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    How many start on the prude side?

    I was wondering how many of you on your first nude resort started out by hanging out on the prude side first then gathering courage headed to the nude side?

    My wife and I will be trying our first nude outing at Hedo some time soon. We were thinking of hanging out on the prude side to see how it goes but I've read a few people say they regretted it afterward. I'm thinking maybe now we should just jumping in the deep end and have fun, but I was curious how many people started out on the shy side and if there were many regrets for not jumping straight in.

    Any stories about your first time might be fun also.

    Thanks.

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    Our opinion is 100% lose the clothes and head straight to the nude side. The faster you do that the faster you will enjoy the real magic of hedo and that is being able to shed all your self image issues in a totally non judgemental environment. If, after an hour, you are still apprehensive then by all means head back to the clothing optional side. However that is probably not going to happen. Youre far more likely to be happy you didn't wait
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    I've never met anyone who regretted getting nude on arrival, but plenty who didn't and waited days. Don't wait. fill your bubba keg with alcohol and get naked.

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    Yep, the nude side is where the party is all day. The Prude beach and pool are nice too, however you can sit (probably alone) clothed on a beach anywhere. Our first trip we arrived quite late, found some food and went to bed. We got up for our first day, had breakfast and a couple dirty bananas before walking the beach. At the sign announcing the nude side we swallowed hard, sucked it up and stripped right there. Neither of us had ever set foot on a nude beach, been to a swingers party or anything of the sort. We wil be back in March for our third trip and can't wait to party with all our sexy naked friends. If you are the type of people that bought a vacation to Hedo then skip the waiting and jump in the nude pool ASAP. You will not regret it and will wonder what you were worried about.

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    On our first trip anywhere I told my wife to pick a location and was shocked and delighted she picked Hedo. However, when we got there she just didn't feel comfortable going to the nude side. Our first night we went "skinny dipping" in the ocean and that was considered adventurous. We were nearly halfway through our week long stay without hitting the nude pool. We were in the gift shop and I overheard a woman talking to a couple that just arrived and were also hesitant to hit the nude side. She said something to the effect "you guys absolutely have to get over there and get naked. There will be no regrets and you'll have the best time ever." I quietly asked her to have a word with my wife and it changed everything. Bless you April!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by magjoy View Post
    I've never met anyone who regretted getting nude on arrival, but plenty who didn't and waited days. Don't wait. fill your bubba keg with alcohol and get naked.
    Agree with this Magjoy. Have met several people who wished they would had found the nude pool sooner.

    It is the strangest, most amazing, feeling. You arrive, get settled in the room. Then you know you have to "jump-in". So, you get naked in your room, look at each other, and step out of the room for the first time, letting the outside air hit you, not seeing any walls around you. I still remember the feeling of standing outside naked and having the hotel room door close. Even after seeing other naked people walking around, we felt like we were doing something wrong. lol

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    Our first trip to Hedo, we hit the nude beach about an hour after arrival, and the nude pool about an hour after that. We never looked back - best decision we made on that trip, lol. When we first got to the nude beach, we were nervous, so we found somewhere quiet just past the sign to get naked. I was looking around to see if anyone was looking at us, turned back around, and my wife was standing there naked. It was all downhill from there.

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    I remember my first trip. I was hesitant to "dive in" to the nude side, but as a two-time visitor to Club Orient in St. Martin, Haulover Beach in Miami, and other venues in the west, I felt prepared to handle Hedo. I went to the "library" my first trip after arriving to MBJ off the redeye on Air Jamaica from LAX. Got my room around 8:50am and stripped to head to the beach. Took about two hours before my thirst propelled me to get up, and head to Delroy's for a drink. Once that happened, I was hooked.

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    Our first time was on our 3rd trip to JA (2009), we stayed at Breezes next door (because it was so close to Hedo), we planned on going over one day just to see it for ourselves, it took 3-4 days just to get the nerves up to walk over to "the other side", finally one afternoon we did it! We walked on over and asked the front desk if we could get a tour of the place, they found one of the ECs (Triple X was his stage name) to give us the tour. He started by showing us around the main dining area, bar, courtyard, spa, etc. Then we went down to look at the rooms and on to the prude beach. By this time we had already seen a few naked bodies and lots of women with see through cover ups, etc. It no doubt seemed and felt a little different at this time. Finally we finished the tour by heading over to the nude beach and bar (we were still fully clothed) and WOW!, we certainly weren't at Breezes anymore. The atmosphere, the music, the people, oh all the naked people - they were everywhere - laughing and talking and drinking and playing and just having a great time, it was like no other place we have been before when it comes to an all inclusive trip to the Caribbean or any place for that matter. There were all types of people, body sizes, ages, color, every type you can imagine - this was the only part that was like other resorts, they were all everyday people on a holiday. So as we stood there for a few minutes, still somewhat in shock, Triple X says, OK that concludes your tour, now you guys are welcome to stay and hang out and get some drinks but you have to get naked or you can head back to the prude areas. Neither one of us ever being naked in front of other people ever, looked at each other and said you want to get a drink? Mainly because we didn't want to leave this awesome naked party and head back to our dull, boring Breezes next door, there was just way more to stay and see here. That was it, we stripped right there together, it felt different at first, but I would say that in less than 5 minutes that all passed and we fit right in feeling quite comfortable. That said, we highly recommend just going and getting naked right away, you know you are going to do it, so just get it over with ASAP, it will all feel right pretty quickly. Happy to say, we are returning for our 8th trip to JA, 5th trip to Hedo March 15-25, can't wait!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by gailvin View Post
    I was wondering how many of you on your first nude resort started out by hanging out on the prude side first then gathering courage headed to the nude side?

    My wife and I will be trying our first nude outing at Hedo some time soon. We were thinking of hanging out on the prude side to see how it goes but I've read a few people say they regretted it afterward. I'm thinking maybe now we should just jumping in the deep end and have fun, but I was curious how many people started out on the shy side and if there were many regrets for not jumping straight in.

    Any stories about your first time might be fun also.




    Thanks.
    This was our first nude resort. Took the wife some years to get up the courage to go. First day we were in H block. After entering our room, I opened the curtains, and saw a naked couple walking towards the nude pool. I turned to say to the wife "there are naked people here". Before I could finish, all I saw was her white naked ass heading out the door.
    The reason people regret going to the prude side first, is that when they realize how much fun the nude side is, they then realize they wasted half their vacation on a deserted beach, at a nudist resort, when the party was over at the nude side. If you want to know what being nude at a beach is like, go to Wreck Beach off point Gray, this summer. That's being nude. Then throw in the party of your life, and that's what Hedo is like.
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    Wow, great stories from everyone. It's nice to read about how everyone had different experiences to start with.

    Keep the stories coming.

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    We started out on the Prude side...ONCE and only once...lol.... Our favourite spot is H block....
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    We went to Hedo on a day pass. I was the one that wanted to go to Hedo (her) but once we got there I was starting to change my mind about getting naked. I look over at my husband and he was dropping his shorts. I thought I guess we are doing this and pulled off all of my clothes. We never looked back. We are returning in April for our second trip. We love H block also.
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    Quote Originally Posted by gailvin View Post
    Wow, great stories from everyone. It's nice to read about how everyone had different experiences to start with.

    Keep the stories coming.
    Lots of different experiences to start with but the same experience to end and that getting naked is where it is at! Jump in with both feet and enjoy!
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    Seems these days the prude side is more like an optional area for getting nude which is fine, but this discussion gives me fond memories of the quad at H3 where it was always optional.

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