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    My favorite thing about Hedo is that everyone can be who/what they are and they will be accepted. It is seriously the least judgmental place on Earth that I've ever experienced. It's why my husband and I keep coming back.

    The first year we went (2006), we were in our mid-30s, had only been married a few years, and had been together a decade. True, our "stats" were not as impressive as yours (congrats on 30!). We decided it was time to move out of our comfort zone, too, and we weren't sure if we would swing or not, but we had talked about it, and we were both open to to seeing what would happen. We laid ground rules. If either of us was uncomfortable for any reason, that would be the end of anything.

    Turns out, we were both pretty comfortable with what happened! It was an amazing experience, and discussing everything ahead of time (what we wanted, what we didn't want, what the ground rules were) made for the perfect time. For example, when in the hot tub, a (seriously hot) woman invited my husband back to her room because what she was interested in was full swap (switching partners for the night in separate rooms), he already knew I was not open for that (nor was he in the reverse) and declined. Before I went to Hedo, I would have never have known how I would have felt in that situation, and I would have expected to be jealous. What I found was that because we had laid ground rules and trusted each other to follow them, it was just a hot conversation in a hot tub. He introduced the idea of a threesome to her (which he knew I'd be into), she wasn't interested. So, while I was flitting about the hot tub being sociable, this was all going on, and when I returned, they laid it out, and I complimented her on her good taste in men, expressed my disappointment it wouldn't be a threesome, and then we all had a great time together for the remainder of the trip with no expectations and no judgment.

    That's my long-winded way of saying that I agree with the other responses and that you never know what you're going to feel until you're in the situation (it turns out I got hot instead of jealous, lol!), make sure you have ground rules/expectations laid out, and Hedo is the best place to explore these things because everyone is so nonjudgmental and welcoming. You'll know if it's right.

    Good luck and have fun!

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    Thank you all again for the advice. I have wondered if we did Sandals would we be sorry about being next door. It sounds like Hedo is just a relaxed place where you can be you. Great info piper and I agree, really will not know how you will react until in the situation. Glad to hear the pressure is not really there. I've seen a few threads about locals/single males coming in as well, do they constantly offer their services? I've heard they constantly offer weed upon landing and since I've not done that since HS I will probably take them up on that offer. Its been 30 years so why not

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    Quote Originally Posted by breakaway23 View Post
    I have wondered if we did Sandals would we be sorry about being next door.
    It sounds like Hedo is just a relaxed place where you can be you. Great info piper and I agree, really will not know how you will react until in the situation. Glad to hear the pressure is not really there. I've seen a few threads about locals/single males coming in as well, do they constantly offer their services? I've heard they constantly offer weed upon landing and since I've not done that since HS I will probably take them up on that offer. Its been 30 years so why not
    "I have wondered if we did Sandals would we be sorry about being next door". YES
    "It sounds like Hedo is just a relaxed place where you can be you". YES, and if you want the "dead" feel, you can relax on the "Prude" side and pretend you're at Sandles, LOL no one will bother you.
    "I've seen a few threads about locals/single males coming in as well, do they constantly offer their services"? Well, yes, put if they get to pushy or bother the guests, they are escorted to the front door.
    "I've heard they constantly offer weed upon landing". Sometimes YES, but I would suggest you wait till you get to the resort. If you buy bad product at the AP, you are stuck with it, with no recourse. If you buy bad product at the resort, you know you will be meeting the same beach walker the next day. Also beware of police sting operations at the AP.
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    So, how was your first trip to Hedo? Will you go back? We will begoing back to TTR just to see the new place, but we will be back to Hedo for sure.
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    Did you guys end up going to Hedo? If so, how did you like it? We miss that place......
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    Quote Originally Posted by breakaway23 View Post
    Thank you for all the great replies. Yes, I've read some here about the groups and I checked the Hedo calendar and it looks like the week we are looking at going, week of May 14, 2017, nothing is listed. Does that mean no groups are attending and its just a variety of people there? I believe its Sexy Silver week a little earlier in May. As mentioned above, we also thought about going to Sandals and doing the day or night pass to check it out. We are pretty open-minded but again this would be a big step from us taking long weekends in a cabin in Gatlinburg, TN, we were the only ones naked in the pool or hot tub

    What is the main difference in Hedo and the other clubs in Mexico?
    Did you guys end up going? If so, how did you like it?
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    We went first time for our 25th and have been back 16 times since then. We have evolved from being shocked to sharing everything with naked strangers. If we didn't get introduced to Hedo, life would have been incomplete. There was never any pressure to do anything, yet things just happen - it is the two best weeks of our lives every year.
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