire to participate in the physical aspect of it. We’ll have questions about how our lifestyle fits in with the traditional lifestyle and if it is acceptable practice at a swingers resort or lifestyle party for just the female to play.

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    I have found there is no "normal" in the lifestyle.
    Some people fit the mold of the "styles" (full swap, soft swap, hotwife, etc).
    Most just do what fits them.
    Don't worry about what anything is called, just be upfront and honest with potential play partners and do what you enjoy.
    Life is meant to be enjoyed.
    Cop..
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    I would venture a guess that the majority of people asking "newbie" type questions struggle more with how to label themselves than they actually struggle with the activities themselves. I would concentrate more on finding like minded individuals that share your interests than worrying about what to call yourselves. Believe me, if you've thought of it, somebody else has too. The internet is a wonderful tool that will allow you to find others willing to indulge your fantasies. You will be a very popular couple! There will be couples lining up to help take care of your wife while you watch. An extra women is a very hot commodity, you'll see soon enough.
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