The "life style"…
I wonder where this type of "life style" will be in 20 years.
There are so many parallels between the gay community in the 60’s,70’s, and 80’s and the "life style" of today.
1. It is considered a taboo
2. We keep it a secret (in the closet)
3. We don’t tell our friends and family (or very limited few)
4. We don’t tell our employer
5. We travel to far off places to be ourselves (or have secret house parties)
6. It is socially not an acceptable practice
7. Some people consider us sick (something must be wrong with you) or morally corrupt
8. The church frowns upon it
9. We have secret ways of letting others know we are in the life style
10. We get stereo typed (everybody fucking everybody without consideration)
11. Being complimented for not fitting into stereotyped roles (eg "I never would have thought you were in the life style, you seem so normal"!)
I could have written the same list about the gay community 20-30 years ago, and ALL points would have had equal value.
At one point, we must have the courage to say this is the new normal. We should stand up and not accept the criticism which puts us into a box.
Just my 2 cents…
The chemist and the flyer
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