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    Etiquette question

    We are heading to Hedo for the first time in 4 weeks(1/12-1/19). Our question is: What is the etiquette with PDA(or PDS) with your spouse outside of your room? IE: the play room, hot tub, beach, hidden nook, etc. Is the guy expected to wear a condom to keep body fluids contained? Any tips on this or other suggestions to help keep the resort "clean"? Thanks.

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    I'm no expert on the official etiquette, but personally, I would prefer if guests kept their jizz away from where I could touch it... especially if I could accidentally touch it... or swim in it... I don't want to swim in it!

    I know there will be some floating around in there and nobody catches it all, but I expect people to respect others and not make a mess. If you need a condom to do this, or your towel (which you can replace at any time), then that's what you need to do. I wouldn't want to discourage you from enjoying any PDS, just make an effort to clean up after your fun. Most people like to watch, but not necessarily participate in your money shot.

    I guess the proper etiquette is similar to most things regarding sex... if you don't have consent to put your jizz somewhere, then keep it to yourself
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    Quote Originally Posted by ShyinOntario View Post
    I'm no expert on the official etiquette, but personally, I would prefer if guests kept their jizz away from where I could touch it... especially if I could accidentally touch it... or swim in it... I don't want to swim in it!

    I know there will be some floating around in there and nobody catches it all, but I expect people to respect others and not make a mess. If you need a condom to do this, or your towel (which you can replace at any time), then that's what you need to do. I wouldn't want to discourage you from enjoying any PDS, just make an effort to clean up after your fun. Most people like to watch, but not necessarily participate in your money shot.

    I guess the proper etiquette is similar to most things regarding sex... if you don't have consent to put your jizz somewhere, then keep it to yourself
    Well put..... I totally agree with your reply and it couldn't have been said any more correct than that....
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    As long as you keep it out of Ontario's hair, it's all good.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CopNkitten View Post
    As long as you keep it out of Ontario's hair, it's all good.
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    You've got that right...if they swallowed there wouldn't be an issue...lol...just saying..
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    Quote Originally Posted by ShyinOntario View Post
    I'm no expert on the official etiquette, but personally, I would prefer if guests kept their jizz away from where I could touch it... especially if I could accidentally touch it... or swim in it... I don't want to swim in it!

    I know there will be some floating around in there and nobody catches it all, but I expect people to respect others and not make a mess. If you need a condom to do this, or your towel (which you can replace at any time), then that's what you need to do. I wouldn't want to discourage you from enjoying any PDS, just make an effort to clean up after your fun. Most people like to watch, but not necessarily participate in your money shot.

    I guess the proper etiquette is similar to most things regarding sex... if you don't have consent to put your jizz somewhere, then keep it to yourself
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    I would also like to add a lot of times for a lot of couples the sex or oral sex is just forplay for later. Not all men get off during the sex acts.
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    Just put it somewhere that others don't have to touch it. Towels are abundant at Hedo. LOL
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ontario View Post
    You've got that right...if they swallowed there wouldn't be an issue...lol...just saying..
    This should be official policy.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mac_r_a View Post
    I would also like to add a lot of times for a lot of couples the sex or oral sex is just forplay for later. Not all men get off during the sex acts.
    Agree with the above lots of times it's just foreplay and most go back to their rooms to finish in comfort. Usually when it's done to completion its in a lounger with a towel down so nothing is flying all over the place. I Hope!
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    Quote Originally Posted by ShyinOntario View Post
    I'm no expert on the official etiquette, but personally, I would prefer if guests kept their jizz away from where I could touch it... especially if I could accidentally touch it... or swim in it... I don't want to swim in it!

    I know there will be some floating around in there and nobody catches it all, but I expect people to respect others and not make a mess. If you need a condom to do this, or your towel (which you can replace at any time), then that's what you need to do. I wouldn't want to discourage you from enjoying any PDS, just make an effort to clean up after your fun. Most people like to watch, but not necessarily participate in your money shot.

    I guess the proper etiquette is similar to most things regarding sex... if you don't have consent to put your jizz somewhere, then keep it to yourself
    I think you may have missed our intent on this question(as your reply seemed harsh) We just wanted to know what the norm was, as we also don't like to touch or swim in others messes. But it's all good, we will just wait tell we get there and figure out for our self if there are areas we should just stay clear of. PLUR

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rondog View Post
    I think you may have missed our intent on this question(as your reply seemed harsh) We just wanted to know what the norm was, as we also don't like to touch or swim in others messes. But it's all good, we will just wait tell we get there and figure out for our self if there are areas we should just stay clear of. PLUR
    ... it wouldn't be the first time I misunderstood a question. Sorry if the reply seemed harsh... it wasn't my intent.

    as far as areas you should stay clear of... I think it will become fairly clear once you get there and look around for a couple hours.
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    Quote Originally Posted by 2naughty View Post
    This should be official policy.
    I agree with this WholeHeartedly! Mrs. NN will not get in the hot tub at night because she can't see the "floaties" and it's really cramped my expensive vacation that always ends too soon!

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