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    Newbie and need advice

    Hi,

    So my question is, is it frowned upon to travel here by your self? Would you suggest a different resort since I'm single? I'm a 37 year old single guy. I was curious what I can expect at this resort and I was thinking about going in March. Any tips or advice would be greatly useful.

    Thanks in advance!

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    Registered User happy2us's Avatar
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    Desire is a couples only resort. Hedonism II allows singles. Check the forum there for excellent advice on how to be a good single.
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    You cannot go to Desire as a single. Hedo allows singles, but DO NOT stand near the hot tub and jerk off like a crazed lunatic when I am there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by S_and_M View Post
    You cannot go to Desire as a single. Hedo allows singles, but DO NOT stand near the hot tub and jerk off like a crazed lunatic when I am there.
    There really needs to be a "Like" button for acknowledging posts.
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    Quote Originally Posted by S_and_M View Post
    You cannot go to Desire as a single. Hedo allows singles, but DO NOT stand near the hot tub and jerk off like a crazed lunatic when I am there.
    Well said! Also agreed Habfan68...a "like" button would work well for the posts
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    Single guys do go to Hedo, but being honest, most have greater expectations than experiences. Sure, you can follow the suggestions of being polite, engaging with others and making friends, but the fact is that most single guys consider, or actually visit Hedo with at least a moderate expectation that it's going to be a great opportunity for sex. It may be in some cases, but certainly not in all. If sex is not a primary reason you want to go to Hedo, then yes, you should try it. And if you do get invited into some couple's fantasy, then consider yourself lucky. Unfortunately, you won't get any feedback here from single guys that went and flopped, because if they had a disappointing time, then they aren't going to waste their time on here talking about it when they got back.

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