i can speak for myself here...(i am the "she" in this couple). i know i would be absolutely flattered to be asked by a nice woman to enjoy a little threesome action! and i think i can speak for my "he" half and say that he, too, would be thrilled and honored! i absolutely agree that the chemistry must be right and all parties should feel comfortable enough just talking, sharing laughs, drinking, enjoying time together for a little bit before taking the plunge and doing the deed. there also should be an agreement between the two parties of the couple that they both feel an attraction to the invited third or perhaps they should forego the opportunity. at least that's how it is with us. and i feel that if she doesn't want to play with him, then i won't want to play with her. i prefer, actually, that he is more attracted to her than i am so he gets some pleasure and satisfaction from it.
the worst thing i think is for a third or another couple to exclude one of the participants from playing. all should play or none should play! just my opinion...
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