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    I wish I knew!!!

    Sorry if this has been asked before but I thought it would be interesting to see everyones answer. What is the one thing you wish you knew on your first trip to Hedo?

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    Don't think I really needed to know any more, found forums, maps, and read everything I could get my hands on for the prior 6 months before our first trip to H3.
    What I didnt know we enjoyed finding out on our own.
    But maybe that's just me.
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    For me personally, I ended up not being too interested in dressing up for the theme nights. So...pack less. I really was naked most of the time. Clothes meant it was time to eat lol.

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    Cop has a great answer....and for me it was that I did not pace myself for 10 full days of activities in and out of clothes and costumes.

    I feel I may have missed some of the most exciting times exploring and experiencing Hedo as a newbie. Too much sun, drinks, and lack of sleep.

    Still, the greatest week+ I had experienced up to that point and the reason I've been back 13 times....

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    I don't think theres anything... we packed as if we was going anywhere... we packed to much stuff if anything.... after 13 trips and another one soon we are starting to learn how to pack...lol....
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    I took the complements from men and women at their face value, I wish I knew it meant, can we PLAY?
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    @sexylady - does it really??

    Approaching trip #2 only yet but I too learned about packing lighter! Will I succeed this time? That is the real question. Lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by Fitprincessk View Post
    @sexylady - does it really??

    Approaching trip #2 only yet but I too learned about packing lighter! Will I succeed this time? That is the real question. Lol
    As I got more experienced, that is what I learnt. There are exceptions of course, so one needs to tread carefully. Depends on the conversation. After a compliment, I would just say thanks a lot and move on. Now I say, are you hitting on me, or is that a suggestion, and mostly - it is. So the trick lies in how the conversation goes. One time, we crossed the path of a guy 4 times, same evening - he said, are you following me? I said, no but are you? He said yes, sort of. I said follow me then, my room number is..? That's how it goes.
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    Two things. First is what to pack. We overpacked for our first trip. On our second trip, we scaled back a lot and were able to use just carry-ons for 5 days - and that included theme outfits.
    Second, we echo SexyLady but I think it was because we were too shy both trips, and weren't quite ready for the subtleties of conversational meanings at Hedo. We were also not ready for how genuine and warm everyone was. There's something about being naked and uninhibited with like-minded folks that removes barriers. We just weren't expecting that level of friendliness and connection. Makes you wonder why people can't be like that in everyday vanilla life.

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    If you want to party late, afternoon nap time is your friend.
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    Yeah! We nap every afternoon, But we don't really party late, mid night to 1.00p, max.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sexylady View Post
    As I got more experienced, that is what I learnt. There are exceptions of course, so one needs to tread carefully. Depends on the conversation. After a compliment, I would just say thanks a lot and move on. Now I say, are you hitting on me, or is that a suggestion, and mostly - it is. So the trick lies in how the conversation goes. One time, we crossed the path of a guy 4 times, same evening - he said, are you following me? I said, no but are you? He said yes, sort of. I said follow me then, my room number is..? That's how it goes.
    Thank you!!! Truly valuable information.

    I agree - the subtleties were lost on me last time. I took the compliments at face value. I also admit I usually view compliments as "they're just being nice"
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    Lots of great information here, thanks everyone!!! We are really getting excited and talk
    About it every day. September 12th can't get here soon enough.

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    Wish we would have known about this place a decade sooner!

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