For some of us, that would be considered assault, so I would not call it bold. I would think that most women, and probably most men, would want to be asked for permission before someone enters their "backdoor" or any other part of their body. Especially since a good amount of lube is needed for that particular situation.
Glad you shared this story so that newbies especially will be careful about what they do at Hedo. I have never felt unsafe at Hedo, but I do worry about those that drink too much and may not have their wits about them. Please make sure that you and your partner take turns drinking so that one of you can be aware enough to keep both of you safe. Luckily, the gal in this situation was "into it", but many others would have said it was rape, and they would have been in the right. It is really sad that this particular guy had no qualms about entering another person's body uninvited. Hedo doesn't need that kind of publicity. Those of us that love Hedo need to all work together to keep it a safe place for all of us to enjoy.
I love all kinds of sex, but I am not sharing my body with people unless I give them permission. And now that I am a newlywed, the only one who has that permission is my Canadian cowboy! We love to be watched but that is where we draw the line. I am really glad now that we never left our door open to our room.
Cowgirl
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