favorite games or contest at hedo

[happy2us]

If you do those things, you'll be fine. The clothing optional side is really very nice, both beach & pool. You can take nice beach walks across past Sandals etc... Just avoid the nude pool/hot tub from 1-2pm on and you're likely to miss all the fun. Another option is give her 2 shots of tequila and accidentally walk over to the pool and see if a revelation is possible. Stranger things have happened!

[2naughty]

I wouldn't stress too much jam couple just avoid what makes you uncomfortable Sept is not generally overall busy. If you witness something the wife is not enjoying just move along its a large resort. Keep in mind Hedo can also have an effect on people and turn the timid into carefree souls add booze and nudity and sexuality things can go from zero to full throttle quick.

Quick tip avoid mentioning your new at the piano bar. We have seen newbies get coaxed up on the piano for a strip tease

[CapnMorgan]

We're going to be there for 4 nights next week and it sounds like I'm in trouble. I told her if she was uncomfortable with any sex on the nude side we could just move to the prude side to avoid it. At night, we plan to have dinner, go to the shows, the piano bar, the courtyard, and/or hang out near the main bar and pool.

My wife was much the same as yours about pdas on our first trip, however, after the first few days she came up with the expression "if you don't like what you are seeing, look the other way". Now after 8 trips (and another in the planning) she is almost oblivious, in fact we may have even participated...maybe! LOL
Hedo is a large resort and there are always areas you can go to if things seem over the top. With your planned itinerary you should be fine.

[islandlife]

jam couple, you may find that you might have a tiger on your hands once you get there as a lot of newbies find out once they get there and settle in. I'd suggest you both read Dannyboy's trip report he posted, probably the best report ever given. hope you guys have a great trip and all works out ok

[TJ and DA]

Is the car wash a game that's instigated for unsuspecting newbies? It sounds like fun to me but I know my wife won't like it. We're making our first (and hopefully not last) trip next week. We have no problems with nudity, having fun, and meeting people; however my wife does not want to see anyone having public sex. She says she doesn't want to feel like she's in a porn film. I know to avoid the playroom and late night hot tub action, but is there any safe time for us to be on the nude side?

What dates are you going to be there?

[JamCouple]

We're planning to be there the 12th to the 16th but Irma may disrupt our plans if MCO airport closes or if JetBlue cancels our flight.

[FunInNHToo]

Quick tip, avoid mentioning your new at the piano bar. We have seen newbies get coaxed up on the piano for a strip tease

2naughty makes a very good point. If your wife is somewhat reserved, don't mention that you are newbies at the piano bar. Our first trip to Hedo we found ourselves on top of the piano naked after admitting that it was our first trip. We didn't do anything sexual but we were there. We still laugh about it eight years later.

[casey]

My advice is start off on the prude side. The first time we went, we were stayed at the quad at Hedo III. The first day my wife said, I will never get naked. The 3rd day we were naked on the nude side having sex in a bed next to the pool. I didn't force anything, I let her be in control.

[zork]

Getting back to the original question: games....

[zork]

So there is Carwash and Goat Races. That's it?

[arcticwinters]

Is the car wash a game that's instigated for unsuspecting newbies? It sounds like fun to me but I know my wife won't like it. We're making our first (and hopefully not last) trip next week. We have no problems with nudity, having fun, and meeting people; however my wife does not want to see anyone having public sex. She says she doesn't want to feel like she's in a porn film. I know to avoid the playroom and late night hot tub action, but is there any safe time for us to be on the nude side?

I've never seen the car wash being done the two times I went. It also doesn't sound like something I would be into... at least not completely sober. Then again, it's Hedo, so who knows.

PDA and PDS are not uncommon. My first time, I saw some, but after a bit you kind of don't pay much attention to it. My second time, the first with my GF, we witnessed some positions we later on decided to try in our room. Never got to thank the the couple for the demo .

[PNK]

Is the car wash a game that's instigated for unsuspecting newbies? It sounds like fun to me but I know my wife won't like it. We're making our first (and hopefully not last) trip next week. We have no problems with nudity, having fun, and meeting people; however my wife does not want to see anyone having public sex. She says she doesn't want to feel like she's in a porn film. I know to avoid the playroom and late night hot tub action, but is there any safe time for us to be on the nude side?

No, the car wash is instigated by someone in a particular group (who brings along or finds the required supplies) and the activity is 'designed' for the group. If the group imvites 'everyone' to join in, then anyone can join in. I've never seen the activity instigated by staff. It's a simple, fun, getting to know you activity with a twis, and certainly NOT a porno activity.

As to 'safe time', every time is safe. YOU do what YOU want, and when. What others do is no concern -- unless you show interest. Most of the time Hedo is a liberally minded resort, not a sex camp. And always, No mean NO thank you. If you wife is uncomfortable with Hedo activities -- simply stay away from them. The 'clothing optional' side can be as laid back (and boring) as Sandals.

You and your wife can go sit naked under a tree, on the beach, beside the pool, or off on one of the many lawns -- any time you want. You can be alone or with others. You can join in, watch, be a part of a casual conversation, have a drink, go for a swim -- all the things normal people do at a 'normal' resort. And enjoy yourselves. Most of us do -- except when we jump into the car wash or some other silly game.

Enjoy. We do

PNK

Hedo Trip # 24? Nov 29 - Dec 6

[Tryinit]

The group we have travelled with played lots of great games. YSW is definitely a lifestyle group so keep that in mind. Some of my favourites were the goat races (already discussed) the cock and tail party (men are given tickets and the ladies perform small favours to get them, like a back rub or a flash...or more) I also liked the couples speed dating for quickly making new friends.

[Bigredtatts]

We went 2 years ago for our first trip . We did the car wash and she was up with the ladies in line . We had fun . When you go and participate . As a couple we now our boundaries and we both have fun . As a couple you need to talk to each other before going and understand what you may see and what may go on . If you don't talk and have a open mind. May be a long vacation .

[jsquared]

We loved the Car Wash! Huge group, probably 40+ ladies on the pool deck lined up face to face. The men pass through the line soaped up, and get 'Clean' as they go through the line. Of course, when I got to the point where my wife WAS in the line, I found she wasn't there! She and another 'brush' decided they needed some one on one maintenance right next to the line. We go with Topless Travel and they are always very inclusive, inviting anyone to play, regardless of what group they are with or not with a group at all. The 'Dirty Perv' group is the same - very inclusive. Glad to be there with both groups next week! Ring toss was a lot of fun! Wife wears a strap on and she tries to catch your rings! Also - the water gun was awesome. The girls kneel at the edge of the pool - asses facing the crowd with army men on each cheek. The partners go down the line and try to shoot them off with a water gun. Great fun!!